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"I wink to show interest if I get wink back then usually I will message them but what I don’t understand is when they wink and you message them why do they then ignore the message ?" Ha. Snap | |||
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"(1) Lazy (2) Not what they are looking for (3) unable to write words" It’s not lazy in my opinion it’s a show of interest why send a message to be rejected before you know they could be interested in you that’s what winks are meant for | |||
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"I love a wee wink! It's better than a basic "hi". It's kind of a cheeky way of saying, I think your hot! X" Is that true though? Wouldn't you prefer a message? Surely that's better? | |||
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"I wink to show interest if I get wink back then usually I will message them but what I don’t understand is when they wink and you message them why do they then ignore the message ? Ha. Snap " Ditto | |||
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"I wink to show interest if I get wink back then usually I will message them but what I don’t understand is when they wink and you message them why do they then ignore the message ?" Doesn't a message "show interest" too? I'm not trying to be controversial by the way I just don't understand the point of winking instead of messaging. | |||
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"Just following up a thread the other day that revealed that a large number of people don't even look at their winks I just wonder why people wink and not just send a message instead? Are they just being lazy? Or is there another reason? " Easy none intrusive way of catching someones attention ? | |||
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"Much like has been said already, it’s like an expression of interest. Some people might prefer to send winks, because they don’t like rejection, as you can’t tell if the recipient has seen it. If you don’t get a wink back, don’t pursue it any further.." But you are taking the lack of a wink back as a sign of no interest. What the thread revealed the other day is that many women and couples don't even look at them. So it's not that they aren't interested, it's just that they haven't even looked. You could be missing out. | |||
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"Hi fabbers I think winks a good starting point,if no response move on. Been here on and off few yrs in my experience some people are so arrogant,disrespectful can't even muster a simple NO THANKS reply. "Now that's what I call lazy" " Some females & couples get hundreds of messages. They can not reply to them all. Take the hint. | |||
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"Sometimes you come across a profile where you like the look of them and there's no write up, nothing to go on to start a conversation so send a wink to show interest" This | |||
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"Maybe they are shy and view winking as the online version of "Hey you, my friend fancies you" xx" | |||
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"Hi fabbers I think winks a good starting point,if no response move on. Been here on and off few yrs in my experience some people are so arrogant,disrespectful can't even muster a simple NO THANKS reply. "Now that's what I call lazy" " You wink them, yet expect them to type you a reply? | |||
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"What's the point in sending messages when most people just ignore or delete them?" I agree Mavis and that's sort of the point of my question really as many people on another thread said that they just don't look at winks too. Maybe we should have a system where we blow a loud trumpet down their ears | |||
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"(1) Lazy (2) Not what they are looking for (3) unable to write words It’s not lazy in my opinion it’s a show of interest why send a message to be rejected before you know they could be interested in you that’s what winks are meant for " Exactly. | |||
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"I love a wee wink! It's better than a basic "hi". It's kind of a cheeky way of saying, I think your hot! X Is that true though? Wouldn't you prefer a message? Surely that's better? " It is in my case and I also reference winks in my profile. I guess we are all different. | |||
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"I wink to show interest if I get wink back then usually I will message them but what I don’t understand is when they wink and you message them why do they then ignore the message ?" Touch down | |||
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"I wink to show interest if I get wink back then usually I will message them but what I don’t understand is when they wink and you message them why do they then ignore the message ? Doesn't a message "show interest" too? I'm not trying to be controversial by the way I just don't understand the point of winking instead of messaging. " Im just saying- If messaging is better than winking than Why admin doesn’t Take out that wink section. If is there i think is because of a reason. Most of the time i wink profile after i read them but is just because i found them hot or sexy or OMG in a good way but Im not theyr cup of tea from What profile says. I send a wink i get no reply but atleast i know i spend one sec for that wink, i send a respectuos , decent and not one line message after i read profile and avoid everything that they don’t like ( wherever) no reply, but for this i spend like 2-3 min. I think u get my point. | |||
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