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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To pm someone whose forum comments make you think you may get along or is it frowned upon

Thanks in advance for any replies Steve

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Depends what their profile says they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters allowing, why not, but if it's not replied to, or reciprocated, remain respectful

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’d say it is a great form of introduction and certainly, infinitely more welcome than sending a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters allowing, why not, but if it's not replied to, or reciprocated, remain respectful"

Thats great advice thank you

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"I’d say it is a great form of introduction and certainly, infinitely more welcome than sending a cock pic "

True, I’ve met some lovely people from forum games and threads

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I normally check their profile before putting my foot in my mouth.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. Its how I've met my favourite people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally check their profile before putting my foot in my mouth. "

Is that a party trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Its how I've met my favourite people on here."

Must agree.. Chatted to some cracking folk I wouldn't otherwise have chatted to.

Valuable friends

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I normally check their profile before putting my foot in my mouth.

Is that a party trick "

I save that for special occasions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. Its how I've met my favourite people on here.

Must agree.. Chatted to some cracking folk I wouldn't otherwise have chatted to.

Valuable friends"

That’s what I was thinking sometimes you ( me )send a message and cringe when I read it back

But here there’s a bit of back and forth and people seem to be more themselves if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters allowing, why not, but if it's not replied to, or reciprocated, remain respectful"

I hate when folk expect a reply just because we both use the forums, and get arsey about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters allowing, why not, but if it's not replied to, or reciprocated, remain respectful

I hate when folk expect a reply just because we both use the forums, and get arsey about it"

That’s just rude people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

people quite often pm us about forum comments. I think its ok to do that but you should take the hint if they don't reply

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not at all it’s how I’ve met most my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only say bigger off at worst.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all it’s how I’ve met most my meets "

That’s good to know. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can only say bigger off at worst....."

They usually reply I should be bigger not bigger off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with messaging them but there has to be respect and face pics are ok but not rude ones though unless asked for.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Got talking to lots of lovely people either through me sending a message to them based on forum activity or sometimes even them sending me a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with messaging them but there has to be respect and face pics are ok but not rude ones though unless asked for."

Again sound advice thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To pm someone whose forum comments make you think you may get along or is it frowned upon

Thanks in advance for any replies Steve "

I personally don’t think it’s rude!

I’ve been messaged plenty of times about my forum posts & most of the time I tend to reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To pm someone whose forum comments make you think you may get along or is it frowned upon

Thanks in advance for any replies Steve "

I do this all the time and always answer messages that I get in this way

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've had some amazing messages from the forums.

There's some really lovely people here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To pm someone whose forum comments make you think you may get along or is it frowned upon

Thanks in advance for any replies Steve

I do this all the time and always answer messages that I get in this way "

I think you’ll be inundated

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I do it often, just be respectful and all is good

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If you are polite and respectful and don't go against what they are looking for it's not something we would have a problem with.

What does annoy me is when you see something of ours on a forum and reply privately when there's no reason your comment shouldn't be posted publicly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I would see if a conversation starts in the forum, and if it does, take it private

But then that’s never happened for me, so maybe I’m wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To pm someone whose forum comments make you think you may get along or is it frowned upon

Thanks in advance for any replies Steve "

Depends on if they are mailing to chat like human beings.

Many see comments on threads and send a caveman message. Such as sex threads where I've said I did X. Then men message saying they want me to do X.

They ignore the Looking For list because their dick is typing the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you send them 54 penis pics

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