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F: have you ever faked an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

(If so under what circumstances)

Do you think that faking is a feminist issue?

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I did....I quickly ran to the toilet to fill the rubber with conditioner to give it that authentic look.....she didn't buy it tough....maybe the strawberry pink colour gave it away....

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Just once it was late I was wrecked from a long night of fun I couldn't go on....o but what if give to be back there now....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes, it wasn't happening and I just wanted to sleep

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I have never faked.

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

yes, but the guy on the checkout at Tesco was furious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a few times. To stop them from suffering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes often . I'm a great actress

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, because my partner at the time (a long time ago) would throw a tantrum if I didn't have an orgasm, and he was lousy in bed. I didn't realise I could tell him to fuck off.

Indirectly, yes. Being bullied into faking pleasure for male ego is absurd. The idea that women experience pleasure for themselves should be obvious but isn't. Women are trained from a young age to smooth over problems and soothe egos, including to their own detriment, and it needs to stop. Fuck being nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did all the time with my ex husband. He was crap and selfish. I won’t though anymore x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I was young and silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never faked one. I just say it's ok it's not gonna happen. It's not necessarily their fault either, but the orgasm isn't the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite often in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, because my partner at the time (a long time ago) would throw a tantrum if I didn't have an orgasm, and he was lousy in bed. I didn't realise I could tell him to fuck off.

Indirectly, yes. Being bullied into faking pleasure for male ego is absurd. The idea that women experience pleasure for themselves should be obvious but isn't. Women are trained from a young age to smooth over problems and soothe egos, including to their own detriment, and it needs to stop. Fuck being nice. "

He'd throw a tantrum because you didn't cum??

Like it was your fault..!?

I guess this gets to the heart of the question.

In those circumstances it's an issue, be it a feminist issue or simple decency!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I used to fake it when i was younger because i didn't want to upset my x partners. But I've never faked it with my husband. Because he isn't like that. If i don't come, he just assumes that im tired or something. He'd be right too. He wouldn't panic like some men do. So I'm comfortable to be honest with him.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

With my ex husband, to get him to stop. If he wanted sex he'd take it if I wanted to or not. So if I faked one he'd finish and leave me alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was younger, yes. I havent for years though. If it's not going to happen, i just say

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've faked it once and she told me I'd cum loads ?? haha

At least someone enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with my ex, thought it was me, but after finally freeing myself, I have experienced them and realise I'm a shit actress so will never do it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With my ex husband, to get him to stop. If he wanted sex he'd take it if I wanted to or not. So if I faked one he'd finish and leave me alone. "

Sounds horrific

But in this and similar situations coukd you argue that faking was empowering?

That it was your choice??

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