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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

See subject. What drives you wild? Conversation, social, foreplay, during sex?

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Simple, stimulate my brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Confidence

Jo.Xx

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Vampires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her eyes fixed on mine like nothing else matters, and it doesn't....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Connection and chemistry with a likeminded person who is on your wavelength to the extent they anticipate things in the same way as me - give me that and the rest will follow

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By *isshorny247Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

My is went your other half is lick my pussy same time as my fuck buddy is fuck me at the same time drive me crazy and other is went I c my partner sucking a cock in front of me while the other is lick my pussy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

A beautiful soul with an equally deviant mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a cool breeze

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Someone who makes me laugh and the inside of my leg being stroked

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Someone who loves to enjoy sex, when you think you’ve been 15 minutes but really it’s been 2 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the minute black tight pants with a phone sticking out of a back pocket of a lady with a well rounded bum!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Humour, confidence, hunger for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning someone else on. That’s what ultimately turns me on the most. Too many other things to list!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"A beautiful soul with an equally deviant mind "

Hello, oh...

Damn wrong sex!!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turning someone else on. That’s what ultimately turns me on the most. Too many other things to list! "

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Watching a lady eat a sausage roll.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Sticks and stones may break my bones

But chains and whips excite me

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

What turns me on about one person can turn me off about another. I have no set list of absolute turn ons anymore. That has been one of the joys of my personal sexual revolution. I'm always surprised about what makes my minge twinge

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Tactile Sensual kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mo Salah running down the wing

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Turning someone else on. That’s what ultimately turns me on the most. Too many other things to list! "

Yes. There's nothing that I find more erotic than seeing and feeling and hearing how aroused someone else is because of me. Incredibly hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weetabix

No for me it’s humour, sensuality, gentleness, neck kisses and great kissing. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I see I forgot to say teasing others and turning them on. I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one that’s comfortable in their own skin

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Filth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual, deep, passionate, naked kissing......mmmmmmm

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Filth."

I take it all back. Estella typing Filth turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really, really obvious flirting. I love to be toyed with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy who doesn't take himself too seriously, big chunky thighs, nice smile and interest in politics/music/films..anything other than just football. If I see him be a good dad too I'm gonna be all over him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching a lady eat a sausage roll."

Fancy meeting me at Greggs?

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Watching a man wanking, then the look in his eyes when I takeover,the hitching of his breathing and the look of passion in his eyes.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching a man wanking, then the look in his eyes when I takeover,the hitching of his breathing and the look of passion in his eyes.xxx"

On a similar note - the moment when you're going down on a woman and she can't form actual words.

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Watching a man wanking, then the look in his eyes when I takeover,the hitching of his breathing and the look of passion in his eyes.xxx

On a similar note - the moment when you're going down on a woman and she can't form actual words."

I know that feeling.xxc

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

A confident lady, who is easy to chat to. The feel of the warmth of her hand on my thigh, and eye to eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple, stimulate my brain "

And a good kisser too

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Stimulating conversation.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

A 240v current. I light up like a Christmas tree

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Slow build ups, long foreplay and lots of ways to dress up properly and for the occasion

Then I’m open to anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See subject. What drives you wild? Conversation, social, foreplay, during sex? "

women's sexy feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turning someone else on. That’s what ultimately turns me on the most. Too many other things to list!

Yes. There's nothing that I find more erotic than seeing and feeling and hearing how aroused someone else is because of me. Incredibly hot."

Yes this, being desired and being shown how much is very erotic x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

For me it's the thought of me in a boutique hotel room (ideally with a hot tub) naked with 2 or 3 nice round squidgy ladies just lavishing attention on me, is all messing about with each other and just having fun. I think what turns me on the most is just imagining the sensation of all those bodies on bodies, squidgy warm flesh on flesh, hands everywhere and lots of laughter.

That would rather be like all my Christmases come at once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A naughty funny personality x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Oh that's what PMs are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filth."

I love having a women bent over in front of me, and licking her pussy from behind as i sniff her arse!! Don't know if it's weird!? But turns me on!! Xx

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Filth.

I take it all back. Estella typing Filth turns me on. "

YOU turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, eye contact, kissing and some one who wants me as much as I want them.

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By *ennyPaulPooleCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Dancing does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words. Put together to not just arouse but nourish, get close and just be. Time and effort.

Touch which is slightly nervous but sure of what it wants. And it wants me. As much as i want Him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasms

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I good sense of humour and big tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See subject. What drives you wild? Conversation, social, foreplay, during sex? "

My partner bigtime . Ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact, slight touches, kissing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot black guy with the look in his eyes that he wants to fuck me. That turns me on.

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By *hotstuff69Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"See subject. What drives you wild? Conversation, social, foreplay, during sex? "
i girl that dresses sexy without dressing like a tart. A girl that dances nice without trying to dance sexy but just looks sexy dancing nicely.

A girl that’s not the loudest but is quite quiet infront of a crowd yet gives you little winks and touches when out without people noticing.

A girl who is a lady in the street but an absolute freak in the bed.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

An intellectual conversation; someone who can get so passionate about a subject that they zone into their own world talking about it. Making me laugh is a huge one.

Physically, kisses....they've got to be good kisses though. Neck and shoulder kisses and touches.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Oooh, eye contact too. Especially if he has that "I want to fuck you so hard right now" look in his eye

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Having my neck kissed & nibbled gets me every time

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

My neck being tickled or kissed and wandering hands whilst dirty talking to me whist on a quiet night out

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land


"My neck being tickled or kissed and wandering hands whilst dirty talking to me whist on a quiet night out "

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not even sure any more, however recent events may have confirmed me as a cuck.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Dominance

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Connection, passionate kissing, teasing, pleasuring someone, spanking. They're the top 5 anyway.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Connection, passionate kissing, teasing, pleasuring someone, spanking. They're the top 5 anyway."

These work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pawg with long hair bent over

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"A pawg with long hair bent over "

I second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

A very wet pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy! "

Giving a blowjob must be an awesome hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pawg with long hair bent over

I second this "

It’s a Birmingham thing! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brain ,always the mind! I can play and play and play and never get any where near stimulated.

Talk to me ....boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And hearing a mans deep growning whilst i give him a bw stirs me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy!

Giving a blowjob must be an awesome hobby "

It’s my speciality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing that makes time stand still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing that makes time stand still"

Hmmmm kissing is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy!

Giving a blowjob must be an awesome hobby

It’s my speciality"

This isn’t helping the morning glory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, sensual kissing. You know the kind of kisses that have the other person gasping and sighing into your mouth.

Hearing a woman orgasm so hard that she cant catch her breath, she tries to speak but nothing comes out.

Whispers, when we are making love and the lady whispers into my ear how it feels, what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy underwear does it for me then Lacey thongs/ French invisible knickers

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Definitely conversations as well. I was talking about this a couple of days ago - if they let you know they are thinking about you or bring up something hot but not constantly make everything about sex, that's fantastic.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy! "

It's been raining to much, I've been working to hard, I'm fed up of wall paper stripping, I need a holiday, I've not had sex for ages, my bank account is looking sorry for itself this month, I have to speak to my ex, the roof has developed a leak.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

It’s all about turning my mind on. I just need the mental stimulation and I’m there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy!

It's been raining to much, I've been working to hard, I'm fed up of wall paper stripping, I need a holiday, I've not had sex for ages, my bank account is looking sorry for itself this month, I have to speak to my ex, the roof has developed a leak."

Quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence, eye contact, kissing and some one who wants me as much as I want them."

What this gent said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What turns me on about one person can turn me off about another. I have no set list of absolute turn ons anymore. That has been one of the joys of my personal sexual revolution. I'm always surprised about what makes my minge twinge "

This

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Hearing a man moan is my ultimate turn on. It just drives me crazy! "

I have never experienced this. The most I got was a growl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lascivious look of lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase

"I need you inside me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The look in thier eyes telling me they want me. Kissing lots of good kissing them matching my kisses little nibbles ...passionate kisses.....non of this luke warm stuff real kisses

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Lemon drizzle cake. 10mtrs of cling film and a rolling pin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lemon drizzle cake. 10mtrs of cling film and a rolling pin "

So I’m eating the cake and watching you do what precisely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation confidence ohhh and stockings lol x

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Lemon drizzle cake. 10mtrs of cling film and a rolling pin

So I’m eating the cake and watching you do what precisely?"

No no. You can’t eat the cake. You have to wrap my in clingfilm first darling then you can eat the cake. I havnt figured out the rolling pin yet but I’m

Sure collectively we can figure that one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lemon drizzle cake. 10mtrs of cling film and a rolling pin

So I’m eating the cake and watching you do what precisely?

No no. You can’t eat the cake. You have to wrap my in clingfilm first darling then you can eat the cake. I havnt figured out the rolling pin yet but I’m

Sure collectively we can figure that one out "

So I’ve wrapped you in clingfilm and eat the cake. Is this a new way to lose weight? I chase you around with the rolling pin so you sweat a lot and poof, kilos lost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling desired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soul "

(Not the music)

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

A man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making a man moan.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Making a man moan. "
I can do that anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to have passion, I lobe foreplay and conversation then it all turns filthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That first kiss after a build up of sexual tension.

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