FabSwingers.com forum: The person I've been messaging is my crush from 30yrs ago

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure what to do or say. Usually I'm happy giving the advice as the happy Vulcan I am. (Yes I know Vulcans don't do happy.).

I messaged a young lady who caught my interest. We chatted away was/ is great. A while later she said she recognised me. And sure enough after a closer look I recognised her. She still looks amazing. 30 years ago she had a boyfriend. So we were work colleagues. But we got on really well.

So up to speed. We've continued messaging. I'm planning a meet. But as a old friend or potential lover. I don't know.

For the first time in many years I don't know what's happening in my own mind. I haven't even met yet and my head's in a spin. Oh and shes married but hubby knows she's fab.

Vulcan logic has no answer. (I checked on Google before writing this.)

HELP!!!!

Hell. she might be thinking the same as me.

Welcome to my minefield

I will read all responses. Any narcs I will advise karma is my drinking bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you want advice about?

Meet up, have a drink, see what happens.

Just bare in mind she's married and this won't be more than swinging for her.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're creating drama where there is none. Neither of you are the same person you were 30 years ago, she's married and you've hooked up via a swinging site. Go if you expect nothing more than you would from any other woman, don't go if you're hoping for anything other than that

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s not fate, karma or the work of dream catchers. It’s just statistics at work that you met someone you used to know.

Meet up, enjoy yourself and go from there

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"You're creating drama where there is none. Neither of you are the same person you were 30 years ago, she's married and you've hooked up via a swinging site. Go if you expect nothing more than you would from any other woman, don't go if you're hoping for anything other than that"

That is great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to you all.

I'm now back in the real world now.

I think my head was back in the 80s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet have a chat, catch up and take it from there OP

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