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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it weird that I specifically want to fuck an 18 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as the 18 year old wants to fuck you, you're all good.

Apart from the midlife crisis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd that anyone would focus on a SPECIFIC age group, especially when a big gap.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It should be the person not the age saying 18 is a strange one unless its all you can legally say.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Have you met someone and they are 18?

It's a bit of an age gap!

If you are looking for 18 yr olds in general then yes, I think its weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An 18 year old what? Cheese? Port bottle? Car exhaust? Yes I think you’re obsessed with the 18.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Over 18, and out of school..is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do a bit. You asked for an opinion.

It’s not illegal though so go for it if that’s what you want and she’s happy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. Lots of people have very specific requirements when it comes to fantasy, bucket lists etc. The reaction you get will depend on how you express this and your gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Lots of people have very specific requirements when it comes to fantasy, bucket lists etc. The reaction you get will depend on how you express this and your gender. "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

Sounds weird to me

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

This raises many questions !

Would a 20 that looked 18 do ?

Is it the number you have a thing for , like a lucky number?.

Is the age and number more important than the personality and look ?.

Are you just looking to see what judgmental comments you can get ?

Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction."

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not totally weird. I do miss my old night clubbing days where I'd go out and pull a lovely young lady, so lately I've had the urge to repeat that one last time

Early 20s would be ideal though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation. "

How about the young people who manipulate older people?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.

How about the young people who manipulate older people? "

It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posts today aren't showing humanity at it's best really....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I personally find it a little weird, being with someone young enough to be your child.But nothing wrong with it. Do you feel it weird OP?

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City

Funny how it's only the women that have a problem with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like what they like and see what they seek and nothing wrong with that as long as its legal.

What is strange is for someone to ask if its wired and people give an opinion on it but for then for some sad people to slate people for giving an opinion as that's what the thread starter asked for.

Very trollish I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you said 18 and not just "younger" makes it sound creepy. Yes most people have preferences but to make it so specific is fetishizing it a bit and that's weird.

Rubi x

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Is it weird that I specifically want to fuck an 18 year old? "

Use of “specifically” makes it weird, yea. Least it wasn’t 16.

I’d fuck an 18 year old but actively looking for one nope. Scouring for 18 year olds sounds like a porn trope anyway.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Funny how it's only the women that have a problem with this."

I don't have a problem with it, I do find it a little weird though.18 is very young, if the person was mid twenties, the age gap wouldn't seem so big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how it's only the women that have a problem with this."

He asked for an opinion. I have a 23 year old daughter and the thought of someone her dads age being interested in her now makes me feel a bit queasy to be honest, let alone when she was 18! But like I said before it’s all perfectly legal and fine.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

If you want to know it’s not wrong but still creepy. According to the formula. If they aren’t older than half your age plus 7 it’ll at least look creepy on paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.

How about the young people who manipulate older people?

It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here. "

It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.

A woman at another table looked at me like .

I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol. "

Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.

People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.

How about the young people who manipulate older people?

It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here.

It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.

A woman at another table looked at me like .

I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids."

I'm inclined to say that as long as neither party is being deceived or pressured and both are getting what they want/need from it then live and let live.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.

Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.

How about the young people who manipulate older people?

It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here.

It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.

A woman at another table looked at me like .

I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids.

I'm inclined to say that as long as neither party is being deceived or pressured and both are getting what they want/need from it then live and let live."

I'm inclined to say that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.

Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.

People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion."
lol I was actually only joking. I dont think it should matter to anyone else what age anyone is looking for as long as they are looking for a legal age

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.

Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.

People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion. lol I was actually only joking. I dont think it should matter to anyone else what age anyone is looking for as long as they are looking for a legal age "

Oh right lol. A bit slow on the uptake today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course not

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Of course not"

Who are you answering?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t want to deceive or manipulate.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Ok

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Is it weird that I specifically want to fuck an 18 year old? "

Not particularly. You're both adults

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

Prefer experienced women myself

Also think you shouldn't fuck anyone that's young enough to be one of your kids.

What you going to chat about

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Thinking back to the quality of sex and my enjoyment at 18, poor.

I didn't really know what I was doing, what to expect, and the quality of the guys I was with.

That's why I wouldn't meet an 18 yo guy, sex is of poor quality compared to guys of my own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its each to their own, i wouldnt entertain under 25 i just generally find under that sort of age are too immature and not on or anywhere near my wavelength. Prefer around the same age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.

Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.

People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion. lol I was actually only joking. I dont think it should matter to anyone else what age anyone is looking for as long as they are looking for a legal age

Oh right lol. A bit slow on the uptake today "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.

From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction."

This!

Same for me.

I’m 26 now and I find some still think I’m going to be a naive young girl.

But it was worse when I was 18/19 I was on dating sites and older men expected that I would go along with what they wanted because of my age etc.

It depends on the OP’s reason why, whether it’s weird or not for me.

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