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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning is anyone else bored/given up in trying to send first messages now??

I've sent plenty out reading the profiles and making them unique to people but in the end, I probably get 1% reply rate. So is it just worth doing club meets or keep forging ahead??

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By *innerdateMan
over a year ago

Leigh

Keep forging ahead is the only way remember there is probably 100 men to every woman on here they have so much choice even if they are dog rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep forging ahead is the only way remember there is probably 100 men to every woman on here they have so much choice even if they are dog rough "
I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep forging ahead is the only way remember there is probably 100 men to every woman on here they have so much choice even if they are dog rough "
its only 8 men to 1 woman

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are thousands of fit as fuck men with hot photos to feast on. Many people won't read a message if there's no avatar/pictures attached.

If you attach a photo and still no response, I don't know what to suggest apart from having some pictures (body) on your profile, which is good by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Get a profile pic...I think that might help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

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Well, whenever i bring a conversation of looks up I always get told they don't matter it's the conversation and the maturity that is the main thing, so your saying you would rather just judge me on looks??

Plus yes i have verifications but the majority are from people who i have met via a club not on here.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I’m frightened to put a profile photo up, as I don’t think I could cope with all the messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

Well, whenever i bring a conversation of looks up I always get told they don't matter it's the conversation and the maturity that is the main thing, so your saying you would rather just judge me on looks??

Plus yes i have verifications but the majority are from people who i have met via a club not on here. "

No, I wouldn't judge you. But I would have an idea of what you look like. I don't talk to silhouettes on here and don't arrange anything with anyone without knowing what they look like. Call me vain but I gotta be attracted to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

Well, whenever i bring a conversation of looks up I always get told they don't matter it's the conversation and the maturity that is the main thing, so your saying you would rather just judge me on looks??

Plus yes i have verifications but the majority are from people who i have met via a club not on here.

No, I wouldn't judge you. But I would have an idea of what you look like. I don't talk to silhouettes on here and don't arrange anything with anyone without knowing what they look like. Call me vain but I gotta be attracted to someone. "

I always send pictures on my first messages and quite a few of them as well, I just rather show the people who i want to chat to my pictures rather than letting anyone look. The amount of couples who look at my profile is very limited unless i message them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then I guess you're just not their type - whoever you message and send your pictures to - if they don't reply.

If you're having fun in clubs then I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

Well, whenever i bring a conversation of looks up I always get told they don't matter it's the conversation and the maturity that is the main thing, so your saying you would rather just judge me on looks??

Plus yes i have verifications but the majority are from people who i have met via a club not on here.

No, I wouldn't judge you. But I would have an idea of what you look like. I don't talk to silhouettes on here and don't arrange anything with anyone without knowing what they look like. Call me vain but I gotta be attracted to someone.

I always send pictures on my first messages and quite a few of them as well, I just rather show the people who i want to chat to my pictures rather than letting anyone look. The amount of couples who look at my profile is very limited unless i message them first."
you dont know whos look if they look in ninja better to have some pics your profile is your advert is it the best it can be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username suggests you're fit but you have no pictures to prove it.. also the "legal" bit at the end - no one has the right to copy your profile and pictures - what pictures, OP?

You've had a fair amount of meets on fab so it's not like you've not had any success on here.

Well, whenever i bring a conversation of looks up I always get told they don't matter it's the conversation and the maturity that is the main thing, so your saying you would rather just judge me on looks??

Plus yes i have verifications but the majority are from people who i have met via a club not on here.

No, I wouldn't judge you. But I would have an idea of what you look like. I don't talk to silhouettes on here and don't arrange anything with anyone without knowing what they look like. Call me vain but I gotta be attracted to someone.

I always send pictures on my first messages and quite a few of them as well, I just rather show the people who i want to chat to my pictures rather than letting anyone look. The amount of couples who look at my profile is very limited unless i message them first.you dont know whos look if they look in ninja better to have some pics your profile is your advert is it the best it can be? "
looking

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Morning is anyone else bored/given up in trying to send first messages now??

I've sent plenty out reading the profiles and making them unique to people but in the end, I probably get 1% reply rate. So is it just worth doing club meets or keep forging ahead??"

Clubs are a good option, at least you get an option to actually interact with people... assuming that you make the effort to do so.

On here though, your profile is like a sales pitch, you will really struggle without pictures. It is a FACT that most ladies won't even look at a profile if it has no avatar, and they will generally READ the profile in full before they even open a message.

Photo's don't necessarily need to be of your face, although it certainly helps if you send a face picture with your messages if you haven't got one on your profile. The best profile pics will show you looking at your best, suit shots are popular as are torso & chest pics, but don't put multiple pictures of your knob on... one is enough but none is acceptable too.

Cal

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Get a profile pic...I think that might help"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning is anyone else bored/given up in trying to send first messages now??

I've sent plenty out reading the profiles and making them unique to people but in the end, I probably get 1% reply rate. So is it just worth doing club meets or keep forging ahead??

Clubs are a good option, at least you get an option to actually interact with people... assuming that you make the effort to do so.

On here though, your profile is like a sales pitch, you will really struggle without pictures. It is a FACT that most ladies won't even look at a profile if it has no avatar, and they will generally READ the profile in full before they even open a message.

Photo's don't necessarily need to be of your face, although it certainly helps if you send a face picture with your messages if you haven't got one on your profile. The best profile pics will show you looking at your best, suit shots are popular as are torso & chest pics, but don't put multiple pictures of your knob on... one is enough but none is acceptable too.

Cal"

I've found some to place on my profile now to see it helps.

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