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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a boss convo for like over an hour and then she just vanished.

Its happened before like once or twice but we were like writing books to eachother.

Could it be the site or admin banned them?

Or was it more likely i was talking to a man or something?

Obvs she may have got cold feet also an left as its a crazy site. Just cant seem to fathom why you would just disappear while the conversation is flowing. Does fab kick people off sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Have you had a phone call of video chat with them?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Maybe it became to.intense to quickly. I don't know!

I don't think you get thrown out for no reason.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

if all her messages have disappeared then she's left the site. Fab admin do suspend accounts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have their own reasons for suddenly going, you'll never know why.

I'm pretty sure fab don't remove them they just suspend them so you could still see your messages and click on her profile but you'd just get a message saying you are blocked or account is suspended and not be able to view it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it became to.intense to quickly. I don't know!

I don't think you get thrown out for no reason."

Possibly like she said was so glad she got talking to me an she come on looking for women but id got in her head... then gone

So maybe your right

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Was she a normal silver or gold member?

Normal members are limited to the number of messages they can send in the day

she may have run out of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it became to.intense to quickly. I don't know!

I don't think you get thrown out for no reason.

Possibly like she said was so glad she got talking to me an she come on looking for women but id got in her head... then gone

So maybe your right"

People do go there are ways of telling which one if you know the user name but either way you won't be able to talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if all her messages have disappeared then she's left the site. Fab admin do suspend accounts too"

Yep all the messages have gone. If she left herself thats fine... just wasnt sure if fab kicked her off an i needed to get a search party together haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It could be one of your ideas or personal circumstances or choice.

Users have to adhere to site terms and may be kicked off or suspended. Some people cheat or explore, get caught out or frightened etc.

If you pick people who have been around a longer time who are verified, they are probably more stable and reliable.

I don't get into extensive chat very quickly and would probably have a live discussion, to aid my validation of suitability. Too much, very quickly, could spark my attention. I'm here for no strings only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if all her messages have disappeared then she's left the site. Fab admin do suspend accounts too

Yep all the messages have gone. If she left herself thats fine... just wasnt sure if fab kicked her off an i needed to get a search party together haha"

Sounds like she deleted then. You win some you loose some its life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep mate, if shes deleted it herself then just take it on the chin innit

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

It's occurred to me in recent years. I've viewed someone or they viewed me, usually Newcomers to the site.

Messages began back & forth, without any urgency on either side.

Then, they're gone! Maybe that same day or within 24 hours.

It happens.

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