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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! " I'm always up for a panad (Welsh for cuppa ) I'm just as "up" for meeting someone, with no strings attached in the purest sense Perhaps it's because I'm just a nosey bugger at heart | |||
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"I’ve just arranged a brew meet with a new local fabber. It’s an easy social and can just walk away if it doesn’t click x " Ah lovely definitely lowers the pressure keeping it low key x | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! " I’m at yours now having a brew!!! Infact my cups empty | |||
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"No but I'd love to, especially some of the lovely ladies of fab. I don't really have many female friends! " If you were nearer I’d be round | |||
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"I’ve met Anabelle for a coffee " there’s a lot to be said for friendships on here x | |||
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"I'd love to meet more forumers for a brew ....happy to travel " Let’s see if anyone’s near I love it! | |||
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. " But iv found it can be whatever you want it to be. I would only meet people from the forums and chat with regularly in a non sexual way. | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! " I would love one! | |||
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"Yes, having female friends is generally different from having male friends, and its nice to have a mix " I quite agree. | |||
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. But iv found it can be whatever you want it to be. I would only meet people from the forums and chat with regularly in a non sexual way. " I agree nobody ever pushes boundaries with me! I’m very clear on how I am and everyone I’ve met has respected that x | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee " I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one | |||
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"Yes. It is a plus if they produce breast milk so they can put some in my coffee " | |||
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. Yes same. I love socialising and would happily meet people just for a cuppa and a chat and I can do that but would other people just take it as that? That’s the problem. " From experience when i had a fwb on here before ive found when i have met just for a social brew more is wanted.. even try and kiss. Ive got lots of 'internet friends' on here some ive been chatting to non sexually for 6 years.. i just wont meet, my life here is private if i want a brew ill meet a real friend for one. Of course everyones different and here for their own reasons.. just for me its a firm no. | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one " you wouldn’t want me any other way | |||
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"A first meet should always involve a nice cup of tea and a slice of cake. " And lunch too | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one " We need a four way coffee | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one We need a four way coffee " Defo!!! That would be hilarious!!! | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! " I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx | |||
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. Yes same. I love socialising and would happily meet people just for a cuppa and a chat and I can do that but would other people just take it as that? That’s the problem. From experience when i had a fwb on here before ive found when i have met just for a social brew more is wanted.. even try and kiss. Ive got lots of 'internet friends' on here some ive been chatting to non sexually for 6 years.. i just wont meet, my life here is private if i want a brew ill meet a real friend for one. Of course everyones different and here for their own reasons.. just for me its a firm no." I've said I'll meet men just for a coffee and then a few messages later they start with the innuendo. "It's a sex site". | |||
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"Everyone is too far north! " A hell yes I agree to that!! | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx" Next trip to Mancunia! | |||
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"Everyone is too far north! A hell yes I agree to that!! " Well I will up north too soon! . Everywhere is north or Southampton. | |||
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"I’ve met friends for a brew " I wish you lived closer babs. | |||
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"Ooooh I love a brew " Ha ha you met us for a brew! Prime example | |||
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"Everyone is too far north! A hell yes I agree to that!! Well I will up north too soon! . Everywhere is north or Southampton. " Yay you’ll be up north in that London place near me! | |||
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"I’ve had some great brews, lunches and pancakes " Haven’t you just you lucky bugger | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one We need a four way coffee Defo!!! That would be hilarious!!! " A four way. Dear god, don’t get her brain working overtime | |||
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"I’ve met friends for a brew I wish you lived closer babs. " I know Lorna | |||
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one We need a four way coffee " Ooooo I like this idea | |||
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"I’ve had some great brews, lunches and pancakes " | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! " I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol | |||
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"Everyone is too far north! A hell yes I agree to that!! Well I will up north too soon! . Everywhere is north or Southampton. Yay you’ll be up north in that London place near me! " Yay. The other reason I think I great to have friends on here is that I can talk about the "swinging" side of my life and don't have lie about were I met Ash. | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol" It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun. | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun. " Well if im in manchester lol would you fancy one? | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun. Well if im in manchester lol would you fancy one?" Sure.. I’m nosy and I Love brews. It’s a win win! | |||
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"Yes I’m pondering... Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile.. I wonder how much it differs between sexes.. If not does anything put you off asking?? Are you up for a brew with people local to you? Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get! I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx Next trip to Mancunia! " You betcha.... looking forward to it xx | |||
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"I would gladly meet just coffee and banter. Would bother me at all. I disagree that this is just a sex site though. It's a social site where sex is one of the things on offer but you've only got to look at the forums to see it's a community. A veritable melting pot of tastes, styles and delinquents, all finding common ground and support from each other over more than just sex. " Some people use it as a sex site. Some use it for the social side too. Neither are wrong. | |||
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"I think I'm at the stage, where i would very much like that! It doesn't always have to be sexual. " That's exactly where I'm at. | |||
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"I think I'm at the stage, where i would very much like that! It doesn't always have to be sexual. That's exactly where I'm at. " | |||
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"Hi OP and thank you for your question I don't see the harm in meeting as friends for a drink, that's what friends do. I'd happily meet any of my friends for a coffee and a chin wag. Unfortunately there isn't anyone that local to me, but with planning anything can happen " Coffee two poppet | |||
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"Hi OP and thank you for your question I don't see the harm in meeting as friends for a drink, that's what friends do. I'd happily meet any of my friends for a coffee and a chin wag. Unfortunately there isn't anyone that local to me, but with planning anything can happen " I'm sort of local. and I love coffee. | |||
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"I've had a few lovely afternoons with fellow fabbers just to say hi and have a brew. " Oi I shouldn’t have to ask for a brew! Xx | |||
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"I've had a few lovely afternoons with fellow fabbers just to say hi and have a brew. Oi I shouldn’t have to ask for a brew! Xx" It has to be cocktails for you I remember Yates | |||
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