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What do you think of me? - Debrief

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

After my thread last night and today, for those of you who took part, do you think that the impressions that others have of you are fair? Do you think that they reflect you as a person/people and did some people surprise you with how much they read into your posts?

Was it a positive or negative experience for you?

Pop your thoughts and reactions down here folks.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Positive. Very flattering. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really lovely. Almost brought a little tear if I’m honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly positive apart from one guy who always has snide little comments,he's blocked but he still writes crap on the forums

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South


"I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible "

Same here! Phew, thats made me feel better lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know because I didn't receive any!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes got lovely messages and sent some x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really lovely. Almost brought a little tear if I’m honest . "

Here’s a tissue dear

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No feedback apart from Saffron for us.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! "

Lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know because I didn't receive any!

Lovely lady "

Likewise.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! "
Lorna your lovely x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible

Same here! Phew, thats made me feel better lol xx

"

I tried to message you - but couldn't due to filters

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible

Same here! Phew, thats made me feel better lol xx

"

phew i feel better now too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! Lorna your lovely x"

Ta very much, I feel better now.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! Lorna your lovely x

Ta very much, I feel better now. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know because I didn't receive any!

Lovely lady

Likewise. "

Thank you Lorna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opps scrap that I did get one but missed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! Lorna your lovely x"

You are lovely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might steal this for the Irish forum page if you dont mind Mr. Monkey?

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By *oeisticsMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible "
I would off wrote too you but I’m out your age range x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I knew you all secretly liked me really. Thanks guys

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I think from the comments I’m highly misunderstood and the perception of me is based purely in a sexual way. I’m not a piece of meat , I don’t go down on just anyone. I have feeling you know

Now

Could Bigjimmy69 and Mandingo2 message me

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.

"

Well I don't messages anyway.

I know I'm a delight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got but it was a good one so that's cool

Rubi x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Had a lovely message off a lady I didn’t know that really made my night

I used mine as an icebreaker to be frank about something that was bothering me where I knew I was wrong and needed to say it. I’m grateful for that. Sometimes it good to talk without agenda.. just chat as people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry miss read the thread,I've not had any messages,I must be unaprociable old or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero messages here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had zero messages....so shows me im invisible I would off wrote too you but I’m out your age range x"
thank you .

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I might steal this for the Irish forum page if you dont mind Mr. Monkey?"

That's fine, go ahead!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Zero messages here x"

I tended to only message people where I felt that I could give real insight rather than vague platitudes.

I guess in that way its not very inclusive, apologies for that.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! Lorna your lovely x

You are lovely too "

As are you x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Lovely words were said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lovely words were said "

You are so hot you should carry a health warning sticker around with you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The limited responses I got were pretty much on point

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Lovely words were said

You are so hot you should carry a health warning sticker around with you "

Thank you x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive and flattering. Just a couple messages but really lovely things said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrongs were put right and new friends were made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple but one in particular blew me away as we ve never met, chatted etc but have been on same threads..let's just say what they wrote sent me to my sleep smiling on what was a hard day for me..let's just say their message will be kept as a pick me up as my personal opinion of myself is not the best...so very very positiveasy. .for me it's not how many messages, complements etc you may receive but it's those few or individual ones that says wow..I never saw that or wow this is written by someone who is/are total strangers but have really understood you just through words...words..often mightier than the sword

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a good likeness but the nose was a bit more wonky so needs work

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I missed the point of the thread. I said I liked you. I have no idea what people think of me. I didn’t ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth is tho i know my strengths and weaknesses those who like me and i like say nice things what we pick up on

Those who dont will normally only focus on the neggy stuff or not say anything

Altho i must say compared to real life people seem more expressive and happy to say noce things here i couldnt imagine real life friends and family being so honest with what they think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truth is tho i know my strengths and weaknesses those who like me and i like say nice things what we pick up on

Those who dont will normally only focus on the neggy stuff or not say anything

Altho i must say compared to real life people seem more expressive and happy to say noce things here i couldnt imagine real life friends and family being so honest with what they think"

You’re one of those people (probably a bit like me) that unless you know you properly you come across as a bit of an arse. (Meant in a nice way! Haha). I know you and I know what you’re really like. I won’t ruin your street cred though by saying! No different to me though, I probably don’t show much of the real me on here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.

"

Its a great thread..it's purpose had insight..we all could do with opinions of how we appear..me probably more than most lol..I'm like a born again christIan on speed in sense that I ve just discovered who I am and what it's like to walk out of the shadows but I do worry sometimes that my fk it do it lifestyle can come across wrong or maybe even manic...your thread may have encouraged a strength to say to someone xyz knowing no offence should be taken if one has declared themselves in..loved it and will end my waffling by saying to you yourself...you seem an honest guy that looks beyond surface and thinks about who you are and your impact on others...honourable is the word

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"I don't know because I didn't receive any! "

I sent you one

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I had a few, and they were pretty similar to how I view myself. It's nice to know that i'm not subonsciously emitting a different person to the one inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t get involved as I’m not really known in the forums as such

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Oh and apparently I'm Judy Dench

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I had a couple but one in particular blew me away as we ve never met, chatted etc but have been on same threads..let's just say what they wrote sent me to my sleep smiling on what was a hard day for me..let's just say their message will be kept as a pick me up as my personal opinion of myself is not the best...so very very positiveasy. .for me it's not how many messages, complements etc you may receive but it's those few or individual ones that says wow..I never saw that or wow this is written by someone who is/are total strangers but have really understood you just through words...words..often mightier than the sword "

That's great, kind of the point really. It's amazing how insightful folks can be.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Oh and apparently I'm Judy Dench "

How rude!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I heard from two I expected too as that’s their character; one from an old friend returning; and a new friend made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody messaged so haven't got a scoobies. It's probably my age, you become invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody messaged so haven't got a scoobies. It's probably my age, you become invisible "

This is maybe another thread but my attention would be snapped to an older woman quicker than a lass my age, also you look amazing

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