FabSwingers.com forum: Do you reply to a winker?.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Nope I don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Like a poke... Yes I do

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Yes I do! Many women are shy about creating that first message, so tend to use the wink as an opener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used to until a friend told me me the benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do! I love a cheeky wink....not all of them but a lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yeah...

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t even look to be honest..

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We do if we like the look of the winkers

Mike and Molly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no. delete all without looking

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Only if they are very local and look like someone I might like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's a good way to see if their is a mutual attraction before sending an unwanted message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at that bit

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

Very rarely, it said on the profile don't send wink send message but still get winks. What is wrong with a simple message if your interested? Think winks should be removed from the site, hey ho.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, prefer them over 'u meetin' or 'fancy a fuk' messages, that I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of them yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's a good way to see if their is a mutual attraction before sending an unwanted message. "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..have been known to wink once in a while..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to but don’t anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i tend to mass delete

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong

Only if I like the look of them otherwise I just delete the wink.

Like some other people, I suggest sending a little message saying Hi instead as I'll always reply to a message.

I rarely wink (send messages instead) either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who's doing the winking.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We do, it's a good way to see if the other party are interested in our opinion so a reply is sent most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, if I'm having a ninja perv at their profile off the back of here I'm more likely to send a quick message if I've seen they have winked in the past.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

Nope if they not got time to send a message why should I reply to someone who winked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what detail is in the profile.

No photos, no verification and a straight guy? Definitely no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the majority are blokes wanting to turn me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Not even if I like the look of them.

What does their wink mean ?

Am I supposed to ask a series of questions to find out their intentions ?

Fuck their laziness/shyness/couldn't be arsed ness/ look at me ness/ indirectness/cuntishness.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare that we would reply to a wink. We prefer to chat. Although we have replied to a few winks to thank them and invite to chat with us.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Always try to reply to a wink or a message.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

If I like their profile I say hi and wait for the obvious questions like are you dressed now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are harmless... i dont mind works well as a 'hey i see you sugar'....lol i dont see what the problem is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not even if I like the look of them.

What does their wink mean ?

Am I supposed to ask a series of questions to find out their intentions ?

Fuck their laziness/shyness/couldn't be arsed ness/ look at me ness/ indirectness/cuntishness....... "
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It probably means they are interested in you, and they are probably hoping you find them attractive enough to return the wink so they can start a conversion with you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes. I'll start the conversation and see if it leads anywhere.

Even if it's just chat.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I only reply with a wink back

Shows a returned interest

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No. Not even if I like the look of them.

What does their wink mean ?

Am I supposed to ask a series of questions to find out their intentions ?

Fuck their laziness/shyness/couldn't be arsed ness/ look at me ness/ indirectness/cuntishness....... .

It probably means they are interested in you, and they are probably hoping you find them attractive enough to return the wink so they can start a conversion with you

Probably is a big word..

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Never looked at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id not be in love if i didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not even if I like the look of them.

What does their wink mean ?

Am I supposed to ask a series of questions to find out their intentions ?

Fuck their laziness/shyness/couldn't be arsed ness/ look at me ness/ indirectness/cuntishness....... .

It probably means they are interested in you, and they are probably hoping you find them attractive enough to return the wink so they can start a conversion with you

Probably is a big word..

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Only 8 letters

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Nope, just delete them

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

It's very, very rare I'd reply to a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do if there is an attraction! If not then we don't delete as means they can't wink again for a while! It's a great, hassle free first step to show an interest!

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i get some winks i will let you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who they are. Nothing nicer than admiring someone from afar then having them wink you.

Does deserve a thank you message tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never even looked at winks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Not very often. Usually let's me know which profiles to avoid though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do as it shows that someone is interested. However I appreciate ladies are inundated with winks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I check out the profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at profile and reply if interested

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I rarely check them

But when I do, if I spot a profile that intrests me, I'll wink back

They may have sent it weeks earlier, some have been ignored, a few have replied & led to some nice chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t mind a wink , do get quite a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if there is a mutual interest, see nothing wrong in it and not sure why it upsets some people.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Never looked at winks "

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We don't mind winkers. If we like the look of their profile and pics (if they actually have one) we'll wink back and await the carefully crafted message to entice us further. Much prefer a wink to the normal shit one liners and the winker doesn't have to waste their time sending a message that will be ignored or at best, replied to with a thanks but no thanks that also wastes our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very occasionally xx

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

It’s a facility, it’s like a knock at the door, you can choose to answer it or not, I have used it as a polite way or trying to strike up a conversation.

_tripper9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check out all wink and if I like the look of them, location as well then happily wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I have replied to quite a few wankers!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No.

We reply to almost all our messages though.

Katie.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not even if I like the look of them.

What does their wink mean ?

Am I supposed to ask a series of questions to find out their intentions ?

Fuck their laziness/shyness/couldn't be arsed ness/ look at me ness/ indirectness/cuntishness....... .

It probably means they are interested in you, and they are probably hoping you find them attractive enough to return the wink so they can start a conversion with you

This is what we think, we wink at people and if they like us they message or wink back, it’s not laziness it lets them choose if they even want a message. If they wink back we message them.

We message as well. We do look at winks and wink back if we like them deciding they can message if they wink first haha

It’s not a rage inducing system for us personally.

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Yes, of course. Friends often wink to see if we're actually online before messaging. Fab seems to show people online for quite a while after they've logged off.

We do try to reply to winks if we can, if it's new people. The problem, of course, is thinking a reply is some kind of agreement to meet. #

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I do indeed, in the same way I'd reply to a message

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't even look at my winks. Oops.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If their profile intrigues me or I like their pictures I'll reply with a 'thanks for the wink'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a female / couple, yes. I always send a message, whether It be of refusal or not. It’s nice to know sometimes, isn’t it?

I get that females / couples probably get bombarded, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t beat a good wink .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we dont

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If they have read our profile and we like theirs ,yes we do.

Miss

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have replied in the past. It depends on if we find them appealing to us or not.

Mr2

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I never look at my winks

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

If we receive a wink, and we like the look of their profile, we wink back.

Shows we are mutually interested

Then up to the original winker to send a message

I think if the original winker expects a message back first ... then that's just rank laziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get the point of winks. I'd rather someone pm me if they like my profile.

A wink seems lazy in my view.

Just my opinion I know. Am interested to see others'opnions too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may occasionally wink back x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes i like them. If I get a wink I like I will return the wink, then usually it leads to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, if I'm having a ninja perv at their profile off the back of here I'm more likely to send a quick message if I've seen they have winked in the past."

Ha ha ha ninja perv! Im so stealing that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love getting a wink

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

If they’re hot we do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more winks than messages tbh, often ppl just not quite bold enough to say hi, or forum lurkers who've readied appreciate my nonsense, so I dont see any reason why not wink or message them back and start up a new friendship.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I fancy more than a wink off um quite frankly.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I can't remember the last time I even checked. So a no from ne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look and when I want to wink back.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I like them.

I see them as a replacement for a smile in a room that says "I'd quite like to talk to you".

Most people don't go bounding up to people in real life and start talking without a smile first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, if I like the look of a winker, I'll totally respond. Either by returning their wink or with a quick message. Why not? Fab doesn't *have* to be hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, if I like the look of a winker, I'll totally respond. Either by returning their wink or with a quick message. Why not? Fab doesn't *have* to be hard work! "

Couldnt agree more, and a wee wink just reunited me with a certain gent I knew in another life so all good

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

Not anymore, have returned a few winks and have not heard back. If someone is interested enough they will message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

Didn’t used to, but I realised that if a profile can’t message you due to filters they can wink. Occasionally, there’s a fabber who’s not verified or a site supporter and the wink catches my eye.. winky, wink back.

Winking back by-passes the filters so they can then message me

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I find the wink to be a good way to indicate interest without being too intrusive and to see if the interest is mutual. Have struck up some good friends and conversations thanks to the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used to until a friend told me me the benefits

I have hours of fun winking men who catch my eye, then if they like what they see ...fab bingo off we go

The power of a wink is immense to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better start messaging after reading this

note to self no more winking

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It is only when I read a thread about it that it prompts me to look

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

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over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

This is what we think, we wink at people and if they like us they message or wink back, it’s not laziness it lets them choose if they even want a message. If they wink back we message them.

We message as well. We do look at winks and wink back if we like them deciding they can message if they wink first haha

It’s not a rage inducing system for us personally. "

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We like receiving winks, it’s a way of showing interest.

If we wink back we’re interested to see where it will lead.

If we message someone who winks, we’re definitely interested.

B&J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, not anymore, I may wink back..

"If you're gonna shoot, shoot! Don't talk".

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Yes, I do most times

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, if we like the look of them.

Nita

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Never used to until a friend told me me the benefits

I have hours of fun winking men who catch my eye, then if they like what they see ...fab bingo off we go

The power of a wink is immense to me "

Hahaha sneaky!!!

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

We do if we like the look of the winkers profile

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

If I like the look of the winker I will reply with a mutal wink x

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Oh the rare occasion of receiving them yes I do

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By *inkyalfieMan
over a year ago

hampshire

"Never looked at winks "
I bet you look at Harry Winks.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Sometimes I'll message off of the back of a wink. They can be a soft introduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a reoccurring thing with the women with not winking back or replying and that's probably why I don't get no messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By *uss168Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

The chance would be a fine thing ??

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

It’s a door opener. Check their profile and wink back if you like!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, if we like the look of their profile. We send winks, as sometimes I’m a bit unsure as to whether or not the other person would be interested in me, and it can be a way of opening a channel to conversation x

Viv xx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Yes I do sometimes if I like the look of them I wink back and see if they send a message.....

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I tend to reply back even if it’s a no thanks.I did receive a wink from a young lady who I couldn’t message as I was out of her age range we exchanged messages and numbers and met up for a meal sadly for me it didn’t work out my fault it didn’t work out.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, i very rarely look at winks or friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, but my messages were always deleted. Now I just wink back and let them message if they want.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No. Just mass delete x

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

"And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

Yes

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Never really understood why people wink instead of just sending a message. Just seems a bit lazy to me or am I being harsh? I very rarely look at winks to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I ask why they winked at me.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont look at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at them. Delete the lot periodically.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

It's not something I look at if I'm honest.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I don't look at winks or friends requests.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

We do if after reading their profile we think there maybe a chance we’re compatible.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

No never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I like his profile I do

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We tend to reply, just polite etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if she is hot and has nice elbows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women won't

Most guys will

Seems to be the way on here.

Having said that, you wouldn't walk up to a woman or guy in the street or in a club and wink at them, then expect them to fuck you later that night.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"Most women won't

Most guys will

Seems to be the way on here.

Having said that, you wouldn't walk up to a woman or guy in the street or in a club and wink at them, then expect them to fuck you later that night.

That made me laugh! I'll try it in a club I'm going to tomorrow. I won't speak, just wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yes I spelt that right lol. I reply to them and it is amazing how much you have in common, it is fun as well

No, I don't even check mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I like the look of someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women won't

Most guys will

Seems to be the way on here.

Having said that, you wouldn't walk up to a woman or guy in the street or in a club and wink at them, then expect them to fuck you later that night.

That made me laugh! I'll try it in a club I'm going to tomorrow. I won't speak, just wink

Hahaha well I hope you have luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do if I like the look of someone "

Does it mean that you fuck that person ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do

Winking back by-passes the filters so they can then message me

I didn't know that's the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's a good way to see if their is a mutual attraction before sending an unwanted message. "

Absolutely this! And we'll always respond to a wink if we like their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, if I like the look of a winker, I'll totally respond. Either by returning their wink or with a quick message. Why not? Fab doesn't *have* to be hard work!

Couldnt agree more, and a wee wink just reunited me with a certain gent I knew in another life so all good

Good when that happens, isn't it?

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I wink back if I like the look of their profile yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do if I like the look of someone

Does it mean that you fuck that person ? "

Not necessarily

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Not really loads of guys wink me but because so far away it never happens x..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We sometimes wink back. That mostly leads to nothing, but has led to meets

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes, if I like the look of them

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I prefer a wink to a stink.

I don’t even know why I’ve put that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a message follows wink, I may look at the profile. But I usually delete winks.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. I think winks are a great idea, as it tests the water - particularly for you single men - where you may write tons of unique messages but hear nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, usually!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and No (yes to couple and lady, No to single guy)

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Good to see so many people do reply to winks...sometimes people are shy and this is just a way of showing interest not laziness as some profiles suggest

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If the person is my type, yes, I'll usually message them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have done but not often. We do like them though.

A few strategic winks have gone out from us as a result of this thread.

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

Both my best fab friends have been made from a wink!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, i always say ty for the wink, even if not my type, have still enjoyed some good banter with them.

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By *ollyoaks69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Its polite to reply to a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"No"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its polite to reply to a wink "

Exactly x

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends who's doing the winking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. It àll depends on whose winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's doing the winking!"

Why? I'm not interested in MM but if i get a wink off a guy I always message and let them know it's not for me right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no. delete all without looking "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I more times than not return it out of politeness.. sometimes end up having good chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even look at my winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Its polite to reply to a wink "

Is it always though? If I winked back and then they messaged and I said ‘not for me’ they’d be having a pop because I left them on’ with my wink.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Infact I’ve just remembered I looked on a profile the other day and it said ‘they winked you 4 years ago’. (No messages though)! AWKWARD!

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Its polite to reply to a wink

Is it always though? If I winked back and then they messaged and I said ‘not for me’ they’d be having a pop because I left them on’ with my wink.

Yeah, that's how I see it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no. delete all without looking

Me too"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have done a new thread we can continue on

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