FabSwingers.com forum: Never been to a club list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who else hasn't been to swinging clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Doesn’t appeal to me one bit

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Popping my club cherry this weekend.. socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my list to do but I'd like to find a dance partner first.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Clubs are great. Why not join in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clubs are great. Why not join in?"

I didn't know it was such a thing until I joined here to be honest.

There are none close to where I live and I don't feel the urge to travel to one.

I don't know anyone in the scene either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to one this Friday but I'm a bit nervous as I'll be going alone. Do people talk to you??

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I'm going to one this Friday but I'm a bit nervous as I'll be going alone. Do people talk to you?? "

YES! absolutely. They are fun places to go at your own pace. Never feel pressured (and if so, contact staff--they are always there to help).

Just go and enjoy (and no, I don't work for any club, I just have been and have had some great times).

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Dont really feel the need. Ive never really liked any type of club.

Would I really want to go to one that would have me as a member???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to one this Friday but I'm a bit nervous as I'll be going alone. Do people talk to you??

YES! absolutely. They are fun places to go at your own pace. Never feel pressured (and if so, contact staff--they are always there to help).

Just go and enjoy (and no, I don't work for any club, I just have been and have had some great times)."

thank you

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By *ay123mailMan
over a year ago

Seaham

I wouldnt got because i dont drink, i stopped going out with mates clubbing because you get asked if your a alcoholic if you drink non alcoholic drinks lol strange coming from people who are mortal talking to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why not? "
Don't have anyone to go with. Too shy to go on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one. Was all set to go to a Greedy Girls night at The Annex when back in UK.

Had a guy lined up to go with me, but babysitter fell through at last minute.

No club here

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Me... I hoping to go to abfabs next month to pop my cherry

I hadn't found the right person to go with before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been, been scared of going on my own, so never thought too much about it really. I'm much more comfort than with 121 sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been and kinda nervous to go. Dunno how people would react if I rolled up to one.

Always wanted to go to one though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Me. There aren’t any close by.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

All depends what you are expecting to get out of going to a club

We haven’t been to one for ages

Last one was attic.....reminds of a little nightclub but being followed about by single guys does my head in

Love the atmosphere but not the expectations

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

me. not sure irs my cup of tea, im 99.99% certain ill never go alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt got because i dont drink, i stopped going out with mates clubbing because you get asked if your a alcoholic if you drink non alcoholic drinks lol strange coming from people who are mortal talking to you "

We don’t drink at them most of the time. We drink tea coffee and cola. Sometimes water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas no...but then there ain't one closer than a 3 hour drive and reet now I can t get outta working 6 day weeks...we re talking about it..me now wee lassie

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

Never been, not for any other reason other than I’ve never had someone to go with. I wouldn’t fancy just sitting up by the bar by myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to go to a club night, see what it's all about. I'm searching for new experiences and sound like something I want to do, I will be nervous but again being on here is helping me to ease them nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. The fear of being recognised held me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never been to a swinging club....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"me. not sure irs my cup of tea, im 99.99% certain ill never go alone "
you’ll never walk alone

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Never been and have no intention of going either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to a club for several reasons,not confident enough to go alone,not a late night person,but the main reason being the high price clubs charge solo men to get in.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

That will be me

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Not been to a club for several reasons,not confident enough to go alone,not a late night person,but the main reason being the high price clubs charge solo men to get in."

All of the above, and the horror stories you hear, rather not take the risk of a costly flop of an evening. Plus I'm more sensual than just gratuitous fucking someone that's just been ridden lol

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

There seems to be recurrent themes stopping people going to clubs. Some of these can be addressed by going to the right club AND the right event. Townhouse Milf Mon is on today, daytime event, people aren't rolling round d*unk as most drive, it's very social and friendly and its's free for fems and £10 for single men. There's d*unks, the fear of being ignored and cost sorted. The rest.....is up to you.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/934349

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been and in all likelihood probably never will.

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over a year ago

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Popping my club cherry this weekend.. socially

I’m so excited for this!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Never been, not for any other reason other than I’ve never had someone to go with. I wouldn’t fancy just sitting up by the bar by myself. "

I’ll take you!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.

The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.

Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Not really had anyone to go with and don't really want to go as a single bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely worth going to ...meeting new people..relaxed atmosphere..joining in the fun if you want to.i think people have this idea of what it will be like well we did.. but its not .only been to chameleons Darleston but so glad we joined and no one judges you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be recurrent themes stopping people going to clubs. Some of these can be addressed by going to the right club AND the right event. Townhouse Milf Mon is on today, daytime event, people aren't rolling round d*unk as most drive, it's very social and friendly and its's free for fems and £10 for single men. There's d*unks, the fear of being ignored and cost sorted. The rest.....is up to you.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/934349"

This is where I will be later. Brilliant club, great atmosphere. No issues in going alone there

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Personally clubs are our preference. Read so many threads about time wasters, let downs etc so am glad this isn't the route we take.

Always enjoy ourselves and go without any expectations.

Understand those who feel nervous about attending but they really are friendly fun places in our experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.

The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.

Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X"

When did you go for the first time?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

*Puts hand up

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Me"

Because i’m not a people person.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I haven’t. I plan to attend either VA’s MILF Club or the BMFC events but I guess I’m a bit apprehensive about the numerous unknowns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To shy to go on my own and I don't know what I'd do anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been to a club, no one to go with and I’m socially inept lol

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By *arerMan
over a year ago

Ashford

1 2 1 sex is lovely but surely you like to expand a bit?

I have done MMF 3 times and much enjoy it and miss it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to swing clubs on fetish nights

Never been to a swing night due to nerves and understanding how difficult it is for single guys, even polite ones

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By *arerMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Can see why single fellows follow you around at the clubs lol

Yes that's a good reason I not want to go without a women with me, plus someone to talk to!!!

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By *arerMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Sapiophile

Being recognised should be ok as they won't hopefully want to talk about to everyone

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By *arerMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Spurschick

What you mean that be you?

You and quite close to each other we could team up and brave it together.

What's is happens with Spurs?

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

"Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.

The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.

Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X"

I totally agree with Lexi. What you think it's going to be like compared to the actual experience is very different.

Although I haven't been to a club for a while or by myself. I'd definitely go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and not on the craving list. Had a moment of curiosity. Glad i didnt act on impulse.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I often go to clubs and don't play. I used to be really self conscious but there are people of every shape, size and age and no one judges. I think its kind of liberating x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else hasn't been to swinging clubs? "
i have and its coz i love to spend money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never and confidence I guess! That and No one to go with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been to a club yet but my curiosity will possibly get the better of me soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and I don't intend to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me never been not interested in going either main thing why I've never been is cost for single men but I am shy anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to one as a couple a while ago but i dont fancy paying single guy prices as most are way higher than women and couples prices.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Want to go to get verified, But a bit dubious about it.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We haven't, just a little apprehensive about it all really. We wouldn't want to go and come across pushy people who can't understand our particular preferences in what we are looking for, we would find it very uncomfortable if we had to keep explaining ourselves. I'm sure it's all in our heads and there are probably lovley understanding and respectful people there but wouldn't want to put ourselves in a uncomfortable position and have to take ourselves away for a situation if it arose, it would just spoil our night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all the nervous guys. Until recently I probably had more confidence issues than all of you put together. Won't go into specifics but this year my life changed along with my attitude. I went to a club alone 2 weeks ago with the attitude of what's the worst that can happen? I had fun,I chatted to people,I made new friends,enjoyed my very first jacuzzi and just enjoyed the atmosphere. Oh and all the beautiful ladies dressed to impress was the best part. Pluck up the courage and have fun guys.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

No not been, easier getting rejected at home for free.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

You don’t know what you are missing ! Great social atmosphere , get to meet people properly in a no pressure environment and of course you may even get an invite to play there or get an invite for another time

Be brave and explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don’t know what you are missing ! Great social atmosphere , get to meet people properly in a no pressure environment and of course you may even get an invite to play there or get an invite for another time

Be brave and explore

It's actually easier talking to people in a swingers club than going to the pub or nightclub because everyone is there for the same thing(more or less)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not likely to either, bad rep on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want to go to get verified, But a bit dubious about it."

Dubious about what?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Be brave and explore

It's actually easier talking to people in a swingers club than going to the pub or nightclub because everyone is there for the same thing(more or less)"

Exactly right and I’ve always found men don’t take offence at a swinging club if you are polite and say no thanks

Men at normal clubs pester way more

I’ve made some great friends literally just partying at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not been, easier getting rejected at home for free."

That sounds familier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wahr is the dress code at these clubs? I don't like the idea of being naked with a load of people around me.

Is it okay to go dressed and have a drink at the bar? Or what

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Wahr is the dress code at these clubs? I don't like the idea of being naked with a load of people around me.

Is it okay to go dressed and have a drink at the bar? Or what "

Some clubs you can stay dressed, some are immediate dress down. Dress down for guys is boxers or a towel x

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We don't go to clubs. We prefer to meet in a pub socially first.

Mr2

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