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By *urning the kink OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

I try never to message someone again if they don't reply back

Just take it as not interested.

But my last meet showed me her phone and she had hundreds not read.

So could I be a perfect partner for someone and I was just a lost message amongst 100s.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I try never to message someone again if they don't reply back

Just take it as not interested.

But my last meet showed me her phone and she had hundreds not read.

So could I be a perfect partner for someone and I was just a lost message amongst 100s.

Ahhh you’re your own kind of perfect!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

As the saying goes - there's someone for everyone out there.

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By *urning the kink OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

"I try never to message someone again if they don't reply back

Just take it as not interested.

But my last meet showed me her phone and she had hundreds not read.

So could I be a perfect partner for someone and I was just a lost message amongst 100s.

Ahhh you’re your own kind of perfect!

Lots of love xx

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By *urning the kink OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

"As the saying goes - there's someone for everyone out there. "

But all us single mails are just lost in unread messages

It's data gathering for the queen of females I think

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I feel your pain.

What makes it worse is that you know most of the other messages are going to be from neanderthals, vultures and timewasters.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I uploaded a new pics yesterday and my messages went out of control! Most from men nowhere near where I live, so yes, I ignored all the local ones also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try never to message someone again if they don't reply back

Just take it as not interested.

But my last meet showed me her phone and she had hundreds not read.

So could I be a perfect partner for someone and I was just a lost message amongst 100s.

I think the same way.

If someone hasn't read my mesage I don't try again.

Maybe I should, but don't want to appear to be a pest.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Well, I uploaded a new pics yesterday and my messages went out of control! Most from men nowhere near where I live, so yes, I ignored all the local ones also."

To be fair. There's a lot of very lovely pics

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Just apologised to kink for this very reason.. inbox can go mental and loads of messages get lost. Happens with friends too.. it’s not always a negative thing.

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By *urning the kink OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

"Just apologised to kink for this very reason.. inbox can go mental and loads of messages get lost. Happens with friends too.. it’s not always a negative thing. "

Thankyou gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, if the message is left unread I just see it as they probably checked my profile 1st decided they didn't like it and moved on.

It's a bit gutting knowing you have sent a nice polite message and it's probably been lost in amongst all the 1 liners and vulgar messages

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I was out with a friend from fab, she showed me what happens just when she goes online..

She hadn't been online for a few hours, in which time she had received maybe a dozen messages.. as soon as she logged in, suddenly the messages start appearing, one every few minutes.

If she adds a status or a picture, thats just opening the floodgates..

It made me realise that there must be a strategic way to get your message noticed, be the wheat among the chaff...

And after weeks of studying, calculating and trial and error, i found the solution..

Become gay and message Men.. Men don't get any messages..

Message a guy, you could make his day or even make his hole weak..

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Just apologised to kink for this very reason.. inbox can go mental and loads of messages get lost. Happens with friends too.. it’s not always a negative thing. "

This is so true for me...I might unintentionally miss a message, its easy done.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was with a lady friend from here and she showed me hers messages and it was one every 10 mins or so but then she put a meet up and it was like one every 30 seconds even from men 100’s of miles away. It was nonsensical. A huge waste of her time had she bothered to read them.

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