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"that’s something that the couple would obviously arrange between themselves I wouldn’t feel comfortable approaching someone I knew was part of a couple. So I would only ever respond if contact was made with me " Think you've got the wrong end of the stick there.. | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. " Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way " Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? " It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! " I'm glad you realise this | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? " Are we keeping count of the number of offended? I cant remember yesterdays | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject" Ooooooh I see, sorry I'm old | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject Ooooooh I see, sorry I'm old " Old but hot | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! " Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject Ooooooh I see, sorry I'm old Old but hot " Was just thinking the same about you (smiley face) | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation " Cheers sandy. A nice grown ups answer Haha | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject Ooooooh I see, sorry I'm old Old but hot Was just thinking the same about you (smiley face) " Thanks. (I think!!) | |||
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"Op what is that on your testicles? The last one on your pics " Rice crispy | |||
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"Oh god no Pitchforks and torches? Huh? It was reference to a thread yesterday about a similar subject Ooooooh I see, sorry I'm old Old but hot Was just thinking the same about you (smiley face) Thanks. (I think!!) " Haha | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks " Hold onto your seat! Tea or coffee? | |||
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"Op what is that on your testicles? The last one on your pics Rice crispy" Haha made me laugh that. It's a cyst mate anymore questions? | |||
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"Op what is that on your testicles? The last one on your pics Rice crispy Haha made me laugh that. It's a cyst mate anymore questions? " No questions just hello and welcome to the forums x | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way " Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife?" Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Hold onto your seat! Tea or coffee? " I think ill take a beer for this one, it could be a long day | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont " OK Im out of here, there's a knitting thread somewhere | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation " The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont " Ever thought that you might be the reason if she has converted to a nun?? | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont " Personally what you do is your business and nobody else's. I don't judge ive far better things to do with my life. And the reference to the offended wasnt you op it was for the apparent swinging Mormons here who do no wrong Nobody is perfect and people should judge themselves by theor own standards before others. You only have 1 life and its very short so enjoy what you can while you can | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, " Exactly this! | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, " Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. | |||
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"And so it begins Thread along similar lines yesterday, poster was a lady... lots of sympathy for the situation etc etc Male... oh lordy ... here we go " I don’t think there was much sympathy! | |||
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"And so it begins Thread along similar lines yesterday, poster was a lady... lots of sympathy for the situation etc etc Male... oh lordy ... here we go I don’t think there was much sympathy! " Ok ... some and lots of suggesting that people aren't judgemental | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont Personally what you do is your business and nobody else's. I don't judge ive far better things to do with my life. And the reference to the offended wasnt you op it was for the apparent swinging Mormons here who do no wrong Nobody is perfect and people should judge themselves by theor own standards before others. You only have 1 life and its very short so enjoy what you can while you can " Does it not matter who you hurt along the way?? | |||
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"And so it begins Thread along similar lines yesterday, poster was a lady... lots of sympathy for the situation etc etc Male... oh lordy ... here we go I don’t think there was much sympathy! Ok ... some and lots of suggesting that people aren't judgemental" True. I agree. My thoughts are the same regardless of gender. But asking for opinions is asking for trouble tbf. Don’t know why people don’t just get on with it. I don’t need opinions on anything I do. I don’t know why people do. | |||
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"In a way i admire the men on here who are honest enough to state they are married. Its all the sleazebags who claim to be single when they are not i can not be arsed with." Its selective honesty though so not really honest as they fail to let the wife know what they are up to. | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly." Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing " Just curious. Are you married as well? | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well?" Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ?" Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! I'm glad you realise this " If someone you used to be in love with and made very serious promises to is more of a stranger than complete strangers... | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!!" Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . | |||
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"That's probably the best answer I've received for this question. Your right it's not black and white! " I imagine your wife would think it's pretty black and white. | |||
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"My wife does not know I am on here, wish she had the same interest in sex as I do, we could have lots of fun on here together " Isn'tthat she likes men and likely wears panties a start | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . " What is judgemental about asking a question? We note your reluctance to answer. | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . What is judgemental about asking a question? We note your reluctance to answer." Well maybe my reluctance to answer is down to the fact that I see absolutely no relevance whatsoever to my comments and my marital status | |||
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"I’m happily married!!!!!! " As we all are | |||
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"I’m happily married!!!!!! As we all are " We're both happily unmarried to each other | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks " It’s ok, she told me she doesn’t mind. | |||
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"I’m happily married!!!!!! As we all are We're both happily unmarried to each other " | |||
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"I’m on here without my partner knowing. I think I just like the excitement and thrill of meeting new people but I do love my husband and wouldn’t leave him " You love him so much you dont mind how it could destroy him if he found out? Just seems selfish and illogical | |||
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"That's probably the best answer I've received for this question. Your right it's not black and white! I imagine your wife would think it's pretty black and white. " I agree with this, actually. It would be for me/us. | |||
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"I’m on here without my partner knowing. I think I just like the excitement and thrill of meeting new people but I do love my husband and wouldn’t leave him You love him so much you dont mind how it could destroy him if he found out? Just seems selfish and illogical" Covers it so simply. | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . What is judgemental about asking a question? We note your reluctance to answer. Well maybe my reluctance to answer is down to the fact that I see absolutely no relevance whatsoever to my comments and my marital status" Of course there is a relevance. If you are cheating yourself, then you are going to defend a fellow cheat aren't you? | |||
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"I don’t understand people who post threads like this to be honest. You know not everyone agrees with cheating, yet you choose to post this knowing that anyway. The way I see it is, if a cheater was genuinely comfortable with what they were doing the would just do it, they wouldn’t look to justify their actions or post threads like this. I have more respect (the wrong word to use for cheats really) for cheats who cheat and carry on with their lives, then the cheats who feel the need to tell the world and try to justify it to strangers online. Each to their own. " | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . What is judgemental about asking a question? We note your reluctance to answer. Well maybe my reluctance to answer is down to the fact that I see absolutely no relevance whatsoever to my comments and my marital status Of course there is a relevance. If you are cheating yourself, then you are going to defend a fellow cheat aren't you? " The only thing I'm defending the OP against is the fact you came on on accusing him of bragging about his situation. I never saw any bragging. Then you went on to say there are lots of men and women are on here cheating, except men, apparently lack the same intelligence to keep quiet about it, yet there was a woman on here only yesterday with a similar thread. I only pointed that out and the only answer you could give was asking me about my status | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing Just curious. Are you married as well? Just curious What does my status have to do with anything ? Your comments indicate a certain status. We always stand corrected of course!! Wow really ? A tad judgemental i think, but that's ok, your entitled to your opinion . What is judgemental about asking a question? We note your reluctance to answer. Well maybe my reluctance to answer is down to the fact that I see absolutely no relevance whatsoever to my comments and my marital status Of course there is a relevance. If you are cheating yourself, then you are going to defend a fellow cheat aren't you? The only thing I'm defending the OP against is the fact you came on on accusing him of bragging about his situation. I never saw any bragging. Then you went on to say there are lots of men and women are on here cheating, except men, apparently lack the same intelligence to keep quiet about it, yet there was a woman on here only yesterday with a similar thread. I only pointed that out and the only answer you could give was asking me about my status " There may have been A woman on yesterday, but the men posting this crap will outnumber women about 20-1. They do their's in private, many more men like everyone to know. It seems a challenge from men to say I am cheating and I don't give a shit what anyone thinks so I will tell everyone. They would all sure give a shit if the wife found out. Women just go quietly along their way.... | |||
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"I’m happily married!!!!!! As we all are " Oh I dunno if C is | |||
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"I’m happily married!!!!!! As we all are Oh I dunno if C is " There are a few on here who can't be happily married if they treat there partners so badly. | |||
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"This shit again!!! I don’t care anymore but hope all who cheat and try and justify it hope there willies or fannys fall off!!! " Well said!! | |||
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"This shit again!!! I don’t care anymore but hope all who cheat and try and justify it hope there willies or fannys fall off!!! Well said!!" Can a fanny fall off? I may have missed the point here | |||
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"This shit again!!! I don’t care anymore but hope all who cheat and try and justify it hope there willies or fannys fall off!!! Well said!! Can a fanny fall off? I may have missed the point here" Some of the fuckers splashed all over fab definitely have bits that can fall off | |||
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"I don't see the point in these posts or half the replies given - i think ppl should feel free to do as they like and live with the consequences. I don't think it's going to achieve much to try to seek justification from a bunch horny fuckers on a fab forum. A more interesting post would be how many forum favourites are married and cheating, THAT would be fun..... " So start that thread then | |||
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"I don't see the point in these posts or half the replies given - i think ppl should feel free to do as they like and live with the consequences. I don't think it's going to achieve much to try to seek justification from a bunch horny fuckers on a fab forum. A more interesting post would be how many forum favourites are married and cheating, THAT would be fun..... So start that thread then " Ummm, I have enough fans already | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont Personally what you do is your business and nobody else's. I don't judge ive far better things to do with my life. And the reference to the offended wasnt you op it was for the apparent swinging Mormons here who do no wrong Nobody is perfect and people should judge themselves by theor own standards before others. You only have 1 life and its very short so enjoy what you can while you can Does it not matter who you hurt along the way??" Yes and no. You cant always avoid something because it'll hurt or upset or offend someone. | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks " not sure youre going to enjoy them, did you bring your hard hat | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont Personally what you do is your business and nobody else's. I don't judge ive far better things to do with my life. And the reference to the offended wasnt you op it was for the apparent swinging Mormons here who do no wrong Nobody is perfect and people should judge themselves by theor own standards before others. You only have 1 life and its very short so enjoy what you can while you can Does it not matter who you hurt along the way?? Yes and no. You cant always avoid something because it'll hurt or upset or offend someone. " It isn't just 'someone', it is your supposed life partner. The cheats aren't scared of the partner finding out, they are simply scared of their partners telling them to get out. It isn't about saving the feeling of their partners, it is about saving their own skins. | |||
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"Everyone has a reason for being here, who are we to judge but.... If you’re here, married and without consent, at least have the decency to be honest and open about it. Saves both parties the embarrassment when it ‘accidentally’ drops into conversation (as it inevitably will) If you tell me you’re not and I subsequently find you are you know where the door is ....." 'have the decency to be honest' haha if he's not going to tell his wife he's highly unlikely to be open and honest with someone else | |||
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"We all can hurt people along life's highway but choosing to hurt your partner, any kids and their future lives, family and friends is a big difference and doing so by choice says a lot about the person doing the hurting ... all for a shag? " The married people who we have spoken to don't give a flying toss whether they hurt their wives or their kids. They just want sex. How sad. | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks " Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? " All relationships are based on consent surely! | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? " Married people fucking others without their partner's consent. | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? " Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks " At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be" To be honest yesterday was the first female post like this id seen on here. There’s a male one every couple of days if not more! My opinions are the same whichever gender. | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be To be honest yesterday was the first female post like this id seen on here. There’s a male one every couple of days if not more! My opinions are the same whichever gender. " Misguided bravado I suspect | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be To be honest yesterday was the first female post like this id seen on here. There’s a male one every couple of days if not more! My opinions are the same whichever gender. Misguided bravado I suspect " Yes I suspect that too on most of them. Great filters though | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be To be honest yesterday was the first female post like this id seen on here. There’s a male one every couple of days if not more! My opinions are the same whichever gender. Misguided bravado I suspect Yes I suspect that too on most of them. Great filters though " Very true ... they never end well | |||
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"Maybe knowledge would be a less contentious word than consent? " I agree. Consent suggests directed agreement and allowing someone to do something whereas knowledge is just letting them know. Whether or not why agree is another issue. | |||
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"OK. So having been married for over 25 years, then becoming aware that the marriage was dead, the sex was rubbish (he was my only partner from age 15) and I was just the unpaid housekeeper - I divorced him. Then finding this lifestyle, and enjoying it, how about this .... If you were a man. You love your wife. She is the great love of your life. You've been together for 20 years plus. You get on well, share the same daft sense of humour, love your kids, your grandkids, have lots of good friends, share the same values .... BUT for whatever reason, she has completely gone off sex. Cuddles are ok. Holding hands. Kissing. She is still gorgeous and sexy to you, but she really isn't interested in sex anymore. You need an outlet other than your right hand, for sex. You don't want to pester her. You told her 7 years ago that you wouldn't initiate sex any more - you would leave that to her. Since then you have made love a handful of times. Why is it imperative that you leave her? The life you have is a good one. You are both happy. The only issue is sex. Believe me, most women have no idea how important sex is to men. Surely it isn't such a bad thing to have a fwb who is discreet, doesn't want you to leave your wife, and just wants sex. I'm not saying it is 'right'. Merely that for some people it is a solution to a problem. " Ad long as the person is honest about the situation | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks At least you are honest enough to admit it unlike many . One of my biggest angst is that people are quick to condem guys but are all to willing to ignore females that are here under the same guise. That is how it seems to be To be honest yesterday was the first female post like this id seen on here. There’s a male one every couple of days if not more! My opinions are the same whichever gender. " Thats the thing whatever your views, I believe it should be applied equally. It is fluidity of which the opinion changes based on gender which I feel strongly agains. | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Exactly. obviously not to your wife, but to us strangers, you're honest as the day is long! Some days Clem I you the most OP as long as you are upfront then other users can make their own mind up about your situation The best thing you could have done OP is go about your business quietly, Agree totally, but it looks like the OP would rather brag about it. There are loads of cheating women on here as well as men, but at least they have the intelligence to do just as you say and go about their business quietly. Firstly, at what point is he bragging about anything ? Secondly, there was a woman on here yesterday asking pretty much the same thing " And she was lamb to the slaughter! | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? " So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! | |||
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"OK. So having been married for over 25 years, then becoming aware that the marriage was dead, the sex was rubbish (he was my only partner from age 15) and I was just the unpaid housekeeper - I divorced him. Then finding this lifestyle, and enjoying it, how about this .... If you were a man. You love your wife. She is the great love of your life. You've been together for 20 years plus. You get on well, share the same daft sense of humour, love your kids, your grandkids, have lots of good friends, share the same values .... BUT for whatever reason, she has completely gone off sex. Cuddles are ok. Holding hands. Kissing. She is still gorgeous and sexy to you, but she really isn't interested in sex anymore. You need an outlet other than your right hand, for sex. You don't want to pester her. You told her 7 years ago that you wouldn't initiate sex any more - you would leave that to her. Since then you have made love a handful of times. Why is it imperative that you leave her? The life you have is a good one. You are both happy. The only issue is sex. Believe me, most women have no idea how important sex is to men. Surely it isn't such a bad thing to have a fwb who is discreet, doesn't want you to leave your wife, and just wants sex. I'm not saying it is 'right'. Merely that for some people it is a solution to a problem. " Would the wife think it isn’t such a bad thing though? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 14/10/19 20:54:39]" Weather we swing together or apart or married or separated it's all cheating, love and lust are different entities , What we get from swinging is the lust that lots of married people have lost , They have not lost loving each each other , Just changes in the dynamic of the couple | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 14/10/19 20:54:39]Weather we swing together or apart or married or separated it's all cheating, love and lust are different entities , What we get from swinging is the lust that lots of married people have lost , They have not lost loving each each other , Just changes in the dynamic of the couple " How is it cheating if your partner agrees? Or you do it together? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 14/10/19 20:54:39]Weather we swing together or apart or married or separated it's all cheating, love and lust are different entities , What we get from swinging is the lust that lots of married people have lost , They have not lost loving each each other , Just changes in the dynamic of the couple " Eh? | |||
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"OK. So having been married for over 25 years, then becoming aware that the marriage was dead, the sex was rubbish (he was my only partner from age 15) and I was just the unpaid housekeeper - I divorced him. Then finding this lifestyle, and enjoying it, how about this .... If you were a man. You love your wife. She is the great love of your life. You've been together for 20 years plus. You get on well, share the same daft sense of humour, love your kids, your grandkids, have lots of good friends, share the same values .... BUT for whatever reason, she has completely gone off sex. Cuddles are ok. Holding hands. Kissing. She is still gorgeous and sexy to you, but she really isn't interested in sex anymore. You need an outlet other than your right hand, for sex. You don't want to pester her. You told her 7 years ago that you wouldn't initiate sex any more - you would leave that to her. Since then you have made love a handful of times. Why is it imperative that you leave her? The life you have is a good one. You are both happy. The only issue is sex. Believe me, most women have no idea how important sex is to men. Surely it isn't such a bad thing to have a fwb who is discreet, doesn't want you to leave your wife, and just wants sex. I'm not saying it is 'right'. Merely that for some people it is a solution to a problem. Would the wife think it isn’t such a bad thing though?" We agree totally. The wife should also have her choice. | |||
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"Everyone has a reason for being here, who are we to judge but.... If you’re here, married and without consent, at least have the decency to be honest and open about it. Saves both parties the embarrassment when it ‘accidentally’ drops into conversation (as it inevitably will) If you tell me you’re not and I subsequently find you are you know where the door is ..... 'have the decency to be honest' haha if he's not going to tell his wife he's highly unlikely to be open and honest with someone else " Very true but he’s also unlikely to have the ability to maintain the pretence with someone on fab! | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!!" No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so. | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so." And it* bloody predictive text | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so." And it* bloody predictive text | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so." Out of interest, if he found out would he mind/be hurt or be fine with it? | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so. Out of interest, if he found out would he mind/be hurt or be fine with it? " So if you asked him if it was ok for you to do this and he said no.. would you stop? | |||
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"Curious to see how many other married users are on here and how many are on here without their partner's consent. I for one am here without her consent, but that's a choice I've made. What are other peoples opinions.. Thanks Consent? Since when does an adult need consent from another to do as they please? Your joking right?? That comment is wrong on so many levels Nope. Not joking. Are you a burglar? A burglar? What do you mean? So adults don’t need consent, hmmmm!!! No.As adults we each make our own choices. Is it a requirement to seek permission from my husband to live my life as I choose? My husband doesn't seek permission from me to do what he pleases and I would never insist he should. He has no sex drive but I do. We are best friends and have no secrets other than that. I tell the truth to folk I speak to on here.. I dont feel the need to tell my husband I am on here... admit isn't fear of being homeless when I own the house that we live in. My husband and I have different priorities in life... our marriage is perfect for us. We are 2 different people who are capable of making our decisions independently in life without seeking permission or approval from the other to do so. Out of interest, if he found out would he mind/be hurt or be fine with it? " In all honesty Suki he may be a little hurt, but would probably be fine with it. Nobody is perfect... or as perfect as they would like to think they are. And as things are no different at home...he would be fine. All the things that are important to him I meet. I work hard to keep him happy... maybe our marriage is more perfect for him than me....? | |||
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"I though most of the guys on here were? There just can't be that many men age 30 - 50 on the shelf. Haha exactly mate atleast I'm honest in a way Ever thought of being just as honest to your wife? Great input. Sure someone else asked that. How do any of you know that I've not been honest with her in the past and she's converted into a nun? Ya dont Personally what you do is your business and nobody else's. I don't judge ive far better things to do with my life. And the reference to the offended wasnt you op it was for the apparent swinging Mormons here who do no wrong Nobody is perfect and people should judge themselves by theor own standards before others. You only have 1 life and its very short so enjoy what you can while you can " Hey you should type on these threads a lot more! I like you - it'll always be my round (2 beers) | |||
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"I think one of the reasons why people are NOT honest about ‘playing away’ is the negative responses they get in the forum when they announce it. If people were more accepting then people might be more honest and everyone would benefit. " Why should more people be accepting? I won’t be accepting of cheats, but I won’t bleat on about it all the time, I’m entitled to feel how I feel. I personally think it’s ridiculous to ever expect honesty from someone who deceives the most important person in their life. | |||
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"Personally we decided not to play with people playing away from home. Some will and some won't. For us it's too risky. If that person got caught we'd feel guilty. That said I have known people playing away from home who I don't judge. Everyone has their reasons (like not wanting to become homeless for example). But if it's not working the best thing to do is be honest!! It's not always black and white we get that. " Well said. Everyone's situations and circumstances are different. Who are we to judge what is right it wrong? | |||
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