FabSwingers.com forum: Need advice on threat and ransom threat

By *isstonguetasticjo OP Woman
over a year ago

widnes

Hi folks I need helm

Been chattin to someone on a fifferent sight

We exchanged numbers

I sent him a few piccys

3 ones on here

His brother had his fone saw piccys and is now threatening to post them publicly

But is asking for a ransom of 500.00 n he wont do it

Wen I said I'm reporting him to the police

He replied he will just say I asked him for money for sex

N now he wants the money back

I never even met the prick

But now the fella I was chattin to is askin me to psy half with him to settle this b4 he takes it further

WHAT DO I DO

I DONE NO WRONG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report to the police as you said, he'd have zero evidence you asked for money.

Which isn't a crime anyway, just a crime to pay for sex.

You've evidence of the extortion attempt, which is a crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is illegal- go straight to the police.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Only option is the police

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Police without a doubt... do you still have messages of him saying he wants the money?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's a scam. Report to police. DO NOT give them money. Quite frankly, if they are threatening to out you, they are doing this to themselves in the process. Do you have pics of them? If it were me, then I would say I'd do the same if they make mine public. Report the profile to admin. If you still have the messages, take screenshots for evidence.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Absolutely. Straight to the police.

They'll deal with the idiots.

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Absolutely a matter for police attention.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't pay and report to the police. Capture all the evidence and data.

I understand it's easier said than done with such a sensitive issue. But for everyone's sake we need to stand up to these vile people. The chances are they wont, especially if the police are involved. I think they'll just move on and try and find someone who will not go to the police and pay up. If for some reason they do what's the worse thing? Yes I know its unpleasant but you are and adult, as for the rest of us. Your not doing anything wrong. So big whoop if people see you naked or know your a swinger. Yes its unpleasant and not what you want but sometimes standing up to bullies comes at a cost (worst case scenario).

It's your life and choice at the end of the day but the above is how I see things.

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By *hrisAndKatieCouple
over a year ago

stevenage

It's a scam - block him and move on - I mean your pics are already on the internet in your public photos sooooo yeah hes got nothing

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Definitely a scam and I would imagine both of them are in on it, the one offering to pay half is not really paying half he's just making out that he's not part of it. If you did nothing I doubt you would be exposed but it is perfectly within reason to report the whole situation to the police. They will take it seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt his brother took his phone. It sounds like a scam and nothing will happen if you block him. You won't be the first person he has played this trick on! If you're really worried contact the police as you've done nothing wrong.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I think if it were me and this were real the first thing I'd have done is hide my profile/pictures as it's a lot more material to be extorted with right there with your face, body and hits all clearly on show.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Hi folks I need helm

Been chattin to someone on a fifferent sight

We exchanged numbers

I sent him a few piccys

3 ones on here

His brother had his fone saw piccys and is now threatening to post them publicly

But is asking for a ransom of 500.00 n he wont do it

Wen I said I'm reporting him to the police

He replied he will just say I asked him for money for sex

N now he wants the money back

I never even met the prick

But now the fella I was chattin to is askin me to psy half with him to settle this b4 he takes it further

WHAT DO I DO

I DONE NO WRONG

You have messages for evidence. Save them.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Save all the messages and keep calm and don't get upset it will be sorted out and I really expect it's total empty threat. Even if you paid there's nothing to stop them doing it again in two weeks.

Save all the info and if you are freaking out and go to the police they will sort it out. Are any of the photos showing your face? If not they can't prove a you, and to be honest there are so many naked photos of people out there it's not really newsworthy it's just scary when it happens to you.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

I wouldn't bother and waste police vf time. If you gave identifiable pics on a site like this t hug en you have to take vf the risk. Who are they going to out you too?

Annoying I agree....just forget bj it and protect yourself from future events like this if it worries you.lesson learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if it were me and this were real the first thing I'd have done is hide my profile/pictures as it's a lot more material to be extorted with right there with your face, body and hits all clearly on show. "

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Block his number and ignore him. He's not worth worrying about. You've got photos on this site, so technically you're already on the internet. Don't give it another thought, and don't give your phone number out to people you haven't known for very long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him and his number and ignore the prick.

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By *mbracedeleganceMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Definitely Police.

If he did publish the photos he would be prosecuted under the new laws for revenge porn.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

You have face pics up on here so am guessing being outed isn’t really the issue?

What have the other site you met him on suggested?

How does he know you’re on here?

Lots of alarm bells ringing ..hide your face pics and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely a police issue.

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By *hrisAndKatieCouple
over a year ago

stevenage

Have you actually reported them to the site admin - they are pretty good at having people kicked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One learning lesson for me, never ever share face pic with nudity, so it cannot be misused by receivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't be that concerned as you have face pics and explicit pics on your profile for all to see right now, even after this black_mail attempt

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By *isstonguetasticjo OP Woman
over a year ago

widnes

Yes I have screen shot all his msgs he has sent me x

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By *isstonguetasticjo OP Woman
over a year ago

widnes

He is not on this site

It was his brother I was chatting with off a different site

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

But... You already have them posted publicly, what am I missing here?

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By *isstonguetasticjo OP Woman
over a year ago

widnes

The fact that a fuckin dickead

Is threatening to post them publicly but to stop him he wants a randsom of 500.00 of me n his brother

He is msgin me asking for the money quickly ir else he is running out of time ,

He is just a fuckin dickhead

Wat does that show

If I was arsed I wudnt have any piccys up on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The fact that a fuckin dickead

Is threatening to post them publicly but to stop him he wants a randsom of 500.00 of me n his brother

He is msgin me asking for the money quickly ir else he is running out of time ,

He is just a fuckin dickhead

Wat does that show

If I was arsed I wudnt have any piccys up on here

So you're not actually bothered if he does it then? Go to the police then, if you don't care, you've got nothing to lose.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

It shows you shouldn't post face pics/nude pics if you cant take this sort of threat. Dont waste police time...move on and learn a lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that a fuckin dickead

Is threatening to post them publicly but to stop him he wants a randsom of 500.00 of me n his brother

He is msgin me asking for the money quickly ir else he is running out of time ,

He is just a fuckin dickhead

Wat does that show

If I was arsed I wudnt have any piccys up on here

So you’re not arsed then? Sorry I’m confused

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

"The fact that a fuckin dickead

Is threatening to post them publicly but to stop him he wants a randsom of 500.00 of me n his brother

He is msgin me asking for the money quickly ir else he is running out of time ,

He is just a fuckin dickhead

Wat does that show

If I was arsed I wudnt have any piccys up on here

Well keep calm and tell him that's his problem not yours. If he makes it your problem say you have no issues with the pictures being made public but you will take his messages and show the police, if only to log it as an incident.

If you react they will hound you, keep calm with your language and get it reported.

Try and portray that you dont care about the pictures but you do care about being asked for money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to go ahead and post the pictures and that you don't give a fuck. Like others say it's a scam, call his bluff and he will fuck off. Also I would report to police as they/he will target other people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His brother will go halves?! I think they are probably one and the same! Surely you still have the messages of him black mailing you?

Report to the police immediately! You wont be the only person this slime ball is doing this to. Dont feel embarrassed in doing so as you have done nothing at all to be embarrassed about and trust me.

Honestly, have courage and report immediately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report. I've been in a similar situation in the past on here!

I did go to the police & it got delt with appropriately.

Sounds like a set up to me!..just report x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look at it this way, are you some infamous celebrity? no, so who the hell would care about naked pics of another josephine public? not me and certainly not the rest of the internet.

let them make their threats, just learn from the situation.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Report to the police.

You have been given loads of advice so I will close this now.

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