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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Sounds pretty standard.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Site is full of em, hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy to me, your as well being cautious X

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By *tatMan
over a year ago

Horrabridge

Women do odd things like that too

Have a message exchange for a while and then block, not even the decency of saying "sorry, changed my mind"... meh, smile and move on!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Women do odd things like that too

Have a message exchange for a while and then block, not even the decency of saying "sorry, changed my mind"... meh, smile and move on! "

Here here

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Imo. You did the right thing.

If you're not happy doing something then they should respect that. Male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People block for all sorts of reasons. It's no problem. There are many more cocks around for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You weren't compatible, he blocked you because he didn't want any further communication with you. Women do that to men all the time. They're usually told to accept it and move on, I think that's good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You weren't compatible, he blocked you because he didn't want any further communication with you. Women do that to men all the time. They're usually told to accept it and move on, I think that's good advice"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its strange to block someone because they won't give out a WhatsApp ect. Some want to communicate in that way, some dont. It's not strange either way around.

The man blocked you, his perogative. move on to the next person of interest. X

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

"

He probably only wanted to be your friend to see your friend only pics. Wank fodda. Move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You weren't compatible, he blocked you because he didn't want any further communication with you. Women do that to men all the time. They're usually told to accept it and move on, I think that's good advice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably thought you were fake as you wouldn't give him, a stranger, your phone number . His loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He probably thought you were fake as you wouldn't give him, a stranger, your phone number . His loss. "

See^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He probably thought you were fake as you wouldn't give him, a stranger, your phone number . His loss. "

How is it his loss?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

If you think theres strange people on here , you should visit my town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are strange.

I got a message off that ‘oft you’re hot’ thread. The lady who messaged me, after telling me I was hot, told me in another message I look ordinary and I look like I work in IT!

She then tried to shrug it off as her kooky and weird personality.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

And that's why you don't give your contact details to someone until you feel comfortable enough with them and your planning to meet up

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Genuinely got a random message from a guy that just read

Bloke to throttle you

What on earth! I know I'm annoying but he'd never met me lol

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Genuinely got a random message from a guy that just read

Bloke to throttle you

What on earth! I know I'm annoying but he'd never met me lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

"

Make sure you block him too, it stops him from unblocking you when he wishes to. Yes you can still block him even though he has blocked you, just click on menu on his profile and select block

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

"

Our rule: if you can’t invest a little time and effort to get to know us, then we won’t invest the time and effort required to know you. Some people are just very impatient. Pity, because the build up can be so much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMAO men are allowed to block too. If this had been a man's thread and a role reversal the replies would have been very different.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

"

Clearly he is a fool with no patience. His loss it seems.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just your average Fab day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LMAO men are allowed to block too. If this had been a man's thread and a role reversal the replies would have been very different. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

Clearly he is a fool with no patience. His loss it seems. "

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always getting blocked so have given up trying

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"Some people are strange.

I got a message off that ‘oft you’re hot’ thread. The lady who messaged me, after telling me I was hot, told me in another message I look ordinary and I look like I work in IT!

She then tried to shrug it off as her kooky and weird personality. "

I look ordinary and work in IT. Send her my way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

"

He's obviously another member of PictureHuntersRus & also the stalkersRus Club.

You did right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

Clearly he is a fool with no patience. His loss it seems. "

Loving this phrase today and the inequality of gender that comes with it...... pmsl you guys do keep a curious mind entertained

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Some people are strange.

I got a message off that ‘oft you’re hot’ thread. The lady who messaged me, after telling me I was hot, told me in another message I look ordinary and I look like I work in IT!

She then tried to shrug it off as her kooky and weird personality. "

Some people on here are all about getting people to post complimentary things about them in threads so it makes them look popular and getting the all important fabs for their photos but they aren’t really interested in meeting. A lot of sly nasty stuff gets passed off as ‘just my sense of humour’ too. Hope you didn’t take it to heart- the geeky IT crowd look is actually attractive to many people

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Ok. So a guy wants to chat and messages me. Cool I thought. Looks cute and worth a reply. I send my pic out of courtesy which he replies that he finds me attractive.

He then asks to accept friends request so I can see his other pics and wants to chat on the WhatsApp. I politely declined telling him I don’t give my Phone No out just like that.

Guess what, he blocks me!

Clearly he is a fool with no patience. His loss it seems.

How?"

Well to me it sounds like he threw his toys out of the pram because she wouldn't immediately give her phone number out. He initiated it afterall so he was clearly interested but just didnt like being told "no". At least that's how I see it queenie.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

[Removed by poster at 15/10/19 15:40:24]

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think it's sensible. If you're not compatible, you're not. Better than finding out later down the line.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Ffs typos

I talk to a lot of people on Twitter and this is really common on there. Guy dms a woman and if she won’t “put out” immediately he blocks her.

I think it’s wounded ego.

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