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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

OK ok I'm outta here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked him why he doesn't want to have sex with you?

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"Have you asked him why he doesn't want to have sex with you?"
he gone of sex he even got rid of all his porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does your status have an lol after saying your hubby wont give you sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"
you have been here a while when did he go off sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does your status have an lol after saying your hubby wont give you sex?

"

I just thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"
it might be worth reading your write up its got a few errors lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be thankful you don't have to fuck him.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Try talking to him or counselling.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I was in your position, I would be trying to find out why and trying to resolve it.

Our marriage is more important than sex.

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

Your profile veris give the impression you have a fb. And lots of socials .. you seem to be making up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does your status have an lol after saying your hubby wont give you sex?

I just thought that"

Ah that old comedy gold of Marital issues

Is someone trying to make a point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try talking to him or counselling. "
I'd never go to the council with something as delicate as my sex life, now my rates yes

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

Thats true he said only last night in bed with me, "god there is no way im giving her indoors sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP does he know you're on here?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Try talking to him or counselling. I'd never go to the council with something as delicate as my sex life, now my rates yes "

Damned taxes.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Monkey walks in, reads and walks out shaking head "lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for wives who need fucking because their husbands don't

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

Perhaps he prefers men now

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Ask him if he wants to join you on here.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat"

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

He’s probably fucking someone else

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat"

Actually, I don't do either if those things, I dont drive much anymore and I'm single.

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

it might be worth reading your write up its got a few errors lol

"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Is he the fella you meet with OP (as mentioned in last veri?). Maybe he’s just had enough?

Have a chat with him and see what’s going on. There’ll be something bothering him and you just need to chip away at him till he spills the beans as to what it is.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Is he the fella you meet with OP (as mentioned in last veri?). Maybe he’s just had enough?

Have a chat with him and see what’s going on. There’ll be something bothering him and you just need to chip away at him till he spills the beans as to what it is.

"

But he doesn't want to spill his beans

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is he the fella you meet with OP (as mentioned in last veri?). Maybe he’s just had enough?

Have a chat with him and see what’s going on. There’ll be something bothering him and you just need to chip away at him till he spills the beans as to what it is.

"

Maybe he know she has a lover and is in here and that why he doesn't want sex with her.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

The OP didn’t ask to be slated about her life or verifications. Yes there are probably many women in similar situations as her. We don’t always know why marriages fall apart.

I spent the last year of married life in a sexless relationship and yes I did ask him and received no answer. After 13 years of marriage and three children, he left. He traded me in for a woman 10 years younger and no kids.

Being on Fab may actually keep couples together as they can get the sex life they don’t get at home but still keep their marriage together.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People are on fab for all sorts of reasons and it doesn’t matter to me what those reasons are.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Imagine if the OP had a penis...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Imagine if the OP had a penis..."

Maybe her husband would want to have sex with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your husband doesn't seem to have went of sex when i'm banging him

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Imagine if the OP had a penis..."

Quite

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Imagine if the OP had a penis...

Maybe her husband would want to have sex with her. "

Maybe

I reckon the replies would be different.

Burn the cheat...burn them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been chatting to a woman for months who's in a similar boat, husband is vanilla and she's a complete freak. Seems fairly common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask him if he wants to join you on here."

We always need men on here who don't want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here thats why i am here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Ask him if he wants to join you on here.

We always need men on here who don't want to fuck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP didn’t ask to be slated about her life or verifications. Yes there are probably many women in similar situations as her. We don’t always know why marriages fall apart.

I spent the last year of married life in a sexless relationship and yes I did ask him and received no answer. After 13 years of marriage and three children, he left. He traded me in for a woman 10 years younger and no kids.

Being on Fab may actually keep couples together as they can get the sex life they don’t get at home but still keep their marriage together.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat"

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"same here thats why i am here"

Grab your pitchforks everybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same here thats why i am here"

Well have ypu tried asking her husband why he wont have sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same here thats why i am here

Grab your pitchforks everybody! "

I'm releasing the hounds.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

But you say you’re here for friendship not just sex!!

Walk away a say before someone gets hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here my other half gone off sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses."

Nope. I would have said the same.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses."

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses."

This.

The judgement and discernment from some of the forumites who appear to sit up there in their ivory towers thinking they know it all with their smart ass replies and pack mentality really gets on my pip.

This lady is a real person, with a real problem, doing the best she can with what she's got. That's the best *anyone* can do.

The only time you should look down on someone is to give them a hand helping them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Nope. I would have said the same. "

Burning people with marital problems isn't exactly what I would call a winning comment or advice tbf

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

"

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

3 years of problems .. a would walk.. just saying

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

"

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

"

I think the totch and pitchfork pack were making the.point that the very balanced responses on this thread would be.very different if the OP were a man.

Context is very important whem reading posts.

There wasnt much nastyness in this thread people will differ on the subject but to be quite honest the most self rightous post here has been yours

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

I think the totch and pitchfork pack were making the.point that the very balanced responses on this thread would be.very different if the OP were a man.

Context is very important whem reading posts.

There wasnt much nastyness in this thread people will differ on the subject but to be quite honest the most self rightous post here has been yours"

That's exactly the point I was trying to make but it seems to have whooshed over a few heads. Never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

I think the totch and pitchfork pack were making the.point that the very balanced responses on this thread would be.very different if the OP were a man.

Context is very important whem reading posts.

There wasnt much nastyness in this thread people will differ on the subject but to be quite honest the most self rightous post here has been yours

That's exactly the point I was trying to make but it seems to have whooshed over a few heads. Never mind "

Its hard to fully understand the point of a post whem rushing.for your pitchfork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on here because my other half will not give me any intimacy anymore a man has needs too do you not know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!"

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

I think the totch and pitchfork pack were making the.point that the very balanced responses on this thread would be.very different if the OP were a man.

Context is very important whem reading posts.

There wasnt much nastyness in this thread people will differ on the subject but to be quite honest the most self rightous post here has been yours

That's exactly the point I was trying to make but it seems to have whooshed over a few heads. Never mind

Its hard to fully understand the point of a post whem rushing.for your pitchfork "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry, at least it is just your husband. Every woman has gone off sex with me lol x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Imagine if the OP had a penis...

Maybe her husband would want to have sex with her.

Maybe

I reckon the replies would be different.

Burn the cheat...burn them!"

To be fair though she's not been given a fluffy reception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

I think the totch and pitchfork pack were making the.point that the very balanced responses on this thread would be.very different if the OP were a man.

Context is very important whem reading posts.

There wasnt much nastyness in this thread people will differ on the subject but to be quite honest the most self rightous post here has been yours"

There wasn't "MUCH" nastiness on the thread being the word, admitting there was that going on. I was balancing it out I think you will find but hey I don't mind people starting on me for defending someone, rather that than for attacking someone with a problem to be honest ... but that's just me

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

It’s why I joined Fab a few years ago. I hadn’t had sex for over two years at home with my then husband.

Luckily for me my marriage was over anyway and I left him after meeting the wonderful Mr J

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

It's goes to show its not all about the pussy power

As a man we have penis power too hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here my other half not had sex with me in 7 years now! she has gone off sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There wasn't "MUCH" nastiness on the thread being the word, admitting there was that going on. I was balancing it out I think you will find but hey I don't mind people starting on me for defending someone, rather that than for attacking someone with a problem to be honest ... but that's just me "

Let me rephrase. What nastyness do you mean. I see some posts asking to clarify the OPs.position and others that have given good advice and then the ones you completely misread and jumped.to judgement in your rush to tell others stop judging?

No one is starting or attacking each other. Its this type of emotive language that actually gets in the way of people.sharing honest opinions

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd encourage you to be supportive of him, as presumably you'd both prefer him to have his sexual interests still. Any causes of his issues are worth exploring, as well as having as much physical intimacy as you can. He may feel quite lost and concerned, including with worry about your relationship longer term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my other half says she cant be arsed with sex anymore see it is not a 1 way road Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There wasn't "MUCH" nastiness on the thread being the word, admitting there was that going on. I was balancing it out I think you will find but hey I don't mind people starting on me for defending someone, rather that than for attacking someone with a problem to be honest ... but that's just me

Let me rephrase. What nastyness do you mean. I see some posts asking to clarify the OPs.position and others that have given good advice and then the ones you completely misread and jumped.to judgement in your rush to tell others stop judging?

No one is starting or attacking each other. Its this type of emotive language that actually gets in the way of people.sharing honest opinions "

There was emotive language used throughout this thread and not just by me, you are saying such language stops people giving honest opinions, I say it stops people reaching out for help which is really sad, that people might have something heavy on their heart with no-one to talk to, they come here and get blasted. It's just very sad to me.

If anyone is going through anything, I have a none judgy ear here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he just doesn't want sex with you. Maybe it's you not him

......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

I’m sorry to hear this OP, has it developed into more of a sibling relationship? I think this happens a lot when you’ve been with someone for a while. My advice? Have your fun on here and enjoy every single minute of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have come to the right place lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try talking to him or counselling. I'd never go to the council with something as delicate as my sex life, now my rates yes

Damned taxes. "
yes i cycle everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

This.

The judgement and discernment from some of the forumites who appear to sit up there in their ivory towers thinking they know it all with their smart ass replies and pack mentality really gets on my pip.

This lady is a real person, with a real problem, doing the best she can with what she's got. That's the best *anyone* can do.

The only time you should look down on someone is to give them a hand helping them up

"

But the self righteous pedestals off fab are full, no room for people who break the speed limit or God forbid..... Cheat!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

I’m sorry to hear this OP, has it developed into more of a sibling relationship? I think this happens a lot when you’ve been with someone for a while. My advice? Have your fun on here and enjoy every single minute of it... "

I love your ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Maybe he just doesn't want sex with you. Maybe it's you not him

...... "

That could be the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same here thats why i am here"
he won't fuck you either?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?"

Ok. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s a phase

Or maybe you have to try different things

May also be worth chatting to a doctor as maybe something else

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?"

Then like a said to the op.. leave before someone gets hurt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?"

Kick her into touch mate, get yourself a young horny slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?

Then like a said to the op.. leave before someone gets hurt!!"

Leave!! Great advice that is, maybe they enjoy each others company ffs

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

Thats true he said only last night in bed with me, "god there is no way im giving her indoors sex" "

Lmao. Lucky bugger

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I'll never understand why people cheat. But sex isnt the be all and end all of a relationship. I can see some people getting hurt down the line. And having been the one who's been hurt, I really feel for all the partners who have no idea what their supposed loved one gets up to.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?"

Yeah, you mentioned

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?

Then like a said to the op.. leave before someone gets hurt!!

Leave!! Great advice that is, maybe they enjoy each others company ffs"

Well that maybe true.. but if she is unaware of this its gunna hurt if she finds out? I can see how that is bad advice??

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?

Then like a said to the op.. leave before someone gets hurt!!

Leave!! Great advice that is, maybe they enjoy each others company ffs

Well that maybe true.. but if she is unaware of this its gunna hurt if she finds out? I cant see how that is bad advice??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner not had sex with me in 8 years! So its not just sexless women on here ok ?

Then like a said to the op.. leave before someone gets hurt!!

Leave!! Great advice that is, maybe they enjoy each others company ffs

Well that maybe true.. but if she is unaware of this its gunna hurt if she finds out? I can see how that is bad advice??"

She probably knows, and doesn't give a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your still in love with each other and everything else in your relationship is good then talk to him ,if not then leave him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all a bag of priorities, respect, care for others and putting yourself first in various proportions.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here. "

I wouldn't share a packet of crisps on here let alone our personal lives

S

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

I wouldn't share a packet of crisps on here let alone our personal lives

S"

I wouldn’t share a packet of crisp anyway lol

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By *ambornemanMan
over a year ago

In your town now

He's clearly getting it elsewhere like you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully my not quite hubby but other half thankfully has a high sex drive like me.

I’ve told him if we ever get married and he stops putting out at least once a day it would be legitimate reason for a divorce ??

Sex is important to us so it was a relief we having matching sex drives. But we talk and open about everything we would discuss it and find ways to ‘fix’ it if there was an issue

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat"

Once I drove 31 in a 30 zone because of an unexpected hill and mild inattention, I'm still wracked with guilt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

I wouldn't share a packet of crisps on here let alone our personal lives

S"

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"It's nobodies business if you fuck behind your hubbies back,but if your looking for validation from the people of fab then good luck,none of them break the speed limit never mind cheat

Once I drove 31 in a 30 zone because of an unexpected hill and mild inattention, I'm still wracked with guilt..."

You’re going to hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile veris give the impression you have a fb. And lots of socials .. you seem to be making up for it"

I agree. I don't see a complaint here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here. "

However should this have been me with 130 or veris be it social or otherwise, openly admitting to cheating due to lack of sex with said wife i would hung, drawn quartered, skinned alive and castrated at the same time.

The point people were trying to make was the double standard between men and women. In 2019 men and women are equal, if you can treat a man like that for doing the same then you can treat a woman exactly the same. So in my opinion boo hoo, dry your eyes and deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

However should this have been me with 130 or veris be it social or otherwise, openly admitting to cheating due to lack of sex with said wife i would hung, drawn quartered, skinned alive and castrated at the same time.

The point people were trying to make was the double standard between men and women. In 2019 men and women are equal, if you can treat a man like that for doing the same then you can treat a woman exactly the same. So in my opinion boo hoo, dry your eyes and deal with it. "

Edit: the number should be 30 130 and yes i feel like a twat for having to correct myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a shit sex life in my marriage for various reasons. The marriage itself wasn’t great, I left.

Never been happier.

Single life rocks.

Just leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take him to a club or give him his own profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take him to a club or give him his own profile "

It won't work if he has a low sex drive or no interest in sex

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Nope. I would have said the same.

Burning people with marital problems isn't exactly what I would call a winning comment or advice tbf "

Baby cakes, I want to assure you that wasn't me 'burning' someone.

Neither was it advice. Should you feel so inclined I would suggest you read such threads started by the male variety..the man in the sexless marriage and then you will see what my comment means.

But thankyou kindly for your reply, my aim today wasn't to win the internet so fear not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Nope. I would have said the same.

Burning people with marital problems isn't exactly what I would call a winning comment or advice tbf

Baby cakes, I want to assure you that wasn't me 'burning' someone.

Neither was it advice. Should you feel so inclined I would suggest you read such threads started by the male variety..the man in the sexless marriage and then you will see what my comment means.

But thankyou kindly for your reply, my aim today wasn't to win the internet so fear not. "

I have read many threads, been here for years. I know how it goes and if you read above babycakes you would see that I don't advocate judgement for anyone for THEIR life choices regardless of their genitalia. I don't care who posts it personally. My point is that the forum is full of toxic judgement by 'perfect' people.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he just doesn't have an interest in having sex with the op, maybe hes overweight or ill or has erectile dysfunction, maybe hes secretly bi so many different reasons could apply, the Ops been here a year at least seems a bit odd to ask your advice now

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

"

How come I wasn’t invited to the wedding?!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

How come I wasn’t invited to the wedding?! "

I am so sorry, how incredibly rude of me.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

How come I wasn’t invited to the wedding?!

I am so sorry, how incredibly rude of me. "

I wanted to fuck the bridesmaids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I was being pleasured orally by my husband...did I miss much?

"
omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"

Practically mirrors my profile! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, cheating is shit, it's more the bragging manner in which the OP has gone about it that has got my goat.

Those who've said the OP would have been slayed for doing it if she were a man are 100% correct.

No, we don't know the ins and outs (or lack of) in their relationship but to flaunt the fact you're taking them for a cunt ain't fair either.

P

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Near Okehampton.

lol..Great thread, as usual the opposing sides come out and try and fix all the problems of the World.

The Holier than thou brigade sit on the fence then start throwing daggers.

All from people that don't take life or themselves seriously. Oh Behave !!!

I am convinced that a lot of threads are started by something a little thought pushing and controversial and everyone dives in......

Crack on Guys very entertaining. Is this real life, I think not.

just my thoughts, but watch me get shot down

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Looking at the ops past threads also makes me think she knew exactly what she was doing by posting this thread .. Just my opinion

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Looking at the ops past threads also makes me think she knew exactly what she was doing by posting this thread .. Just my opinion "

I concur

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

However should this have been me with 130 or veris be it social or otherwise, openly admitting to cheating due to lack of sex with said wife i would hung, drawn quartered, skinned alive and castrated at the same time.

The point people were trying to make was the double standard between men and women. In 2019 men and women are equal, if you can treat a man like that for doing the same then you can treat a woman exactly the same. So in my opinion boo hoo, dry your eyes and deal with it. "

The ones who say people are being judgy are generally the ones playing away themselves, no doubt. Personally speaking I have no interest in meeting people of either sex playing away, not even for a social. I'm an equal opportunities person.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m sure there was a thread yesterday saying how all sorts of people come here for support and advice and get a lot of comfort from it and anyone attacking a vulnerable person is a complete arse. You’ve got to love the forums

OP It’s a shame you can’t ask something on here and be treated with some civility, no matter what gender. Whatever is said someone will pounce on you it’s inevitable unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why im on here no sex life at home so I wonder how many women are on here who are in my place so lets open up this forum to see what is said

"
Sad news. With us, sex is still very much there although I, the husband has a back condition that causes me a lot of pain. We've talked a lot about it together and we've found ways around it. You're husband has some issue somewhere. Talk to him gently and lovingly. The answer is in communication. With me if pressure to perform is applied or mrs gets annoyed, I just walk further away. Understanding and communication are key. Best to you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same position as you. Sex with hubs is nonexistent. And I seek the same when meeting others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

Having been cheated on in the past by my ex husband .. i think my opinion to walk away is valid .

I was referring to people who were in the torch and pitchfork pack and the ones making fun of the OPs pain. Sensitivity severely lacking but judgement in oodles.

Ok but when its put in an open forum to discuss people look into that op! And its not all that it seams!

Oh hell, so she shared a problem that she is having, I don't think she deserved this level of judgement. Put your proverbial stones down people, I didn't think we lived in that kind of society over here.

I wouldn't share a packet of crisps on here let alone our personal lives

S

I wouldn’t share a packet of crisp anyway lol "

Unless it was roast chicken flavour

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Dont worry, at least it is just your husband. Every woman has gone off sex with me lol x"

I am sure that is not entirely true.

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By *evyn69Man
over a year ago

Staines


"The OP didn’t ask to be slated about her life or verifications. Yes there are probably many women in similar situations as her. We don’t always know why marriages fall apart.

I spent the last year of married life in a sexless relationship and yes I did ask him and received no answer. After 13 years of marriage and three children, he left. He traded me in for a woman 10 years younger and no kids.

Being on Fab may actually keep couples together as they can get the sex life they don’t get at home but still keep their marriage together.

"

Can save a marriage if the only thing breaking it is different sexual desires! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to swap sex than to be asked to just give it........

(wait, you're reading that all wrong!!!!)

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Self righteous, judgy people on the forum who are saints, have no marriage/relationship problems, are 100% honest and never step a foot out of line!

Forum people should walk a mile in someone else's shoes before judging them, if you can't do that then get to know someone before throwing judgement. If the OP was your friend or colleague and you were sat down over coffee and had confided in you in this way I think you would have been gentler and more understanding with your responses.

This.

The judgement and discernment from some of the forumites who appear to sit up there in their ivory towers thinking they know it all with their smart ass replies and pack mentality really gets on my pip.

This lady is a real person, with a real problem, doing the best she can with what she's got. That's the best *anyone* can do.

The only time you should look down on someone is to give them a hand helping them up

Now that I second we could and all should take note of that we're all here for our reasons and needs that are personal to us some wish to share those reasons others don't we shudnt judge and as this beautiful lady puts it so well we should offer a helping hand and an ear to listen give an opinion when and if asked and consider it well before giving not just give it. Life is very complicated xx at times we all need something or someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all the perfect swinging Mormons out 99% of the issue with the op is that she felt the need to brag about what she's doing. the problem with the mormon types is that if the op were a man he would annihilated for saying something similar to this but because its a woman you have to defend and justify her actions. This is 2019 where men and women have equal rights including being treated exactly the same as a man for doing something like this.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"For all the perfect swinging Mormons out 99% of the issue with the op is that she felt the need to brag about what she's doing. the problem with the mormon types is that if the op were a man he would annihilated for saying something similar to this but because its a woman you have to defend and justify her actions. This is 2019 where men and women have equal rights including being treated exactly the same as a man for doing something like this. "

I have not defended her one iota

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you're having trouble at home then fab is a very bad idea! Why not communicate with each other?

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