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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A strange question considering I've made it all the way to the forums, but please bear with me...
So, getting the tricky bit out of the way first, yes, I am married. No, she isn't aware that I am a member of this site.
Now I know that this fact alone can probably be quite emotive and I fully understand, but perhaps by reading this,you'll understand a little more about me...
I expect that there are plenty of people like me, who have found themselves in a marriage where the partnership is upended by a complete mismatch in the bedroom department.
Since the children arrived, I think it's safe to say only one of us has been collecting their annual quota of libido!
So as the clock continues to tick, I started to wonder whether there was an outlet to satisfy the endless cravings and desires and I stumbled across Fab. Could this be the absolute fix to my missing pieces, or simply a sticky plaster that temporarily closes a wound?
I've spent a long time asking myself whether I would actually follow up on a potential meeting, but as a way of completely failing to confront this question, I've kept my profile very low-key, vague and anonymous; such are the possibilities of Fab!
Fortunately, I think the decisions are made easier by the fact that I am not blessed with chiselled abs and the body of a Greek God. I am also now dreadful in bed! Lengthy barron spells mean that any hint of fun now and I go off like a confetti canon! What I do have is a love of conversation, a stable mind and what i consider to be a reasonable sense of humour.
What i have loved about Fab is the liberal expression from so many people,talking about matters that you probably wouldn't mention in the queue at Tesco's! I've learned a few new things and now have an even bigger list of hot activities that I will probably never try!
And the photos... I will be honest, I absolutely love looking at all of the pictures that people post. It's a real privilege to peak into peoples intimate private lives, but also extremely erotic.
So is Fab right for me? Morally, I think the answer is fairly clear. Married and looking for an outlet to release my frustrations clearly isn't conducive with taking the moral high ground. But while that's a crucial question, if it can be put to one side, would I go further? Probably not without an enormous layer of trust.
But would a quick meeting and a fumble be enough? I don't think so. Connecting mentally and sharing conversation to build a friendship is a far better way to reach the point where everyone is comfortable and enjoys themselves for the right reason.
So I reach a junction. Do I accept my inner desire to be intimate elsewhere and begin building up my profile, or dominate remain back here in the wings,absorbing the fascinating chats and goig wild over some of the pictures?
I've learned a bit about myself by visiting this site. I've realised I am definitely missing out on a lot of things that I would love to try. I've broadened my acceptance of sexuality and realise that it doesn't matter what excites you, there are so many more ways to have fun than 1 man, 1 woman and a mattress... infinitely more!
I am sure I will find out soon whether Fab is a meeting place for people looking for the same as me, or just a percy place to see whether you can spot one of the kids teachers engaged in bondage, or the Postman delivering more than just the letters to No.49!
While I get my own ducks in a row, please allow me to thank everyone who posts and makes the site so enjoyable. I love reading about your experiences and learning new ways to use the toolkit i was born with!
Please stay safe, enjoy what you do and just be nice to each other, you're all FAB!!! |
