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When you say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is that guys get so aggressive when you are both not on the same page and you say no to meeting up?

Is this a normal thing on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't. They are the ones to meet

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sadly *some* people take rejection badly and lash out - and even more sadly it's not that uncommon either

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Apparently yes, not sure the neanderthals understand the word 'NO'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few women who don't understand no or sorry im not free this evening. If someone says no or they can't meet should respect it not start trying to have an argument lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Why is that guys get so aggressive when you are both not on the same page and you say no to meeting up?

Is this a normal thing on here?"

Yup.

But not all blokes.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It happens. It just means you were right to say no

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

What the iggy button is for

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I block them all. My profile is clear enough.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

That's why I just don't reply to people I'm not interested in. I used to, to be polite, and it just led to the inevitable "why not" question and then endless questions afterwards.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Sadly *some* people take rejection badly and lash out - and even more sadly it's not that uncommon either "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I woman says no to me then I just move on, we all have our types soo fairs fair.

I just happen to be one of those guys that isn’t a woman’s type lol

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

If someone says no to me I block them just so I don’t pester them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because on here it's a faceless response, would they say it face to face in real time I doubt it, they might think it, or say it to thier friends as they walk back to them feeling stupid. Name calling and nasty sh*t is so easy online you can be as horrible as you want, and not get punched or slapped in the face, you know that real physical feeling that hurts.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t get that fortunately. If I send a ‘no thank you’ message I normally get a reply thanking me for replying and that’s the end of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame. Sometimes get ignored when we state we cant due to other commitments, it's not even that we dont want to meet most of the time as when we say we will meet we do.

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By *uskymotoMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

A female friend of mine on here doesn't reply if she doesn't like what she sees. If she does like the profile se replies saying no thanks. If she then receives another message saying something like "thanks for the reply it's appreciated. Hope you find what you're looking for, take care" she'll then message them back a week later. It's given her an insight into the person's attitude.

Not saying it's right, but one way of judging the personality of a prospective meet.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Why is that guys get so aggressive when you are both not on the same page and you say no to meeting up?

Is this a normal thing on here?"

It's the ones that do this, get shitty, vindictive, abusive...

Then you meet them at a group social or club night..

And watch them squirm when you remind them of what they wrote

Oh those ones are amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly *some* people take rejection badly and lash out - and even more sadly it's not that uncommon either "

Weak minded fools

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I find myself having to say no quite frequently

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