FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men?

By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why do men wank in clubs?. I dont mind folk watching me but hate seeing men standing round wanking. You never see females watching with their hands down their knickers so why can men not watch without touching themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m assuming it’s because they’re turned on

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because most cant use brain and dick at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they stop if you ask them?

In keeping with club etiquette?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Might try this now. See how weird it seems.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Would have to agree, quite sad really

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

The Wanking Dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't going to get a shag so just wank off instead I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

As a man I find it difficult to understand why guys openly wank, if it turns someone on then fine, different if they wank each other

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Maybe they’re voyeurs? There are many kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a women sit at the end of a bed and have a quick wank while we played in a club. It was our first club visit and we were uncomfortable but didn’t do anything but giggle at each other and carried on until she finished and left.

The worst is when you hear their locker key like a little cat collar and you wonder why they don’t put it on the other wrist lol - Mrs

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's not so much the watching and wanking that used to bother me, it was the jangle of the locker keys as they did!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Do they stop if you ask them?

In keeping with club etiquette? "

There's no rules to say men can't wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

quite true if not P*** use hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

"Do they stop if you ask them?

In keeping with club etiquette?

There's no rules to say men can't wank. "

I actually find it horny although I don’t fancy guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the faces they pull while doing it. It starts me laughing at them, then they get upset.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

No. I dont want sex in private but i do want men to behave whilst watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're hoping for an invitation to join in, so they're pumping it up as big as possible in case you glance over looking for a candidate

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Why do men wank in clubs?. I dont mind folk watching me but hate seeing men standing round wanking. You never see females watching with their hands down their knickers so why can men not watch without touching themselves. "

Probably because you’re hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

Well said!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Ive only been in a club once and that was off putting.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

No. I dont want sex in private but i do want men to behave whilst watching."

Double standards!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Cuz we like touching our chicks at every opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

It's OK as long as they don't cum on us, as happened to a couple we know. They were not happy!

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

No. I dont want sex in private but i do want men to behave whilst watching."

I've never been to a club, is there not a room with a one way mirror? So you can fuck and have people watching you and you don't see them? Or is that pointless to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on nights when single men can’t go. They are much better nights.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

This needs a 'Like' button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

My favourite post of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if I went to a club and was turned on I'd be too nervous to get my cock out and wank. I'd just watch and hope to participate.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't find it surprising. When a guy is watching porn at home he'll get it out and have a play. If a guy sees a couple having sex it's a lot like porn to them so they do the same thing.

Your ideas of good behaviour are not necessarily everybody else's. I understand you might prefer them not to but you are openly having sex and allowing people to watch. If you haven't told them otherwise and they are not breaking the club rules, why wouldn't they do what comes naturally when aroused?

If they interfere in some way then that is out of order, but if they keep some distance and let you do their thing, why shouldn't they do theirs?

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

My favourite post of the day

There should be badges for posts of the day, or gold stars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

My favourite post of the day

There should be badges for posts of the day, or gold stars

Like on Facebook. Top fans.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I don’t mind it at all ... find it quite a turn on actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its sexy seeing guys wank at clubs and why shouldn’t they. Show’s that you’ve turned them on so a nice compliment lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Do they stop if you ask them?

In keeping with club etiquette? "

There's no rule to say they can't wank. If you're playing in an open space it's expected.

I've played with myself watching people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

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H&S you have to wear wellies and a harness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

See this is why I couldn't see myself going to a club. I magine puddles of spunk everywhere and sweat and juices that's just scattered about the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t want guys getting turned on watching you have sex then use a room you can lock . We don’t mind as long as they keep their distance and respectful, if they get too close they’re told to back off !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped"

Some craic explaining that one in A&E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped

Some craic explaining that one in A&E

I'm sure they've heard it all. I remember seeing this hospital documentary and some nurse had to surgically remove a bogbrush from a guy's arse. And his excuse was he slipped and fell on the handle. Not that he was fettling himself with it.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Club etiquette seems so confusing...

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"If you don’t want guys getting turned on watching you have sex then use a room you can lock . We don’t mind as long as they keep their distance and respectful, if they get too close they’re told to back off !"

Standing back is ok but im talking about standing too close for comfort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only played in a club once. I was far too engrossed in my partner to notice what others were doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped

Some craic explaining that one in A&E

We have another ejaculation dislocation over here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted to go to a club but must admit, that really puts me off the idea

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve only actually seen this once. It was the other week. About three foot from where we we’re sitting and no other reason for him to be there! I asked him to stop or move away and do it elsewhere. He replied, but couldn’t hear what he mumbled. And I politely said either you move or we will. So he apologised and moved away! A very odd man. But this was the first time I’ve noticed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking the mile, wanking the mile, wanking the green mile!

Sorry I meant walking.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Seems to be the norm at Northwich Sauna. Guys groping at porn videos and wanking like crazed zombies.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Gorping I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Why does a dog lick its own balls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

£300! What you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does a dog lick its own balls?"

Because you wont let him lick yours?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

For the same reason, most men rev their engines, and most men think, a woman thinks a massive hard-on will get her engine started.

Don't want to be standing there with a droopy cock when she crying out for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watched once. Three other guys were wanking and it put me off!

Doesn't feel right to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t think of anything worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

great post.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

My favourite post of the day

Mine too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might not be wanking might have a case of itchy scrot?

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Might not be wanking might have a case of itchy scrot?

Well they can scratch it away from my nostrils

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton

I presumed this would be obvious, but it’s kinda for the same reason you’re having sex in a club..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does a dog lick its own balls?"

Because it can

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Why do men wank in clubs? You never see females watching with their hands down their knickers so why can men not watch without touching themselves. "

They’re wired differently to women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might not be wanking might have a case of itchy scrot?

Well they can scratch it away from my nostrils"
Gags!!!

yes certainly!!! Have seen a good few tent wizards wondering around clubs frantically in packs, like they had a woodpecker under the towel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men are stimulated and excited by what they see and wish to act on that its deep routed in the reproductive cycle with men its kind of how mankind has been successful. Its just these days men don't fight to impregnate so wank. I would have thought that was pretty obvious to most women who have a modicum of knowledge of males.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

"Because men are stimulated and excited by what they see and wish to act on that its deep routed in the reproductive cycle with men its kind of how mankind has been successful. Its just these days men don't fight to impregnate so wank. I would have thought that was pretty obvious to most women who have a modicum of knowledge of males. "

Wow if I did masturbate to pics I think you would be first choice x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

Well said!

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Might not be wanking might have a case of itchy scrot?

Well they can scratch it away from my nostrils Gags!!!

yes certainly!!! Have seen a good few tent wizards wondering around clubs frantically in packs, like they had a woodpecker under the towel!

Just reinforces why I don’t like the sound of clubs. Don’t fancy getting caught up in one of those packs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standing back is ok but im talking about standing too close for comfort."

But surely the club has an etiquette of when asked to stop or step away, they do... or they're asked to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presumed this would be obvious, but it’s kinda for the same reason you’re having sex in a club..

Exactly

If you choose to have sex in a public space designed for such acts, then you surely choose to accept that others will perform intimate acts of their own choosing in the same shared space. If this doesn’t fit with your particular rules or what makes you comfortable, you can always speak up and say so, or leave.... just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow if I did masturbate to pics I think you would be first choice x"

The OP is on about in clubs lol. I presume like most polite men you wouldn't try to barge in while in a club just watch stroke and wait for an invite.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

exactly...these guys are fucking in a club full of people .if they don't like it don't go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's their way of showing you they're showing they have a sexual interest.

This is what happens when a club goes for cash over quality..

It's my argument against a biased price structure.

It's only attracting the most desperate of dudes, or those with cash to chuck away. Neither make for the most interesting of people in my experience.

What do I know though?

Just some ranty, opinionated, single bloke on a swingers forum.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

To be fair, couples bitching about men in clubs is abit silly since they have an entire night dedicated to them, if you don't like single men, go on a couples and single womens night, that's what they are there for. Stop bitching about them and putting them off going, I only go to clubs for single men and so many are put off because of all the moaning about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d stand and watch you and enjoy that aching feeling until a female comes to chat to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, couples bitching about men in clubs is abit silly since they have an entire night dedicated to them, if you don't like single men, go on a couples and single womens night, that's what they are there for. Stop bitching about them and putting them off going, I only go to clubs for single men and so many are put off because of all the moaning about them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the ridiculousness in pricing difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness to the blokes if you're having sex in a public area in a club that is not a dedicated no single guys night then just as youve paid to go fuck in a club they've paid to come and wank whilst watching. If you dont like guys wanking and watching then goto a private room in the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Loooool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I was going to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standing back is ok but im talking about standing too close for comfort."

Do you ask them to move? Just stop playing until they move back. It's definitely rude if they get too close. Hate when they stand so close they could lunge forward and touch you when you're not paying attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if you don’t like people masturbating in public, don’t have sex in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are overly ridiculed in the swinging community. Just as there are bad men there are bad women and with the experiences ive had the women are worse than the men when they choose to be because theu know they'll more than likely get away with it if it even gets mentioned. Personally I wouldn't stand there and wank however i wouldn't ridicule someone that did just as i wouldnt ridicule you for fucking in a public area and complaining when people watch.

Not all men are creepy wanking weirdos in a corner. Ok i get that some men can be a bit creepy but most wankers are just voyers enjoying the live porn unfold in front of them.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Or the ridiculousness in pricing difference. "

The ones I've spoken to are more concerned about being thought of as some kind of sex pest because of all the complaining about single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF I did go to a club.. and wankers were an issue, I'd pick one that had private rooms. Problem solved for me.

What the people are saying about fucking and masturbating in common room areas of clubs holds true.

Relatively few options about clubwise given my views about pricing strategy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't done it but i would assume it was so they are standing to attention should they be called upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the ridiculousness in pricing difference.

The ones I've spoken to are more concerned about being thought of as some kind of sex pest because of all the complaining about single men."

But let's be fair.. there are loads of MEN.. not just single men.. who behave horrendously in many areas of swinging lifestyle.

I didnt act like a dick when I went, didnt masturbate with three other guys watching the couple i walked past.

I think those men you speak of are right to be put off if I'm honest. Couples and women can behave equally in equally abhorrent ways online, offline and in da club.

Why pay £300 for the pleasure of being treated like a piece of shit on a shoe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's that unreasonable to be honest. Surely you're fucking in public to be seen and you must know you're going to turn people on? I would think men standing around having a play is a fairly normal reaction. If you don't like it though it's probably best to go to a private room and ask people to just watch if you're uncomfortable.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped"

Pmsl! Hilarious! I have just laughed out loud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm."

Did you have to pay an annual membership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm."

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Just to point out. I wasn’t moaning one here or having sex where we were sitting. We were sitting fully covered up chatting to another guy that was there. No sex, no talk of sex, just chatting. And the guy came over and stood right near us and started staring and wanking! In four and a half years of attending clubs this was the first time I’d noticed this ever happen so it can’t be that common. I don’t like going to couples only nights, preferring a mixed crown of ladies, men and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really hate men, dirty w*****s the lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia."

Off the back of that massive price difference and my experience. I've vowed not to set foot in an establishment that has a different price for a man, than it does for a woman.

Though I may have to adapt my vow to.. exclude visits of a professional nature lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really hate men, dirty w*****s the lot of them."

Ha ha ha i just always walk over and help them

but then im a wrongun

Mrs k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god.. I'd have had words with him

Excuse me mate, but would you mind fucking off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

Did you have to pay an annual membership? "

£20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Off the back of that massive price difference and my experience. I've vowed not to set foot in an establishment that has a different price for a man, than it does for a woman.

Though I may have to adapt my vow to.. exclude visits of a professional nature lol."

Why have i never met you at chams

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Well if single guys are paying £300 to go to a club nowadays then they obviously have more money than sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women pay at the clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women pay at the clubs?"

Some offer free nights for ladies if there is a special event on, and single ladies get in for almost nothing on regular nights.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

"I've never been to a club. I have an idea of what goes on through chatting and posts on here.

I have a question though. If all these men are wanking, is the floor covered in jizz?

Sorry for being naive. Someone enlighten me. Just curious to know exactly what goes on in clubs before I decide to go to one.

I'm imagining naked people walking round in wellies because of all the jizz.

God imagine if you slipped"

Have you ever watched Ted 2?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Bloody heck I love watching men wank. I’d pull up a chair to watch them and hold a box of Kleenex for them to cleanup

None of this edging malarkey, just knock one out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex in private,yes il stick with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DICK HEADS and most not all are ruled with there heads .

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I absolutely love men wanking whilst watching me play in clubs. It’s such a turn on. I’ll look at them straight in the eye. Even let them cum on me if I’m in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love men wanking whilst watching me play in clubs. It’s such a turn on. I’ll look at them straight in the eye. Even let them cum on me if I’m in the mood.

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yes its nice at times .

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"Might try this now. See how weird it seems.

Err... if you do can I volunteer to be part of your audience

Seriously, I think some guys wank in clubs as a form of (consensual) exhibitionism. Self sexual stimulation from showing off.

I've never understood it but each to their own, as long as they are respectful of personal space and distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

£300! What you on?"

A joke perhaps

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I’m assuming it’s because they’re turned on "

That would appear to be a logical answer. Surely its male biology 101 that men generally need to be sexually aroused to want successfully.

If people want to wank, let them wank (as long as it's in way that is respectful of others boundaries).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people who have sex in a public room find wanking disgusting? Stay home and fuck in private.

No. I dont want sex in private but i do want men to behave whilst watching."

I know, I always sit quietly with my feet flat on the floor, hands placed neatly on my knees.

Biggest problem I have is knowing the correct moment to applaud, and if I am supposed to give a standing ovation and call for an encore

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

They keep tugging on their cocks to make sure that they are safely attached and do not fall off causing a trip hazard

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia."

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

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By *ing CobraaMan
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

I find if I don’t wank and just stay there with a raging cock showing through my pants I end up getting much more attention than if I was boringly strumming myself off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Off the back of that massive price difference and my experience. I've vowed not to set foot in an establishment that has a different price for a man, than it does for a woman.

Though I may have to adapt my vow to.. exclude visits of a professional nature lol.

Why have i never met you at chams

Because I won't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

Did you have to pay an annual membership?

£20"

Reasonable, but now I've made my arguments and feel so set in place about them.. if the pricing for males and females isn't equal, I want no part of it. Just how I feel as a happy, confident man. I've no need to go, why waste my money to be treated as less than equal?

Women may have had to put up with that for years and still do, but never by me, not in any way, shape or form. So why subject myself to inequality when I dont have to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Well if single guys are paying £300 to go to a club nowadays then they obviously have more money than sense. "

They are... fuelled by all the advice in here that says that's what they need to do to get a veri...

Which is why I advise a group social instead, it's free and if they're having no luck on the social, theyd best not waste their money in a club where things are more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300"

They are when you take annual memberships into account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account. "

then the £20/25/30/50 full price entry fee depending on the night.. the limited nights you're allowed to attend.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Might try this now. See how weird it seems.

Err... if you do can I volunteer to be part of your audience

Seriously, I think some guys wank in clubs as a form of (consensual) exhibitionism. Self sexual stimulation from showing off.

I've never understood it but each to their own, as long as they are respectful of personal space and distance "

And all the women just think...look at that wanker

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account. "

Not for one night, for a single male chams is £80 a year and £35 a night. Unless you're adding up multiple visits, it comes nowhere near £300.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might try this now. See how weird it seems.

That’s my Wednesday night sorted. Noisy girl wanking in Quest..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Well if single guys are paying £300 to go to a club nowadays then they obviously have more money than sense.

They are... fuelled by all the advice in here that says that's what they need to do to get a veri...

Which is why I advise a group social instead, it's free and if they're having no luck on the social, theyd best not waste their money in a club where things are more difficult."

Ghengis, you seriously need to go to a club and shake this negativity. It really isn’t the social torture palace you envision as long as you have average social skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account.

Not for one night, for a single male chams is £80 a year and £35 a night. Unless you're adding up multiple visits, it comes nowhere near £300. "

Well.. when I rung them up a couple of years ago, I was quoted £250 annual membership fee.

Xtasia were slightly cheaper at the time, but not much.

I'm also not the only one on this thread saying it am I? Someone else said it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account.

then the £20/25/30/50 full price entry fee depending on the night.. the limited nights you're allowed to attend."

What are you talking about?

Most clubs only have one or possibly two nights were its couples /ladies only. I'm not sure why you are so negative about it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account.

Not for one night, for a single male chams is £80 a year and £35 a night. Unless you're adding up multiple visits, it comes nowhere near £300.

Well.. when I rung them up a couple of years ago, I was quoted £250 annual membership fee.

Xtasia were slightly cheaper at the time, but not much.

I'm also not the only one on this thread saying it am I? Someone else said it first.

I know it's more expensive for men but you're spreading false information, it had never been £250 membership fee for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Well if single guys are paying £300 to go to a club nowadays then they obviously have more money than sense.

They are... fuelled by all the advice in here that says that's what they need to do to get a veri...

Which is why I advise a group social instead, it's free and if they're having no luck on the social, theyd best not waste their money in a club where things are more difficult."

Also if people went to clubs with the right attitude they wouldn't feel disappointed. You are paying for the venue not sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

My local swingers clubs are Chams and Xtasia.

Neither chams or xtasia are £300

They are when you take annual memberships into account.

Not for one night, for a single male chams is £80 a year and £35 a night. Unless you're adding up multiple visits, it comes nowhere near £300.

Well.. when I rung them up a couple of years ago, I was quoted £250 annual membership fee.

Xtasia were slightly cheaper at the time, but not much.

I'm also not the only one on this thread saying it am I? Someone else said it first.

I know it's more expensive for men but you're spreading false information, it had never been £250 membership fee for anyone. "

I don't understand where these prices are coming from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are these ridiculous prices coming from?

£25 on a Saturday at my local swingers club or £12.50 if you arrive before 9pm.

Did you have to pay an annual membership?

£20

Women may have had to put up with that for years and still do, but never by me, not in any way, shape or form. So why subject myself to inequality when I dont have to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've paid £300 to get in, they want to have some fun.

Well if single guys are paying £300 to go to a club nowadays then they obviously have more money than sense.

They are... fuelled by all the advice in here that says that's what they need to do to get a veri...

Which is why I advise a group social instead, it's free and if they're having no luck on the social, theyd best not waste their money in a club where things are more difficult.

Ghengis, you seriously need to go to a club and shake this negativity. It really isn’t the social torture palace you envision as long as you have average social skills."

I've already been and experienced it for myself and I'd say my social skills are pretty good as it goes.

Perhaps it's the industry? Skewed in favour of couples and women. Or maybe perhaps I've just got a bit more self respect after I've been ripped off already? Perhaps I need the money in my pocket more than most, because I'm on my own and on basic wages? Maybe I'm a tad entitled and want something for nothing? Anything else you want to chuck at me?

I imagine they are fun places, but from what I've seen, some very dodgy shit goes on.. regularly.

You assume I'm only talking through limited experience. That I've no, or basic understanding, being a single guy who admits he doesn't go. Not in a couple?

That doesn't mean I've not been.. I've been to a few gay clubs. I've been to a few swingers clubs in Germany and Spain as well. Same shit, different country.

Anyway, despite all my ranting and raving, I'm going to have to bite my tongue and consider attending some of these places (IF they're prepared to let me come in, after being so vocally anti-club as a single man) Because I'd like to review the experience and the club in a more professional capacity. Go outside my zone of comfort for other peoples benefit, or amusement.

I'd understand if they told me to fuck off, after everything I've said, but it would be a great opportunity to put there reasoning, philosophy, mindset, ethics out there and discuss it with me on record and attempt to turn my head (if it'd amuse them to do so). If not, I get it. Offer is on the table to any club owners reading this.