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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I believe it is meant to be and so life will be full of new opportunities. If you were supposed to be together you would be if you have broken up then you are supposed to be apart and maybe life will have a great opportunity on its way for year. It's normal to have bad days, just remember something new maybe around the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days "

A break up has never really bothered me. Best advice just move on, chances are they are not thinking about you. Live it up have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days "

I found that hitting the gym worked for me. Initially I thought that if I got in shape my ex would want me back but a strange thing happened the fitter and stronger I got the less it was about her and more about me. Eventually when she tried to rekindle our relationship I was so changed mentally that I turned her down. The moral is focus on becoming the best version of yourself and you will draw positivity towards you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks some great advice there x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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There is a great book called "it's called a breakup because it's broken", and I have recommended it to lots of people.

It is humorous but also very helpful.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days

I found that hitting the gym worked for me. Initially I thought that if I got in shape my ex would want me back but a strange thing happened the fitter and stronger I got the less it was about her and more about me. Eventually when she tried to rekindle our relationship I was so changed mentally that I turned her down. The moral is focus on becoming the best version of yourself and you will draw positivity towards you. "

I do believe physical health and mental health are two sides of the same coin.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days "

The first thing you need to do is accept that you have broken up and are not getting back together. You will never be able move on unless you accept that it is over.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focusing on you. Not a replacement. Just getting yourself in a good, lovable place first.

Lots of strength your way. X

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

I'd say its taken me the best part of a year to get over break ups. Psychologically a bit longer as things lurk and dont realise untill they present themselves. Just need to give yourself self time and you'll gradually realise those shitty days are in the past with everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days "

Food then have some rebound sex with fab meets, great way to work of those calories, oh yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys some really good advice here, appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id not good to give advice im not good at loosing

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Break apart or

Make up

I always think break-up is one of those fashionable melding words from social media before it was around.

Let's not sugarcoat it. A relationship breaking is ment to hurt. That's how you know you loved them.

But it is now over?

And time to not forget but replace those emotions with new ones, even if it's just casual sex. You are on dating/swinging website

If you are going to make up and the balls in your court to do so. Make the effort or sack it off.

Be a man not for the ex or next girl or for anyone else.

Be the man you want to be to attract the next person you want to be with

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Fuck someone else. It works for me . Stops me thinking about them and helps to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was wondering what did people find helped them get over a bad breakup? Been a couple of months yet still find myself having shitty days "

Tinder - where I met MrsA ... happiest I have ever been now

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