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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man?

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

- Mainstream porn makes a bisexual woman a fantasy for many.

- A lot of men will put sex before morals.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- Mainstream porn makes a bisexual woman a fantasy for many.

- A lot of men will put sex before morals."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desease

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same"

Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same

Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different "

Like that

Though as I'm past the reproductive stage...I'll do as I want using my own moral compass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same

Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different

Like that

Though as I'm past the reproductive stage...I'll do as I want using my own moral compass"

My morals are personal, and agree ^^ I'll do life, as well as fab my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto.

Still interesting how my friends would like me to 'find a nice guy"

Love being over 50

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

And if humans want to mate for life then that's fine too

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases."

Partnerships/marriages have been around a lot longer than cities!

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It might be more socially acceptable for women but judging by a few threads on here it's definitely just as common for men to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it is is it?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man? "

I don't think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it is really

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I don't think it's more acceptable for a lady to cheat on her man on fab but it is more fab acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man....

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By *perm nurseTV/TS
over a year ago

colchester

Know where does that leave me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women on women is erotic

Men on men is just gay

Thread closed

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Women on women is erotic

Men on men is just gay

Thread closed"

Well homophobia can be used by some to stop all chat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man? "

I don't think it is. Especially cheating (so bad)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man? "

Its not but for a guy to get a fuck on here some have to go the extra mile or 6

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By *illy999TV/TS
over a year ago

Taunton

Men & wimmin "instinctually" different ???

Biologically one chromosome different so we are told ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regards to being bisexual I don’t know.

In regards to cheating, for me it’s not more acceptable it’s equally as despicable in my opinion.

The difference being that more single men care less about a woman’s marital status and single women care more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself "

The majority of women on here find the idea of 2 men together erotic from what I’ve read. It always seems to be just me who doesn’t on those threads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In regards to being bisexual I don’t know.

In regards to cheating, for me it’s not more acceptable it’s equally as despicable in my opinion.

The difference being that more single men care less about a woman’s marital status and single women care more. "
yes i would agree with your last statement but i also think the state of matrimony, marriage is less important in general now people arent as religious as say 60 years ago and beyond so long term relationships where they might have been 40 years or more only last 10/12 years in fact people regard that as long term dont you think?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married "
lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone "

Oh that is sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself

The majority of women on here find the idea of 2 men together erotic from what I’ve read. It always seems to be just me who doesn’t on those threads. "

You're not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone

Oh that is sweet "
hes a refreshing kind of guy glad to have him as a colleague

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same"

There are ways to do it ethically though. Also it isn't just males who mate with multiple partners in the animal kingdom. Many female animals mate with multiple partners to maximise her chance of conception.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases."

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model."

Not saying that's a bad thing by the way. I hate capitalism. Just that many would prefer to keep the status quo with every monogamous couple struggling to run their individual home full of their individual sets of possesions and own cars and paying for childcare for their 2.4 kids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model."
lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side

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By *arkndirtyMan
over a year ago

sale

I can say I get a lot of messages, contacts with bi lads who are known as straight. They are in very masculine jobs or well known for being a ladies men. Think that bi males is more under the radar than you think.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side "

Nah, the more parents the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man? "

It’s not ?

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By *tradesmanMan
over a year ago

colchester

Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.

As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.

As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women."

Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side

Nah, the more parents the better "
why? the more picnics?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side

Nah, the more parents the better why? the more picnics? "

More people to share childcare and pooled resources.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.

Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side

Nah, the more parents the better why? the more picnics?

More people to share childcare and pooled resources."
ahhhh ok I'm Great with kids..... lol

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By *tradesmanMan
over a year ago

colchester


"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.

As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women.

Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!! "

Having been cheated on, I know it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone

Oh that is sweet hes a refreshing kind of guy glad to have him as a colleague "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.

As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women.

Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!!

Having been cheated on, I know it is. "

Refer you to my earlier comment purely your opinion !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone

Oh that is sweet hes a refreshing kind of guy glad to have him as a colleague "
omg hes not your husband

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow."
i shake my head at Brexit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow."

Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.

Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! "
Turkey are setting a fine example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.

Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! Turkey are setting a fine example "

They’re just nervous with Christmas coming and all that !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.

Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! Turkey are setting a fine example

They’re just nervous with Christmas coming and all that !! "
lol yes syrian pilots are saying I'll have a turkey wing

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Whether you like it or not, the rules are gender specific. You can call it double standards, hypocrisy whatever you want. That the way it is baby.

The biggest taboo is saying them out loud.

I read women here complaining of some men slut shaming. I see more slut shaming from other women here. I'm not saying that men don't but it comes from a different place, typically sour grapes or rejection.

Joseph Heller in Catch 22 describe a man as

"He advocated thrift and hard work and disapproved of loose women who turned him down"

I have seen status updates from women that don't want to sleep with a guy because he has a veri from a 'community bike"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whether you like it or not, the rules are gender specific. You can call it double standards, hypocrisy whatever you want. That the way it is baby.

The biggest taboo is saying them out loud.

I read women here complaining of some men slut shaming. I see more slut shaming from other women here. I'm not saying that men don't but it comes from a different place, typically sour grapes or rejection.

Joseph Heller in Catch 22 describe a man as

"He advocated thrift and hard work and disapproved of loose women who turned him down"

I have seen status updates from women that don't want to sleep with a guy because he has a veri from a 'community bike""
i agree but boris put the community bikes there for tourists

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