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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Question - following a profile activities on a hotlist is the same as stalking lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not even close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple sign of admiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I stalk from my bush.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

More dissimilar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything but that

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Or just bookmarking for pictures....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One should always take time to admire the view.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. Unless it's just a gateway activity that leads someone on to sinister behaviour that can wreck lives.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hi all

Question - following a profile activities on a hotlist is the same as stalking lol "

What's the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is


"Hi all

Question - following a profile activities on a hotlist is the same as stalking lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly. Although I only have event profiles in mine

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

For the first time ever my hotlist has more on it than my blocked list.

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Maybe for you it is. I put people on mine who I talk to, not who I want to know every time they have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe for you it is. I put people on mine who I talk to, not who I want to know every time they have a wank."

What is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on my hotlist, I don’t stalk any one though.

I doubt they even know who I am. Well one might, I told her she was on my hotlist but then again she’s probably forgotten all about that now as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between stalking and admiring?

If it's an old man it's stalking. If it a hot young stud it's admiring.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm a picture perve so I'm not sure what that makes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!"

I agree, and also with OP, its creepy ns cringy unless they know they're on it.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a picture perve so I'm not sure what that makes me. "

Your pics are amazing

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

If you have ever been stalked you would know the difference

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It’s not stalking, just being nosey! Who doesn’t have a nose out their window at their neighbours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them "

I know, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!

I agree, and also with OP, its creepy ns cringy unless they know they're on it....."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not stalking, just being nosey! Who doesn’t have a nose out their window at their neighbours? "

Curtains twitching ......?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them "

This

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them

This "

You've just agreed with two opposite opinions

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.

They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.

Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them

This

You've just agreed with two opposite opinions "

Woaah let’s get VAR on this, lol Ive liked their points of view , Noticed you love friction bit the good sort lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.

They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them

This

You've just agreed with two opposite opinions "

That a perfectly ok possibility in my head......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties

There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish

I kinda like crushing on them

This

You've just agreed with two opposite opinions

That a perfectly ok possibility in my head...... "

That's *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.

Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.

Viv xx"

Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.

They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive."

I also use this logical approach.

I'm too busy to meet anyone at the mo, but sometimes have a browse and add to my hotlist to possibly contact in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.

Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.

Viv xx

Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun, "

Had better experiences, haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Question - following a profile activities on a hotlist is the same as stalking lol "

You spoke your mind but for me it’s keeping the precious things in a safe place to find again when needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.

Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.

Viv xx

Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun,

Had better experiences, haha xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think that someone on my hotlist is has potential to make my friends list !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!"

True. That's why there are no frequent threads where people admit their secret crushes. *giggle*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stalking 5 ladies in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our hotlist has people we have met, people we have talked to and definitely want to meet and some event profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our hotlist has people we have met, people we have talked to and definitely want to meet and some event profiles.

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I'm on yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little hotlist but they're very exclusive... Doubt I'm on anyone's except my fab stalkers. Yes I have one but she means no harm. Hope others wouldn't find it creepy they were on mine....

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