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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on Fab for a while, and still can't understand the logic behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a mystery as is all that Sydney university rubbish but people still do odd things I guess.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I have been on Fab for a while, and still can't understand the logic behind it."

Perhaps they are tired of not receiving attention and so pretend to be their other half to get some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in, fake profiles?

Easy. Some men are desperate and gullible and will send their dingly dangly parts to ‘women’ in the hopes for a fuck. The ‘woman’ is equally a desperate man, who needs attention and won’t get the attention he craves from his male fab profile.

Oh and some people are just arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want pics so they can keep them on a usb stick and keep it behind their foreskin

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"They want pics so they can keep them on a usb stick and keep it behind their foreskin"

What if they are Jewish?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Elastic band

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Its ridiculous and seems all too common with couple profiles kinda off putting for the genuine couples out there.

Warning flags tend to be when you ask to speak to the female half then excuse city comes trolling in....

Washing her hair, gone swimming with the kids, walking the dog, painting her nails

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The shock of it. Surely this doesn’t happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its ridiculous and seems all too common with couple profiles kinda off putting for the genuine couples out there.

Warning flags tend to be when you ask to speak to the female half then excuse city comes trolling in....

Washing her hair, gone swimming with the kids, walking the dog, painting her nails

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That is exactly what happens,you also forgot "At work" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like ducking witches , yes ducking not fucking. The way to deal with a dirty great catfish is to stop contact as soon as you suspect. Then, if they ignore you back you know they're a genuine girl and you've missed out, or if they chase your ugly arse and keep sending messages and asking for your cock you have a catfish..... neither way everyone is a loser, including them. Just use your brain, avoid being so desperate that you'll talk to all sexy 20 year old blonde blue eyed model figures with stunning boobs with professional stolen pics and you'll be fine. Chat to the fatties and oldies.....

Yw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There us no such thing as men and women anymore, we are all one gender and equal as one, but tomorrow if a wake up and want to identify as a giraffe then I bloody well will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean fakes or angry dressers?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

And women pretending to be men and go information fishing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And women pretending to be men and go information fishing ? "

Does that happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Washing her hair, gone swimming with the kids, walking the dog, painting her nails

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Funny! That's all my ex ever fucking did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closet gays.

Knew of a guy that created a couples account and pretended to be a woman to talk to guys to get cock pics...

Bizarre, not like a lot of male profiles don't have cock pics on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Closet gays.

Knew of a guy that created a couples account and pretended to be a woman to talk to guys to get cock pics...

Bizarre, not like a lot of male profiles don't have cock pics on

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I know a guy who has done the same, and has tricked a hell of a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Closet gays.

Knew of a guy that created a couples account and pretended to be a woman to talk to guys to get cock pics...

Bizarre, not like a lot of male profiles don't have cock pics on

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Other way round too. Plenty men pretending to be women hoping to speak to bi ladies to get pics and stories. Had that a lot and it’s so bloomin obvious it’s funny!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"And women pretending to be men and go information fishing ?

Does that happen? "

Yep it does .. honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Closet gays.

Knew of a guy that created a couples account and pretended to be a woman to talk to guys to get cock pics...

Bizarre, not like a lot of male profiles don't have cock pics on

Other way round too. Plenty men pretending to be women hoping to speak to bi ladies to get pics and stories. Had that a lot and it’s so bloomin obvious it’s funny!"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"And women pretending to be men and go information fishing ?

Does that happen?

Yep it does .. honestly "

I’m a lady

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Ermm... Prob pic hunting. If you pretend tonme a woman men might send more revealing pics that they will prob use to publish on some porn site. That's my guess anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma "

They disappear! Once they’ve asked you so what do you like to do with women? What’s your favourite thing? Have you done that clit on clit thing? Do you have any pics of you with women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

They disappear! Once they’ve asked you so what do you like to do with women? What’s your favourite thing? Have you done that clit on clit thing? Do you have any pics of you with women? "

Ahhh. So they’re satisfied with just the pics and the descriptions... but surely they can get that from a porn site?! Odd behaviour isn’t it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m thinking of disguising Charlie as a female so we are an FF couple and can meet a unicorn. Put some frilly knickers, hold ups and a bra stuffed with socks on him. Do his make up and get him a nice dress and wig. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma "

How often does that actually happen? It is difficult enough, near impossible to get bi woman to chat to you, lots of talk. Especially if your part of a couple. Think it would just as near impossible pretending to be a bi woman as being a male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

They disappear! Once they’ve asked you so what do you like to do with women? What’s your favourite thing? Have you done that clit on clit thing? Do you have any pics of you with women?

Ahhh. So they’re satisfied with just the pics and the descriptions... but surely they can get that from a porn site?! Odd behaviour isn’t it ... "
I find it all so strange, porn sites and lierotica has all that they could require.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

How often does that actually happen? It is difficult enough, near impossible to get bi woman to chat to you, lots of talk. Especially if your part of a couple. Think it would just as near impossible pretending to be a bi woman as being a male

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Not sure about a couple. I get lots or messages from bi women on my single profile. Not many on my couple profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

They disappear! Once they’ve asked you so what do you like to do with women? What’s your favourite thing? Have you done that clit on clit thing? Do you have any pics of you with women?

Ahhh. So they’re satisfied with just the pics and the descriptions... but surely they can get that from a porn site?! Odd behaviour isn’t it ... "

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have lots of veris and I'm sure they're fakes.

I don't know how they get the veris though.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I got alot of messages out of the blue from a female being very chatty. She messaged loads of times and although i was puzzled i responded. Then she sent me a friend request. I explained my friends list was only for folk i had met and i never heard from her again. Steange. Possibly a man me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretend to be a woman all the time. I'm quite good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

How often does that actually happen? It is difficult enough, near impossible to get bi woman to chat to you, lots of talk. Especially if your part of a couple. Think it would just as near impossible pretending to be a bi woman as being a male

Not sure about a couple. I get lots or messages from bi women on my single profile. Not many on my couple profile though. "

Me too. I get lots of messages from bi women and I respond to the vast majority of them. I’m in a relationship with a man (we used to have a couple profile), and we got far fewer messages (barely any) to that profile. As a single bi woman on here, you’re always wary of whether it’s the man or woman you’re talking to. I imagine this accounts for some of the difficulty getting women to respond ...

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

Mr GR's been accused of being a guy posting as me in the past.

It's hilarious really, as he'll sometimes point out a thread that he has seen and I'll wander along and comment on it.

Though sometimes I get him to post for me on this account but I always tell him what to write.

Ms GR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I genuinely don’t get about this.... what on earth do these men do if the woman they’re chatting to is bi and suggests meeting up?! #dilemma

How often does that actually happen? It is difficult enough, near impossible to get bi woman to chat to you, lots of talk. Especially if your part of a couple. Think it would just as near impossible pretending to be a bi woman as being a male

Not sure about a couple. I get lots or messages from bi women on my single profile. Not many on my couple profile though.

Me too. I get lots of messages from bi women and I respond to the vast majority of them. I’m in a relationship with a man (we used to have a couple profile), and we got far fewer messages (barely any) to that profile. As a single bi woman on here, you’re always wary of whether it’s the man or woman you’re talking to. I imagine this accounts for some of the difficulty getting women to respond ... "

I imagine it is. I don’t meet couples and I think I have them blocked so I haven’t experienced that. Very wary of some bi women’s profiles though x

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By *lienrockMan
over a year ago

Fife


"Closet gays.

Knew of a guy that created a couples account and pretended to be a woman to talk to guys to get cock pics...

Bizarre, not like a lot of male profiles don't have cock pics on

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I've discussed this on a previous thread. This place is full of open profiles with mega personal pics from people. Why anyone would feel the need to be devious in order to acquire more pics is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are any sexy, beautiful women pretending to be gay men to get cock pics, hit me up ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never pretend to be a woman and let it be known when it's me replying, I am however much better at doing the dishes and cleaning up than Larissa is.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Or what about couples profiles that are now being used by the guy that was in the couple.

A friend of mine went to meet a couple and just the guy turned up. Not with the lady any more but carried on as if it shouldn’t get in the way.

PS. He’s still on using the profile months later!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or what about couples profiles that are now being used by the guy that was in the couple.

A friend of mine went to meet a couple and just the guy turned up. Not with the lady any more but carried on as if it shouldn’t get in the way.

PS. He’s still on using the profile months later! "

This is fairly normal had this few times . Times in the past

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I have been on Fab for a while, and still can't understand the logic behind it."

It's all about the merkin.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Or what about couples profiles that are now being used by the guy that was in the couple.

A friend of mine went to meet a couple and just the guy turned up. Not with the lady any more but carried on as if it shouldn’t get in the way.

PS. He’s still on using the profile months later! "

Hence why you should ask to speak to the female no excuse in this day and age video chat / phone chat etc... Saves a lot of hassle and embarrassment

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