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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Personally

It means no, a definite no.

Trying to convince me I mean anything other than no, wouldn't go well for the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no , end of ! And that applies for men and women.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No is always a no

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

If a no has been given. Then it's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no from me

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm stubborn no is no

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

No means no. That's why I would never drink etc to be quite clear headed and certain of my actions

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I can be very persuasive

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It depends a lot on the lady

If she’s blonde. Sorry ladies. It normally means ask me again when I can give a fuck

If she’s brunette. Sorry again ladies it normal is a polite way of saying fuck off cunt I ain’t touching that’s

If she’s dark / Black so so so sorry ladies

It can only mean one thing. No you can’t stick your cock in my bum now go fuck off back to your wife

So I’m told by a friend

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no from me

And a respond message of "oh come on you dont know what you're missing"

Gets a response of "how can I miss it when I dont want it?!!"

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Apparently a deleted message means no. I’ve met several women who deleted the my first message even a relationship. Most can admit they don’t read and just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Dude, you had to ask? Respect is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends a lot on the lady

If she’s blonde. Sorry ladies. It normally means ask me again when I can give a fuck

If she’s brunette. Sorry again ladies it normal is a polite way of saying fuck off cunt I ain’t touching that’s

If she’s dark / Black so so so sorry ladies

It can only mean one thing. No you can’t stick your cock in my bum now go fuck off back to your wife

So I’m told by a friend "

. Yeah I think you could be spot on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear OP, respect will get you a long way in life. That includes respecting other people’s right to decide for themselves what they want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah go on. Go on.

Go on, go on, go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes."

Apparently it's acceptable to persuade her. I didn't hear how it's acceptable but it is by all accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

"

Big box here, wanna share

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

NO can only ever mean NO

That said, if you're into BDSM and you are engaging in that type of activity, does NO still mean NO? Or, does only the 'Safe Word' mean NO/STOP?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Big box here, wanna share "

Good man. This should be fun.

Whos keeping count?

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes.

Apparently it's acceptable to persuade her. I didn't hear how it's acceptable but it is by all accounts. "

I read it is acceptable to persuade others as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a well known fact that being told no can be counteracted by throwing confetti and shouting 'SURPRISE!'

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Personally I get her to smell my handkerchief before she even has chance to answer.

60% of the time this technique works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no from me

And a respond message of "oh come on you dont know what you're missing"

Gets a response of "how can I miss it when I dont want it?!!"

"

That's awesome!! And if they keep insisting they get blocked

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i say no i mean no

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Big box here, wanna share

Good man. This should be fun.

Whos keeping count?"

Popcorn.. noooooo.. chocolates work better.

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"Personally I get her to smell my handkerchief before she even has chance to answer.

60% of the time this technique works every time "

Ted is that you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If someone tells me no I respect their wishes. If they were playing games, tough shit.

If I tell someone no, I expect them to respect my wishes.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Yeah I'm pretty sure it means no. You shouldn't pressure people into things they dont want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Big box here, wanna share

Good man. This should be fun.

Whos keeping count?

Popcorn.. noooooo.. chocolates work better. "

Can I change my mind, I'll have chocolate instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No always means no, no matter the gender

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Big box here, wanna share

Good man. This should be fun.

Whos keeping count?

Popcorn.. noooooo.. chocolates work better.

Can I change my mind, I'll have chocolate instead. "

Traitor. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a no as no! End of

Myself i tend go with maybe before deciding lol x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Op you have yourself listed as straight on your profile profile, I'm sure with a bit of persuasion you would change your mind surely that's not a hard no?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Unless the OP meets vicky pollard. Yes but, no but, yeh but.....

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey


"Op you have yourself listed as straight on your profile profile, I'm sure with a bit of persuasion you would change your mind surely that's not a hard no?"

Boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Op you have yourself listed as straight on your profile profile, I'm sure with a bit of persuasion you would change your mind surely that's not a hard no?"

Some guys have tried

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes "

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We're gonna need more popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no is an absolute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to convince me otherwise is a massive turn off, so yes, no means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me. "

Then someone like myself witnesses the situation and he winds up with broken bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me.

Then someone like myself witnesses the situation and he winds up with broken bones "

Ha we’ve all been there !

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It depends a lot on the lady

If she’s blonde. Sorry ladies. It normally means ask me again when I can give a fuck

If she’s brunette. Sorry again ladies it normal is a polite way of saying fuck off cunt I ain’t touching that’s

If she’s dark / Black so so so sorry ladies

It can only mean one thing. No you can’t stick your cock in my bum now go fuck off back to your wife

So I’m told by a friend "

What does red hair mean then? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what it is. If you offer me cake I might say no but it's not going to take a lot to get me to change my mind.

If you ask me to do something I don't want to do or makes me feel uncomfortable then when I say no, I mean no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me. "

oh are we saying no to the kiss or no to having sex tonight ? Or is it no you didn’t want sugar in that coffee ! Gosh it’s so confusing.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes."

This only applies to chocolate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me.

oh are we saying no to the kiss or no to having sex tonight ? Or is it no you didn’t want sugar in that coffee ! Gosh it’s so confusing. "

If you can't handle basic consent and communication, then may I suggest that you go somewhere and learn to handle it before you hurt someone or get yourself into trouble? Definitely can't handle adult interactions if you need such remedial education.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Should start a 2umlimited tribute act

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"It depends a lot on the lady

If she’s blonde. Sorry ladies. It normally means ask me again when I can give a fuck

If she’s brunette. Sorry again ladies it normal is a polite way of saying fuck off cunt I ain’t touching that’s

If she’s dark / Black so so so sorry ladies

It can only mean one thing. No you can’t stick your cock in my bum now go fuck off back to your wife

So I’m told by a friend

What does red hair mean then? X "

Us gingers are far too polite to even answer. But if we did it would probably sound something like

“ o so you want to have sex with me. Well go find a feckin dyson cuz I ain’t sucking that “

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By *llenGTWoman
over a year ago

East/West Mids

When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes."

Idiot

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please. "

Share mine. I'll nudge over

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By *llenGTWoman
over a year ago

East/West Mids


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

Share mine. I'll nudge over "

What flavour?

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"NO can only ever mean NO

That said, if you're into BDSM and you are engaging in that type of activity, does NO still mean NO? Or, does only the 'Safe Word' mean NO/STOP?"

In my world, “yes” means yes, “no” means “you can do better, harder!!” And Peaches means no.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

Share mine. I'll nudge over

What flavour? "

Toffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no until you kiss me for the first time ! Then it ends up being yes

No, then it's fucking listen to what I say, get the fuck off me, plus shoving you the fuck off me.

oh are we saying no to the kiss or no to having sex tonight ? Or is it no you didn’t want sugar in that coffee ! Gosh it’s so confusing.

If you can't handle basic consent and communication, then may I suggest that you go somewhere and learn to handle it before you hurt someone or get yourself into trouble? Definitely can't handle adult interactions if you need such remedial education. "

Think you’re taking what I originally said out of context !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you say no does it mean no... cos I think with a bit of persuasion you'll say yes."

if i said NO i mean NO

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

Share mine. I'll nudge over

What flavour?

Toffee."

That will be a no then, I think ....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

Share mine. I'll nudge over

What flavour?

Toffee.

That will be a no then, I think .... "

Is that a NO no, or a YES no?

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


" When I say no I definitely mean, no, for now. Pass the popcorn, please.

Share mine. I'll nudge over

What flavour?

Toffee.

That will be a no then, I think ....

Is that a NO no, or a YES no? "

Chocolates trump popcorn.. try the chocolates man.

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