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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop that shit.....!

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By *hipley CplCouple
over a year ago

shipley

It won’t end well if she’s caught out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be more than a fuck without feelings persay and I'm not sure how you can have feelings for someone you haven't met?

However feelings sometimes do happen here and that's cool if you know where you stand and what can come from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not. "

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it"

Do you need me to tell you how it ends for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol"

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Isn’t this called an ‘affair’ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those feelings are probably just lust to start with... then you start thinking how it will impact you and her. Its easy to get lost when things just click beautifully. All the best, whatever happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments. "

Thank you finally someone who gets me.. it’s so much more fun where there is chemistry right? We not objects and a fuck for the sake of fucking is not what I call sexual exploration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments. "

Sound advice ^

My earlier comment was a little tongue in cheek. More saying don't follow me buddy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments.

Thank you finally someone who gets me.. it’s so much more fun where there is chemistry right? We not objects and a fuck for the sake of fucking is not what I call sexual exploration "

I agree but a lot do want that but that’s fair enough. Everyone’s here for different things. That’s the beauty of fab really. It really isn’t just a swingers site.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You have developed feelings for someone you haven't actually met?

My take is they're the butterfly type feelings when you're about to meet someone new, who you think you might hit it off with rather than 'proper feels' ~ is that what you mean?

So long as you both know where you stand with each other it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments.

Sound advice ^

My earlier comment was a little tongue in cheek. More saying don't follow me buddy...... "

Your advice is always tongue in cheek zippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Went on for 3 years. Personally I prefer feelings to be involved. Having said that it depends what type of person you are, I know what I want and I know it’s not a proper relationship. I like Gemini man’s bubble analogy. I know I can walk away if need be. Loved him to bits but he wanted more and I wasn’t prepared to give more. Still friends though.

So my opinion is it depends totally on the situation and what type of person you are ie whether you can handle it or not.

That’s exactly where we are.. I have no expectations and I’m not running into the sunset with anyone... it’s just surprised me that it’s happened on a site like this lol

Life is full of surprises. Think carefully though before you jump right in. And you’re gonna get stick on here for sure. People won’t read the thread and just answer the question you're asking. That’s for sure. My advice is ignore those comments.

Sound advice ^

My earlier comment was a little tongue in cheek. More saying don't follow me buddy......

Your advice is always tongue in cheek zippy "

I never really give advice, ppl just take it as such, Dora. I'm an utter contradiction xx

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Fab is for fucking, not feelings...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings..."

With that attitude I’m sure you get lots of knuckle busting done dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings..."

For you maybe. And that’s fair enough.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t think i could deliberately dabble with someone in that situation knowing that it couldn’t go nowhere.

Deliberately opening yourself up to hurt.

It’s a form of self sabotage, and life is too short for that, no matter how lovely they were, or how good the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings..."

Fab isn't quite the same as a marriage I guess..... .....I dont think I could ever 'just fuck' anyone though, maybe that'll change if I get to the mlc stage....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve certainly developed feelings for someone from this site....

It’s about intimacy in lots of ways. Sexual, physical and mental.

We got to know each other well.

Best sex I’ve ever had and we clicked on so many levels.

I’m a warm, open, loving woman. I can of course separate sex from love, and I have on many occasions, but sometimes, if you really hit it off......

For us, we will remain good friends, who care deeply about each other, but our circumstances at the moment mean we can’t be together right now.

Sometimes circumstances change....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Fab is for fucking, not feelings...

Fab isn't quite the same as a marriage I guess..... .....I dont think I could ever 'just fuck' anyone though, maybe that'll change if I get to the mlc stage...."

Mlc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings...

Fab isn't quite the same as a marriage I guess..... .....I dont think I could ever 'just fuck' anyone though, maybe that'll change if I get to the mlc stage....

Mlc? "

Mid

Life

Crisis

Great song by FNM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it"
how long have you been chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you only joined 5 weeks ago?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

At least she is honest about her situation.

From personal experience I would advise that you do try and keep a step back mentally. Falling for someone who cannot be yours is just setting yourself up for heartache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Developing feelings for someone and falling in love with someone are 2 different things. If it makes you both happy then good for you but remember shes married and dont fall in love and all will be well

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"At least she is honest about her situation.

From personal experience I would advise that you do try and keep a step back mentally. Falling for someone who cannot be yours is just setting yourself up for heartache. "

I kind of agree, I'm not passing judgement on your situation and I certainly agree that relationships can be and are formed on fab, but I do think that falling for a married person is fraught with heartache and trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you only joined 5 weeks ago? "

So? Mine says 10 months ago. I’ve been here over 2 years. You’re says 2 months ago and you’ve been on similar amount of time. People do leave and come back. People even get banned and come back with different names sometimes.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings..."

Based on what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have developed feelings for someone I met on here.

We have met quite a few times, but haven't even had sex yet. We message daily, check on each other, let each other know how much we care for each other.

Its the deepest friendship I've had with a man and know its a long term relationship that we both know won't progress beyond, an initially based, sexual friendship.

Neither of us can, or indeed want to, leave our original partners. Our back stories are complex and aren't for judging as that happens with complex health issues.

Initially I thought my deepening feelings were because of a situation my friend helped me leave, but as time passed I realised they were genuine and based on mutual honesty, trust and respect plus that essential click and need for adventures.

Long waffle, sorry, but don't jump without a breathing space x

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings...

Based on what? "

I just spat my curry out at this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings is the relevant word here, and as ever it has many interpretations. Yes, I agree that I couldn't have sex with someone I don't have feelings for. However, those feelings are a shared intimacy, sexual attraction and maybe some shared values and humour to make for pleasant company. They are not picking out curtains and skipping off into the sunset for evermore as lifetime partners. Either party can leave at any time, no obligations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings..."
Fab is what you make of it whether that be sex or something more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a school boy crush, check back on you feelings in 6 months.

Do you have a gf or wife? Do you have other friends or just work mate? Are you feeling lonely?

I think you need to assess if theres other factors that could make you feel more emotion to her to compensate something missing elsewhere in your life.

Now that will be £40 for that bit of advise. For more, you need to make an appointment, my fee is only £120ph.

I know... its really cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And at the end of those “few days together” she will go back to her daring husband as if nothing’s happened.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Sounds a bit generous to me.

Protect yourself..your feelings

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"And at the end of those “few days together” she will go back to her daring husband as if nothing’s happened.

"

That's what I was thinking.

You're not the first and not the last. However credit to her for being open and honest about actually being married ( more than some people on here) youknowwwhoyouare. The rest is up to you but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you only joined 5 weeks ago?

So? Mine says 10 months ago. I’ve been here over 2 years. You’re says 2 months ago and you’ve been on similar amount of time. People do leave and come back. People even get banned and come back with different names sometimes. "
thats very interesting do they now, i had considered he may have came back it was just a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plot twist...

When she visits you she brings her hubby.

Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it

Its not your responsibility dont deny your own happiness

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Sounds a bit generous to me.

Protect yourself..your feelings"

*meant dangerous*

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sounds a bit generous to me.

Protect yourself..your feelings

*meant dangerous*"

Oops. Freudian slip?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Sounds a bit generous to me.

Protect yourself..your feelings

*meant dangerous*

Oops. Freudian slip? "

I reckon so...still I hope OP finds his way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please come back to this thread after you have met her....

I’d be very interested in knowing how you feel after.....

But my advice is to proceed with caution.....

She can only give you so much attention, and if you want more from her.... You will lose and the husband wins every time....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sounds a bit generous to me.

Protect yourself..your feelings

*meant dangerous*

Oops. Freudian slip?

I reckon so...still I hope OP finds his way."

Awwww. Aren't you sweet. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings... Fab is what you make of it whether that be sex or something more"

Someone who speaks sense finally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

A work colleague I found on here.

We were FWB for over a year, saw each other every day, spent a lot of time together

I was falling for her pretty heavily.

She met someone outside FAB and fell in love with him.

It hurt, a lot. I avoid seeing her at all costs ow as it brings back feelings.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it"

Good luck as long as you both know what you want xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Fab is for fucking, not feelings...

With that attitude I’m sure you get lots of knuckle busting done dude"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it

Good luck as long as you both know what you want xxx"

Thank you hun

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it

Good luck as long as you both know what you want xxx

Thank you hun"

Your welcome xxxx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I have fallen for someone on fab but turned out it wasn’t real or should I say they wasn’t.

I went on a bit of a rampage after this and found that I don’t actually want a relationship and enjoy the freedom of being a single woman in the swinging world.

I’m actually really grateful for this now as I couldn’t be happier now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So I recently started talking to a married woman on here who wanted to spice her sex life up behind her husband’s back... as we spoke, opened up and started to cam feeling have arisen..

We meeting next week and she’s staying over for a couple of days and I’m so excited as she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for, plus strangely enough married women turn me on.

Has any of you experienced this and started to have feelings for someone?

I mean we both know where we stand and don’t want to break her marriage but at the same time we know there’s more than just a fuck to it"

we've never experienced it but as a couple its less likely anyway (although not impossible).

Almost everyone who comments on these things in the forum wants things to be more than just a fuck, you're not alone

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

“plus strangely enough married women turn me on.“

This part of your statement made my ears prick up!!

A connection is one thing, what you seem to be describing is another, lust is healthy in this lifestyle, I’m am all for the connection, our profile raves about it, and it really does make a difference.

However, she is married, you I presume are not? I’m sure relationships do develop on this site, it’s inevitable, and good luck to all who actually do find love here.

However you stated that neither of you want to ruin her marriage.... and the fact that married women turn you on.... what happens when this fairy tale ends?

What if it does end her marriage,

what if she changes her mind and wants YOU not him??

She will no longer be forbidden “married” fruit....

What happens IF or when ??

Nothing judgemental intended, we are all here for different reasons, I just had to point out the above x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I met a guy a few times and he started dropping hints about exclusivity and staying over for the night

If I'm honest it made things a bit awkward

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

What's the male name for Mistress?

Dunno, but it won't end well, mainly for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please come back to this thread after you have met her....

I’d be very interested in knowing how you feel after.....

But my advice is to proceed with caution.....

She can only give you so much attention, and if you want more from her.... You will lose and the husband wins every time...."

Can't see any winner in that situation, certainly not the husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the last time I heard a story like that on here I believe the guy got his balls cut off when her man found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two long term friendships from fab.

Both amazing experiences. First one was single, the second married. It makes no difference as long as you know from the beginning what your relationship boundaries are.

The first flutters of a new friend of any kind are exciting. Getting to know someone is great. Add some sexual attraction and you have lust. Enjoy it but never confuse it!!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's hard to have real feelings for somebody you haven't met in person in my experience.

The other thing is that she is cheating on her husband, even if it was perfect for you both, you probably would always know that she is capable of that.

There are lots of fabulous people on here who you could find a connection with, you could invest time into somebody who is emotionally and physically available and it could be a much happier ending for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the last time I heard a story like that on here I believe the guy got his balls cut off when her man found out "

Really helpful advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run, run for your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't possibly see this blowing up in either of your faces OPP

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"the last time I heard a story like that on here I believe the guy got his balls cut off when her man found out

Really helpful advice"

To be fair - he had them stitched back on.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Run, run for your life!"

I have forest gump in my head now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell for Ash before I met him and it's working well for us.

It's a different situation though as we are both single.

I hope whatever happens it works out well for you.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes, I've experienced something like that, but I'm a grown-up and act accordingly.

"New Relationship Energy" doesn't justify anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fell for Ash before I met him and it's working well for us.

It's a different situation though as we are both single.

I hope whatever happens it works out well for you. "

Were both single (we are not anymore )

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"the last time I heard a story like that on here I believe the guy got his balls cut off when her man found out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are times people can have this kind of situation and things play out as expected.

There are probably more times shit goes down big time. Whether that be someone getting their heart broken, someone having their life as they know it ruined and taking years to recover or someone ending up in hospital coz the unsuspecting partner isn't as naive as thought.

What would you do if she turned up at your house, suitcases in tow coz he's realised what's happening, turfed her out and she's nowhere to go?

There's a bigger picture, remember it ain't just her life you're getting involved in and if you can have that on your conscience that's your cross to bare.

P

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Youve not actually met...

Until you do its lust and flattery.

Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dangerous territory m8 you wouldn't like it to happen to yourself. There's plenty of single women on here x less complicated . Hey but who am I to judge

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"There are times people can have this kind of situation and things play out as expected.

There are probably more times shit goes down big time. Whether that be someone getting their heart broken, someone having their life as they know it ruined and taking years to recover or someone ending up in hospital coz the unsuspecting partner isn't as naive as thought.

What would you do if she turned up at your house, suitcases in tow coz he's realised what's happening, turfed her out and she's nowhere to go?

There's a bigger picture, remember it ain't just her life you're getting involved in and if you can have that on your conscience that's your cross to bare.

P"

Totally agree with this Aunty P!!!

My ex did something similar...she and the next door but one neighbour started an affair...it ruined his 20 year marriage, with a 10 year old child involved who's struggling in her most important school year before high school, his wife has had a full on break down and nearly ended her life....

Do you really want to be involved in this kind of thing OP??"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Speaking as a married woman if someone said they had feelings for me and I hadn't met them yet face to face it'd be me running a mile!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Note to self - dont tell Lady Lick how you feel about her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Note to self - dont tell Lady Lick how you feel about her. "

Don’t think she’d be that lucky mate! ??

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yeah. Im every woman's dream guy.

Or is it nightmare? ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah. Im every woman's dream guy.

Or is it nightmare? ??"

Don’t know depends on their standards ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inserts thriller popcorn gif

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Inserts thriller popcorn gif"

Better be salted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she left her husband and turned up on your doorstep with her bags, your feelings would go from 100 to zero in not a lot of time lol.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Dont do it..........walk away now

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

When we first met on our singles profile I was in a relationship with someone else,

Mrs sofa warned me not to develop feelings (only had two rules) as she is very lovable (her words) and hot as fuck..

And no I didn’t listen and don’t regret that we are now together as a proper couple! And planning a future together!

If it’s meant to be it will be

Good luck op and enjoy the ride or the journey what ever way it turns out !

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m often surprised at how quickly people think they get attached to others on here but if you both go into it knowing and understanding the situation and what you both want from it then what will be, will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marry me babs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m often surprised at how quickly people think they get attached to others on here but if you both go into it knowing and understanding the situation and what you both want from it then what will be, will be. "

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