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Less women on here. More men. More choice for women. Most are looking just for sex, not ‘dates’.
If I were in the dating scene, even if I wasn’t 100% sure on a guy, I’d maybe go for a coffee just to see how things go.
On fab? I want to be 100% sure of that guy first.
Plus - most men on fab don’t know how to approach women on fab 
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"Oooooft you dinny half brag do ya?!
Less women on here. More men. More choice for women. Most are looking just for sex, not ‘dates’.
If I were in the dating scene, even if I wasn’t 100% sure on a guy, I’d maybe go for a coffee just to see how things go.
On fab? I want to be 100% sure of that guy first.
Plus - most men on fab don’t know how to approach women on fab
If other sites work for you, why not stick to them?"I should really read the whole thread before commenting. Exactly my thoughts!  | |||
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"Oooooft you dinny half brag do ya?!
Less women on here. More men. More choice for women. Most are looking just for sex, not ‘dates’.
If I were in the dating scene, even if I wasn’t 100% sure on a guy, I’d maybe go for a coffee just to see how things go.
On fab? I want to be 100% sure of that guy first.
Plus - most men on fab don’t know how to approach women on fab
If other sites work for you, why not stick to them?
I should really read the whole thread before commenting.
Exactly my thoughts! "Agree. Seems a simple decision. | |||
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"That's incredulous 100 ladies in 3 months! I hope none of them were not actually looking to date the same as you! I've known lots of people that have done/do internet dating but never anyone as successful as you ... you should write advice for others on how!! And maybe stick to dating sites "PS you do actually know that means you were taking out more than one lady a day with repeat dates don't you!!!!!!! Hahahahahahahaha | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " Blimey Thats impressive | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.." ahhhh and there be your problem it is exactly that coffee dates and movies, this is an app the same as the others, its a meeting point, sex is always an option you can achieve at the end of a date or liason if you are worthy that is, supposedly their are more men to women here so the women have the upper hand and although you have a choice the choice to meet is always theirs, sex is upfront here so definitely makes this site more honest but it makes some men think they can talk to a woman as a sexual object but if you talk to a woman in that way your chances of success will be minimal, success here is about your profile, your pics and the way you come across, all sites represent the life you or i are living they are just an option to meet or not as the case maybe. No two people are the same and rude thoughtless messaging will never be successful.  | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol" With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, while do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, while do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted " How not while* | |||
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"Totally get your point, and I make it a point to always be respectful and understanding. I know that even in the other sites, sex is always a possibility and I don't ever expect or pressure any woman into it. I was just hoping to meet an open minded woman here, rather than search through hundreds elsewhere lol" same women here as there, sex is part of life only difference here is its discussed | |||
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts?" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did.  | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, how do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted" On the contrary.. I am totally respectful and the women get my full attention.. I don't rush the dates, and I am a perfect gentleman.. | |||
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" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did. "Sad thing is I can prove it.. I wouldn't believe it either. Wasn't my intention as I was doing it.. but there you go... | |||
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts? My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did. "lol you cynic maybe he did speed dating | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, how do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted On the contrary.. I am totally respectful and the women get my full attention.. I don't rush the dates, and I am a perfect gentleman.. " 4 dates in a day? And you're not clock watching and rushing? 2hrs/date, wash and change, new location, remember who is who and who is saying what? Minimum 16 hours .... hmmmmmmm not respecting anyone | |||
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" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did.
Sad thing is I can prove it.. I wouldn't believe it either. Wasn't my intention as I was doing it.. but there you go..."Okeedokee. Send me the proof. | |||
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" I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this." 3 months = 90 days 100 women / 90 days = more than 1 a day And then you say repeats . . . I hate to sound so cynical. | |||
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"Tbf it doesn't mention on your fab profile that you're looking for anal and gangbangs either "Lol, that was just for example.. | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.." I don't understand your problem really, if you are having such success on the three othere sites, and you have obviously asked them if they are on fab because you said a few of them had been, why would you think something different is going on? Yes this is a swing site people are on here for sex with one or multiple people together or as singles, they also have a choice with who they wish to meet or be with. Why do you think so many ask for a social first especially single ladies. It's a dating game same as the real world like being on a night out. I.e You meet someone on a night out you hit it off sleep together go your separate ways in the morning. Or same thing except you exchange contact details at the end of the night to arrange meeting again. It's nothing different. | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. I don't understand your problem really, if you are having such success on the three othere sites, and you have obviously asked them if they are on fab because you said a few of them had been, why would you think something different is going on? Yes this is a swing site people are on here for sex with one or multiple people together or as singles, they also have a choice with who they wish to meet or be with. Why do you think so many ask for a social first especially single ladies. It's a dating game same as the real world like being on a night out. I.e You meet someone on a night out you hit it off sleep together go your separate ways in the morning. Or same thing except you exchange contact details at the end of the night to arrange meeting again. It's nothing different." | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.." So you lie on other sites to get a shag, but are disappointed that fab women won't meet you. What's the problem? You are getting what you want elsewhere, all be it in a deceptive way. | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. So you lie on other sites to get a shag, but are disappointed that fab women won't meet you. What's the problem? You are getting what you want elsewhere, all be it in a deceptive way. " sorry dont get how hes lying he witholds sexual innuendo is all but ultimately all liasons at some point come around to sex, i think here its about getting the meet, women hold the power here and its a combination of too much choice, look, profile and getting your personality across where specific dating sites are more about matching based on what you say you are looking for and trusting that the site has matched you accurately, this sites ability to team you up based on profile requirements seems a little less accurate | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. So you lie on other sites to get a shag, but are disappointed that fab women won't meet you. What's the problem? You are getting what you want elsewhere, all be it in a deceptive way. " | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. So you lie on other sites to get a shag, but are disappointed that fab women won't meet you. What's the problem? You are getting what you want elsewhere, all be it in a deceptive way. sorry dont get how hes lying he witholds sexual innuendo is all but ultimately all liasons at some point come around to sex, i think here its about getting the meet, women hold the power here and its a combination of too much choice, look, profile and getting your personality across where specific dating sites are more about matching based on what you say you are looking for and trusting that the site has matched you accurately, this sites ability to team you up based on profile requirements seems a little less accurate "Women on dating sites are generally looking for long term relationships and its not just about sex. Men on these sites tell women what they want to here in the hope they will get a fuck - Deception. So why gone whinging on here that he can't get a meet? Do you seriously think any woman would meet the OP on a dating site if he said I don't want a relationship, I just want to fuck your arse? | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. So you lie on other sites to get a shag, but are disappointed that fab women won't meet you. What's the problem? You are getting what you want elsewhere, all be it in a deceptive way. sorry dont get how hes lying he witholds sexual innuendo is all but ultimately all liasons at some point come around to sex, i think here its about getting the meet, women hold the power here and its a combination of too much choice, look, profile and getting your personality across where specific dating sites are more about matching based on what you say you are looking for and trusting that the site has matched you accurately, this sites ability to team you up based on profile requirements seems a little less accurate
Women on dating sites are generally looking for long term relationships and its not just about sex. Men on these sites tell women what they want to here in the hope they will get a fuck - Deception. So why gone whinging on here that he can't get a meet? Do you seriously think any woman would meet the OP on a dating site if he said I don't want a relationship, I just want to fuck your arse? "lol well on the arse front no but women here are looking for relationships as are men, every permutation of what a person wants is here this is life, life doesn't change because you login to this site or any site for that matter, hes over exaggerated the period of time and how many meets he has had but thats a fishermen for you, trouble i think is that looking at a site or Internet domain as a provider of sex on a plate is the main problem, nothing has changed in the way you achieve sex with whoever you choose to have it with you have to Appeal to the other person, this site allows sex to be at the forefront, sexy pics, cock pics, usernames that allude to sex but the success in getting it comes down to the way you talk to people, the way you look, your location, your age, your veris shoving sex in a persons face really doesn't Appeal to many but people have to learn by their mistakes dont you think? | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner " sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule "Do you honestly believe that? | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule
Do you honestly believe that? "of course......... you wouldn't have sex with someone you didnt find attractive and neither would i, theirs Always an exception to every rule mind | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule
Do you honestly believe that? of course......... you wouldn't have sex with someone you didnt find attractive and neither would i, theirs Always an exception to every rule mind "No, I wouldn’t. But people can also lie and deceive people into having sex with them. For example, I met a man who told me he was single and childless. We had sex, a lot. Turns out he had a baby and a wife. So we didn’t have sex again. If I had known that from the get go, we would never had had sex. | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " Why? | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule "Of course deception is involved if one is getting sex on false pretenses | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " playyyyyer | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule
Do you honestly believe that? of course......... you wouldn't have sex with someone you didnt find attractive and neither would i, theirs Always an exception to every rule mind
No, I wouldn’t. But people can also lie and deceive people into having sex with them.
For example, I met a man who told me he was single and childless. We had sex, a lot. Turns out he had a baby and a wife. So we didn’t have sex again. If I had known that from the get go, we would never had had sex. "well ok that is pretty much deception if he knew up front you wouldnt meet and i imagine this happens occasionally but these things are in a minority and not really about the Ops observations, i think the Op has approached the different sites differently and their lies the problem, if you are attracted to each other the natural process of enjoying each other sexually takes place if you want to meet and have sex perse thats not usually going to happen but occasionally it does, the Op supposedly had 100 meets in a possible 33 days so if none of them culminated in sex it really doesn't surprise me. | |||
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"I actually disagree with you really, the other poster was correct ... ladies primarily join dating sites hoping to date and find a partner, sex might happen as a consequence but ladies primarily join this site looking for sex however they define it, maybe hoping to meet a partner as a consequence Men unfortunately quite often join dating sites looking for sex through deception by masquerading as looking for a partner sex i'm afraid is always the culmination of two people finding each other attractive, deception isnt involved its a natural process you cant force it as a rule
Do you honestly believe that? of course......... you wouldn't have sex with someone you didnt find attractive and neither would i, theirs Always an exception to every rule mind
No, I wouldn’t. But people can also lie and deceive people into having sex with them.
For example, I met a man who told me he was single and childless. We had sex, a lot. Turns out he had a baby and a wife. So we didn’t have sex again. If I had known that from the get go, we would never had had sex. well ok that is pretty much deception if he knew up front you wouldnt meet and i imagine this happens occasionally but these things are in a minority and not really about the Ops observations, i think the Op has approached the different sites differently and their lies the problem, if you are attracted to each other the natural process of enjoying each other sexually takes place if you want to meet and have sex perse thats not usually going to happen but occasionally it does, the Op supposedly had 100 meets in a possible 33 days so if none of them culminated in sex it really doesn't surprise me. "93days | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " That doesn't make you some dating god it makes you a bit of an ass hole player. | |||
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts?" Let me turn the question around a bit..... If it is true that you have had an average of more than one date per day, why come back to fab complaining about lack of dates on this site?.... | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. " | |||
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"Well, I am for the most part, but I still want to meet someone that is as open minded as myself and the vanilla sites you can't just blurt out,"Do you like anal and gangbangs? LOL I see your point about the ratio of women to men, and in my geographical area that is particularly acute, but the same women are out there.. and it just has me scratching my head "you dont need to blurt it out if your having repeat meets drop it then or have an adult convo online with them use it as a filter on dating sites lots of fabbers use date sites too could fall lucky plus its not only fab thats cot filthy folks | |||
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"I do like Fab, because I am very blunt and open.. on other sites, I feel I have to hide certain proclivities from the lady. I don't want or like being a serial dater, and that is what I am having to do to find the one lady that is as sexually liberated and open as myself. I thought on Fab, the focus is toward sex and adventures not looking for coffee dates or trips to the movies.. I don't understand your problem really, if you are having such success on the three othere sites, and you have obviously asked them if they are on fab because you said a few of them had been, why would you think something different is going on? Yes this is a swing site people are on here for sex with one or multiple people together or as singles, they also have a choice with who they wish to meet or be with. Why do you think so many ask for a social first especially single ladies. It's a dating game same as the real world like being on a night out. I.e You meet someone on a night out you hit it off sleep together go your separate ways in the morning. Or same thing except you exchange contact details at the end of the night to arrange meeting again. It's nothing different." | |||
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"Well, I am for the most part, but I still want to meet someone that is as open minded as myself and the vanilla sites you can't just blurt out,"Do you like anal and gangbangs? LOL I see your point about the ratio of women to men, and in my geographical area that is particularly acute, but the same women are out there.. and it just has me scratching my head "Women on Fab love being asked in a first message if they like anal or gangbangs. They're just here for use as sex receptacles. I like that men on here don't lie like they do on dating sites. I like that they are blunt and get straight to the point, like asking me to fuck them at 2am in a first message. Makes life much easier. | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. Blimey Thats impressive" Impressive isn't the word I'd have chosen | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. " Tea Monkey telling it like it is since 1977
Seriously OP *IF* you've been that "successful" elsewhere (and being honest I'm with TM on this) why bother with here? And before you say that you can't bring up "gang bangs and anal" elsewhere - perhaps if you're bringing them (or similar "proclivities") up early on here then that is where you're going wrong.
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts?" 100 woman in 3 months so multiple dates on the same day...go stallion | |||
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 what is the point of meeting so many people in such a short space of time? You hardly have chance to make a friendship let alone a connection in that time frame and that is on a dating site where people are looking for “the one”! | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. Tea Monkey telling it like it is since 1977
Seriously OP *IF* you've been that "successful" elsewhere (and being honest I'm with TM on this) why bother with here? And before you say that you can't bring up "gang bangs and anal" elsewhere - perhaps if you're bringing them (or similar "proclivities") up early on here then that is where you're going wrong.
That all said you've had at least two meets in the last 4 months here - which may not be as good as your "other site" hit rate but is still pretty good going"I love the word proclivities | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. " | |||
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts?" You had more than one date per day? | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. Tea Monkey telling it like it is since 1977
Seriously OP *IF* you've been that "successful" elsewhere (and being honest I'm with TM on this) why bother with here? And before you say that you can't bring up "gang bangs and anal" elsewhere - perhaps if you're bringing them (or similar "proclivities") up early on here then that is where you're going wrong.
That all said you've had at least two meets in the last 4 months here - which may not be as good as your "other site" hit rate but is still pretty good going
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts? You had more than one date per day? "He had four on one day "apparently" bro | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, how do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted On the contrary.. I am totally respectful and the women get my full attention.. I don't rush the dates, and I am a perfect gentleman.. " But four in one day would surely mean to me anyway that those dates wouldn't have had the time and attention needed to see if one of those ladies were exactly what you're looking for | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, how do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted On the contrary.. I am totally respectful and the women get my full attention.. I don't rush the dates, and I am a perfect gentleman.. But four in one day would surely mean to me anyway that those dates wouldn't have had the time and attention needed to see if one of those ladies were exactly what you're looking for "
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"Hi Fab'bers' I have been on and off this site a few years now and while interesting, it hasn't really expanded my horizons like I had hoped. So about 6 months ago, I came off here and joined 3 mainstream dating sites and had phenomenal success. I dated over 100 women in a 3 month period of time, from one offs to repeated meets. My question is this.. I put nearly the same profile here as I did on the other sites, why are the ladies more reluctant to meet up on here. I even met women that had been or were members here, so I know that there is something else going on here over the vanilla sites.. any thoughts? You had more than one date per day?
He had four on one day "apparently" bro "Good for him. I’m sure the women felt valued. | |||
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"It would be if I had found what I was looking for.. lol With you showing these ladies no respect and not giving them any time to actually get to know them at all, how do you expect to find what you are looking for? You seem saturated with ladies whilst actually offering them no time at all because you're clock watching and exhausted On the contrary.. I am totally respectful and the women get my full attention.. I don't rush the dates, and I am a perfect gentleman.. But four in one day would surely mean to me anyway that those dates wouldn't have had the time and attention needed to see if one of those ladies were exactly what you're looking for
Or that they would get his "full attention" if they were one of the apparent four in one day "It would seem quantity over quality for the OP. Maybe just desparate for a shag with anyone, hence the amount of women he claims to have dated, if that's what he can call it. | |||
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" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did.
Sad thing is I can prove it.. I wouldn't believe it either. Wasn't my intention as I was doing it.. but there you go..."Has anyone else asked the OP to prove it? | |||
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" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did.
Sad thing is I can prove it.. I wouldn't believe it either. Wasn't my intention as I was doing it.. but there you go...
Has anyone else asked the OP to prove it? "Yes, but no response so far. | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " Then why the hell you here?? | |||
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"That's incredulous 100 ladies in 3 months! I hope none of them were not actually looking to date the same as you! I've known lots of people that have done/do internet dating but never anyone as successful as you ... you should write advice for others on how!! And maybe stick to dating sites "Ouchhh ?? | |||
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I’d be all over you like chicken pox. If i were on a dating site. And i’d pretend to be all coy and innocent. Cos men like that, especially when they turn into Jenna Jameson in bed.
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"Why does he have to prove anything "Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they. He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. " | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything
Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they.
He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. "has it crossed peoples mind he may be telling the truth and as I’ve said why does he have to prove anything to a bunch of strangers | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything
Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they.
He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. has it crossed peoples mind he may be telling the truth and as I’ve said why does he have to prove anything to a bunch of strangers "You really believe that someone who has met 100 women in 3 months on other dating sites, came to Fab to moan about the lack of attention he gets here? He doesn’t have to prove anything you’re right, equally as nobody has to believe him. | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything
Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they.
He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. "He also said that he has proof if anyone wants it | |||
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"I actually spent 2 weeks with 2 dates a day and weekends 3.. on one day I managed to squeeze in 4 dates.. " | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything
Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they.
He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. has it crossed peoples mind he may be telling the truth and as I’ve said why does he have to prove anything to a bunch of strangers "I think your response and attitude to this says a lot about your approach to this site and the people on it. If you feel that a person or yourself doesn't have to prove anything to 'a bunch of swingers' then I wonder what you feel can be said without need for recourse. | |||
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"That's incredulous 100 ladies in 3 months! I hope none of them were not actually looking to date the same as you! I've known lots of people that have done/do internet dating but never anyone as successful as you ... you should write advice for others on how!! And maybe stick to dating sites "That’s like 1.2 ladies a day | |||
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"That's incredulous 100 ladies in 3 months! I hope none of them were not actually looking to date the same as you! I've known lots of people that have done/do internet dating but never anyone as successful as you ... you should write advice for others on how!! And maybe stick to dating sites
That’s like 1.2 ladies a day"I'm wondering what the 0.2 of a woman is. Maybe it's a fleshlight. | |||
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"because guys on here are purely after fuck n go, no future. 100 to 1 men Dating sites, we're looking for a relationship. more women on dating sites" not all guys are after same thing and not all women are after same thing | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything "Because he said he would maybe? | |||
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"That's incredulous 100 ladies in 3 months! I hope none of them were not actually looking to date the same as you! I've known lots of people that have done/do internet dating but never anyone as successful as you ... you should write advice for others on how!! And maybe stick to dating sites
That’s like 1.2 ladies a day
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"because guys on here are purely after fuck n go, no future. 100 to 1 men Dating sites, we're looking for a relationship. more women on dating sites" Really? Is that all men? | |||
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"I'm loving this thread! Honestly OP, other people have beaten around the bush but I'm going to just straight out call BS on your story. I'm seeing the same thing in this thread as I see in the guys that talk about their other women in front of their present meet or post on threads asking women to stop messaging. It's a nasty manipulation technique intended to make a person feel they're missing out or somehow 'wrong' for not having this persons attention. Like a form of 'neging'. The simple fact is, the maths don't add up, when did you work? See friends? Actually have sex? Nope, I don't believe a single word, especially as your profile and pictures are beyond basic. " I'm with on this one! I've tried a dating site also and I live in a small city, trying to find a decent guy who can hold a conversation, never mind them just sending a 'hello' message, but in the OP area which is even more rural, finding a 100 women would be a miracle! Never mind wooing them enough to go and meet him, nah I'm calling BS as well | |||
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" My thoughts..... You dated over 100 women in 3 months? More than 1 a day? Of "course" you did.
Sad thing is I can prove it.. I wouldn't believe it either. Wasn't my intention as I was doing it.. but there you go..."Ok OP how are you going to prove it? | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything "He doesn't have to prove it. Of course he doesn't. However if you read what the OP has written and I quote "Sad thing is I can prove it.." It you took a second to read the thread, you'd note that I asked for said proof. If you make outlandish claims expect them to be questioned. If you offer proof, expect for it to be asked for. | |||
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"Why does he have to prove anything
Because making bold and outlandish claims need substantiating in any aspect of life. Just because it's the internet does not mean that people can say anything nor should they.
He doesn't *have* to prove what he's saying, just like no one *has* to believe him. It's a dangerous thing to say that he doesn't need to prove it though. has it crossed peoples mind he may be telling the truth and as I’ve said why does he have to prove anything to a bunch of strangers
I think your response and attitude to this says a lot about your approach to this site and the people on it.
If you feel that a person or yourself doesn't have to prove anything to 'a bunch of swingers' then I wonder what you feel can be said without need for recourse. "what have I said that makes my attitude look terrible and I’m allowed to respond as I see I haven’t broke any rules maybe I should take the piss out of him like some have just a thought | |||
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