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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do you worry if your friends here drop unusually out of contact?

I'm an old softie sometimes, I know.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes I do.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

No think we all worry about people we talk to if they go quiet for a while...it's only natural!!

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"No think we all worry about people we talk to if they go quiet for a while...it's only natural!! "

I not no....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. All grown ups.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It depends how well I know them, life happens for all of us and sometimes I need space or I'm just plain busy so I assume the same of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t worry. I assume they’ve got better things to do than talking to me. I’m not good at keeping contact really so I can’t complain if they don’t either

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're not close with anyone on the forum so no, I don't worry.

There are one or two whose occasional absence I notice though

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My close friends yes. People I talk to less frequently I'd probably not notice immediately. However if I did flag it I'd check in with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think it depends on the previously regularity of contact - if it was someone I usually spoke to daily and didn't hear from for a few days I'd maybe be concerned, if it were someone I swapped a couple of messages with every now and then, then not so much

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't. If we were actual friends then they wouldn't disappear, we'd be in contact away from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long there gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all come back, eventually.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"We're not close with anyone on the forum so no, I don't worry.

There are one or two whose occasional absence I notice though"

Lol bet thats not me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My "friends" always drop out of contact, at least with me. I stopped worrying about it long ago.

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

I never worry, friends come and go, an then ya make new ones... Simply as that

Titch

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

If I knew they were sad, going through a difficult time or upset about something then yes i’d Worry. I chat to very few forumites, and even fewer off here, so i’d Have no way of checking in with them elsewhere.

But otherwise, i’d assume they were just having a break or hopefully had met someone special and maybe moved on.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Im always there for my friends even if not seen or spoken for a while as know our worlds are busy....

But if they need me or i them....

I know they will be there in a heartbeat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you worry if your friends here drop unusually out of contact?

I'm an old softie sometimes, I know. "

Can you contact them outside of the site?

I think it's nice that you care about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to worry yes. Especially if I'm aware someone has been going through a tough time. I just want to let them know they're cared for and it can be a bit ouchie if they just disappear without saying goodbye

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We're not close with anyone on the forum so no, I don't worry.

There are one or two whose occasional absence I notice though

Lol bet thats not me xx"

We do wonder where you've got to sometimes but we know how to make you appear

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, genuine friends I'd be in contact with and they'd let me know. Sometimes I do think/wonder what's happened but they get in touch sooner or later. Maybe it's a meet or family stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t worry. I assume they’ve got better things to do than talking to me. I’m not good at keeping contact really so I can’t complain if they don’t either "

This is so me. People I know have much better things to do than chat to me.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"We're not close with anyone on the forum so no, I don't worry.

There are one or two whose occasional absence I notice though

Lol bet thats not me xx

We do wonder where you've got to sometimes but we know how to make you appear "

Shouldnt be so classy with your pics......

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

If they are my real friends I'll just contact them away from Fab and make sure all ok so I am generally all good

Fab acquaintances always come and go and then come back again......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t worry. I assume they’ve got better things to do than talking to me. I’m not good at keeping contact really so I can’t complain if they don’t either

This is so me. People I know have much better things to do than chat to me. "

They have. My friends know how to get in touch with me if they need me. When I feel it has been too long I usually break the ice again. I hadn’t seen a couple of local close friends for over a year until a week ago. I felt it had been too long so I messaged them and we all went out for a curry. It was like we were only together the day before except for the need to catch up on what had been happening. We are all busy with our own stuff: work, families etc.... That kind of friendship seems to be independent of chronological time. A kind of kairatic order seems to determine how it functions...a sense of timelessness about it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It depends on what sort of friends you are and how close. If it’s a good friend, someone I chat to on a daily basis and they just disappeared then yes, I would be a little concerned. I like to think that the type of relationship I have with my friends would mean that they would say if they were going quiet for a while - not in a ‘reporting in’ kind of way but just because friends usually say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the people I have met on here yes I do

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It depends who it is, and for how long they were awol...just a day or two and I'd presume they were on an overnight/weekend meet. Longer than that and I'd drop them a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never gone long enough for anyone to notice or worry.

I don't worry as such but I often notice people who haven't posted for a while. The only times iv been concerned is when someone has posted something that suggests they are not OK then gone UNLOS but there isn't anything I can do.

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