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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

People use this site lots of different ways. As long as you are respectful, use it how you want to x

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

Not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"
no, you do as you please their will be others with the same requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, so.long your upfront about it with people your chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really, some people just like to chat and make friends and socialise without the sex,

No harm in it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

Go for it. Room for all sorts on here

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

Use the site however you want. As others have said, if it's making you even a tiny bit happier, then that's awesome

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No it isn’t wrong. We all want different things from our experience here I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it isn’t wrong. We all want different things from our experience here I think "

Exactly! You can find great people here not just sex freaks...

Though we all like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks.... Some positive/supportive responses I appreciate it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

March to the beat of your own drum.

Only way to be

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

No.

This site is for people to use, however they want.

I've met & made some amazing friends here.

It's not all sex, sex, sex

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would be more than happy to meet some folk for companionship, share time together......

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

We all crave that once in our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

Not at all.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

No. Friends before Fucks in life. What's wrong with having sexy friends ?

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy the social side of all this just as much, if not more at times, than the whole sexy time! We don't really consider ourselves full on swingers....hence our user name, but we enjoy this site and enjoy chatting and meeting people from it!! We all have our own reasons for being here!!

Just stay in your lane...you do you and let everyone else worry about themselves!!

P x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"March to the beat of your own drum.

Only way to be"

Nice Richard Ashcroft quote

Are you walking with me ? Or are you running with them ?

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Swingers there's a clue in the title, wouldn't a dating or social network be more for what you're looking for?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Swingers there's a clue in the title, wouldn't a dating or social network be more for what you're looking for? "

So you can meet 'vanilla' people, who you have to lie too, keep secrets from, make excuses, stories to avoid telling them what you may get upto?

Not a great recipe for friendship

Having non sexual swinging friends, one's I can be myself with, not hide anything from, chat about stuff without feeling I'm being judged, or gossip spread about.

That I'd rather have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers there's a clue in the title, wouldn't a dating or social network be more for what you're looking for?

So you can meet 'vanilla' people, who you have to lie too, keep secrets from, make excuses, stories to avoid telling them what you may get upto?

Not a great recipe for friendship

Having non sexual swinging friends, one's I can be myself with, not hide anything from, chat about stuff without feeling I'm being judged, or gossip spread about.

That I'd rather have

"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

Not at all OP. Everyone is free to use the site in whatever way suits them best as an individual. However, I always think it is quite important to make your own intent in using the site clear to everyone, so that nobody feels they've been mislead, if their intent is not the same as yours.

I'm pretty much here to chat with friends, post daft pics and get along to the occasional event these days, and my profile is quite clear on the matter. Most are fine with that, but occasionally someone comes along who hasn't read my profile or hasn't taken it seriously and starts up a conversation in the hope of meeting, and who then gets annoyed and accuses me of timewasting days or weeks later when they finally realise I'm really not going to meet them. Other folk just get annoyed that I'm here at all, even though they've never chatted with me or had any interaction other than to roll their eyes at me on the occasional forum thread... I've had petty people report me as a fake, report my photos, my forum posts, and even have had innocuous threads deleted or moved out of spite.

Do what makes you happy OP, but just be aware that happy for some means making others unhappy, and be prepared for a little friction from those who are myopic in their views.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swingers there's a clue in the title, wouldn't a dating or social network be more for what you're looking for? "

It’s possible ... maybe I like it here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"March to the beat of your own drum.

Only way to be

Nice Richard Ashcroft quote

Are you walking with me ? Or are you running with them ?"

Well seeing as I can't run

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Is it wrong that I enjoy this site but really have little interest in sex and just crave company/friendship ?"

There is no right or wrong way for using this site, I absolutely love the social side & have little interest in sex with anyone 90% of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"March to the beat of your own drum.

Only way to be

Nice Richard Ashcroft quote

Are you walking with me ? Or are you running with them ?

Well seeing as I can't run "

that’s cheered me up no end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good company and the rest just follows and if it doesn't then no harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"March to the beat of your own drum.

Only way to be

Nice Richard Ashcroft quote

Are you walking with me ? Or are you running with them ?

Well seeing as I can't run

that’s cheered me up no end "

Glad to be of service

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good company and the rest just follows and if it doesn't then no harm done"

Couldn’t agree more.... I’m just having a ‘wobble’ today ...not usually my style to post like this in forums... I’ll be reet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers there's a clue in the title, wouldn't a dating or social network be more for what you're looking for?

So you can meet 'vanilla' people, who you have to lie too, keep secrets from, make excuses, stories to avoid telling them what you may get upto?

Not a great recipe for friendship

Having non sexual swinging friends, one's I can be myself with, not hide anything from, chat about stuff without feeling I'm being judged, or gossip spread about.

That I'd rather have

"

vanilla people are people surely the deception is of your choosing most people these days wouldn't be affected by the brutal honesty of a label

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