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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'm a newbie "

Fick.off.. of course you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie "

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm a newbie

Fick.off.. of course you are.

"

that made me chuckle...still chuckling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm a newbie too x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?"

So have I but its only about 7 days.

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By *ounggun420Man
over a year ago

Eccles, Manchester

Everybody was a newbie before, right?,

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have replied to newbies. If we like what we see and read on there profile. We have even met newbies in the past. Everyone is new when they first join up so we all have to start somewhere.

Mr2

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?"

good question. For me under about 8 weeks or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

So have I but its only about 7 days. "

Ah ok. It’s not me being mean btw. It’s from all the problems before and new profiles kept being made to contact me

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'm a newbie

Fick.off.. of course you are.

that made me chuckle...still chuckling "

He should call himself "now you see me now you dont"

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm a newbie too x"

I'd always reply to you...newbie or not x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

So have I but its only about 7 days.

Ah ok. It’s not me being mean btw. It’s from all the problems before and new profiles kept being made to contact me "
you are a bitch own it Nora

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy "

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

So have I but its only about 7 days.

Ah ok. It’s not me being mean btw. It’s from all the problems before and new profiles kept being made to contact me you are a bitch own it Nora "

. I do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its hard work as a newbie and male

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Am I a newbie

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm a newbie too x

I'd always reply to you...newbie or not x"

Awwww

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ll chat to new forum members but not new to the site. I’m not actively looking and simply haven’t got time to chat to friends and threads.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't distinguish at all whether it be on the forums or in messages - if I like what someone has to say or feel it worthy of response, regardless of who they are, I'll respond

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

So have I but its only about 7 days.

Ah ok. It’s not me being mean btw. It’s from all the problems before and new profiles kept being made to contact me "

That sounds like its been hard work. I hope it's sorted now for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy "
No cock pics on mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

So have I but its only about 7 days.

Ah ok. It’s not me being mean btw. It’s from all the problems before and new profiles kept being made to contact me

That sounds like its been hard work. I hope it's sorted now for you x"

Yes. Was a while ago. Thank you xx

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!! "

DELETE and instantly block under the category little bent finger cock. The girls will understand

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!! "

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

DELETE and instantly block under the category little bent finger cock. The girls will understand "

Oh dear..you lot crack me up

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

95% of my messages are from non forum users. If they catch my attention with their message I’ll respond appropriately. Most though just get deleted from their opening message

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I don't distinguish at all whether it be on the forums or in messages - if I like what someone has to say or feel it worthy of response, regardless of who they are, I'll respond "

What do you think halaluna what the hell is that green box hah

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!! "

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't distinguish at all whether it be on the forums or in messages - if I like what someone has to say or feel it worthy of response, regardless of who they are, I'll respond

What do you think halaluna what the hell is that green box hah "

I'll have you know my "yellow" box flashes on and off with regularity

Just because you don't grace it often

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I don't distinguish at all whether it be on the forums or in messages - if I like what someone has to say or feel it worthy of response, regardless of who they are, I'll respond

What do you think halaluna what the hell is that green box hah

I'll have you know my "yellow" box flashes on and off with regularity

Just because you don't grace it often"
Just goes to show how much notice I take doesnt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death."

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys."

I am sorry..it truly was not meant that way

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

I merely meant that I could imagine them getting no replies to messages and appreciate that is is difficult for them. Hence why I am more

likely to reply.

A seasoned fabster would already be familiar with how it goes down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best times I've had here have been with newbie types. Hardened fabbers tend to be harder work, a tad lazy and demanding and place more value on their fab status than the individual, personal exchange in my limited experience.....

Each to their own though, I just think its nice to meet someone who's not been through the fab mill..... then again I'm not meeting....

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys."

To be honest yes,.they can be like excitable puppies eager to please. I don't see what is wrong with that. Excitement is contagious...i.like it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys."

It's called 'Tongue in cheek' In an ironic manner, not meant to be taken seriously. which obviously went straight over your head.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"The best times I've had here have been with newbie types. Hardened fabbers tend to be harder work, a tad lazy and demanding and place more value on their fab status than the individual, personal exchange in my limited experience.....

Each to their own though, I just think its nice to meet someone who's not been through the fab mill..... then again I'm not meeting...."

I would agree with this

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys.

It's called 'Tongue in cheek' In an ironic manner, not meant to be taken seriously. which obviously went straight over your head.

"

I am glad someone get me xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm reasonably new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys.

I am sorry..it truly was not meant that way"

Well I offer my sincere apologies also as I obviously took it the wrong way.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death.

I'm a newbie and I don't need your sympathy. Bit of a belittling post to be honest. The way you put it across like we are all desperate because we are new. I'm a grown up and know the score because I did the sensible thing and asked for advice in the forum's and now I'm doing ok. I'm not a puppy eager to please and I think that is a very disrespectful way of generalising the new guys.

I am sorry..it truly was not meant that way

Well I offer my sincere apologies also as I obviously took it the wrong way."

No worries at all and much

appreciated x

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet "

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!!

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm reasonably new. "

4 weeks in eh..welcome x

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If someone has read my profile then I'll reply but as soon as I see a cock Ill delete. So that's about 98% of mens profiles it makes repling very easy

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!! "

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if I only don't log on for a week it's like coming back and being a newbie

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Even if I only don't log on for a week it's like coming back and being a newbie"

nice try

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!!

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now "

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if I only don't log on for a week it's like coming back and being a newbie

nice try "
was actuallt being honest

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!!

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady... "

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Even if I only don't log on for a week it's like coming back and being a newbie

nice try was actuallt being honest "

I know, you are only 4 months in...I hppe that you have a great journey on here x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm reasonably new.

4 weeks in eh..welcome x"

Aww thanks. I feel loved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegging comes to mind

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!!

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?"

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

good question. For me under about 8 weeks or so.

"

I've been here 3 months. Does that mean I'm no longer a newbie?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

lucky for me then....I don't have one....I'm like a Fucking ken doll down there!!!

Well Ken managed to find a curvy, tall blonde so there’s hope for you yet

hallelujah....There's hope yet....I can always rely on you for a positive spin on things Spurs!!!

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking "

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

good question. For me under about 8 weeks or so.

I've been here 3 months. Does that mean I'm no longer a newbie?"

I'm not the newbie guru...do you feel new?

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday "

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then.... "

You'd have to see it to beleive it

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

good question. For me under about 8 weeks or so.

I've been here 3 months. Does that mean I'm no longer a newbie?

I'm not the newbie guru...do you feel new?"

I was merely going by what you posted that for you a newbie was under 8 weeks or so.

My question was a rhetorical question...or was it?

But, in answer to your question - in my eyes I'm in that transition period twixt newbie and oldie. I get quite a lot of profile views nowadays, but still get ignored in the main.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they put in their message. If they're respectful and come across well I'll reply, if not they get the same as others. If they start out all baulchy and "the big I am" then I'll knock them down a peg or 2 and show them the error of their ways.

I'm fucking terrible at messages though, sometimes I think I've replied to people and when I look I've not. Other times I'll start replying, need a shit and then open another window to play solitaire or something. I'll open fab in yet another window, so on and so forth and 4 days later there's the start of the message I began writing behind 18 open windows on my phone and an empty McDonalds wrapper

P

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’ve got newbies blocked . How long are people a newbie for?

good question. For me under about 8 weeks or so.

I've been here 3 months. Does that mean I'm no longer a newbie?

I'm not the newbie guru...do you feel new?

I was merely going by what you posted that for you a newbie was under 8 weeks or so.

My question was a rhetorical question...or was it?

But, in answer to your question - in my eyes I'm in that transition period twixt newbie and oldie. I get quite a lot of profile views nowadays, but still get ignored in the main."

It was only my opinion on timescale. I suppose anything after 3 months and I consider the honey moon period over and the reality of a swingers site hits home.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then.... "

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what they put in their message. If they're respectful and come across well I'll reply, if not they get the same as others. If they start out all baulchy and "the big I am" then I'll knock them down a peg or 2 and show them the error of their ways.

I'm fucking terrible at messages though, sometimes I think I've replied to people and when I look I've not. Other times I'll start replying, need a shit and then open another window to play solitaire or something. I'll open fab in yet another window, so on and so forth and 4 days later there's the start of the message I began writing behind 18 open windows on my phone and an empty McDonalds wrapper

P"

I do this. I think I replied and then it got lost and I feel guilty when I realise hahaha -Mrs

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Depends what they put in their message. If they're respectful and come across well I'll reply, if not they get the same as others. If they start out all baulchy and "the big I am" then I'll knock them down a peg or 2 and show them the error of their ways.

I'm fucking terrible at messages though, sometimes I think I've replied to people and when I look I've not. Other times I'll start replying, need a shit and then open another window to play solitaire or something. I'll open fab in yet another window, so on and so forth and 4 days later there's the start of the message I began writing behind 18 open windows on my phone and an empty McDonalds wrapper

P"

I love you I do

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy "

What am I doing wrong Spurs....I'm a good boy really....I don't deserve all this mistreatment...surely....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy

What am I doing wrong Spurs....I'm a good boy really....I don't deserve all this mistreatment...surely.... "

It could be your just too cheeky so the ladies think you need looking after..... it’s not mistreatment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem really tough for newbies getting that all important first meet, it's nobody's fault really, fab can be such a minefield when it comes to meeting people

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I find a lot of newbie guys are serial repeaters , creating a profile for a day or two and wanting access to private pics etc they do the chat but then disappear for a few weeks and return , I've no time for them so therefore my filters are set so they can't message me

Sad but true

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy

What am I doing wrong Spurs....I'm a good boy really....I don't deserve all this mistreatment...surely....

It could be your just too cheeky so the ladies think you need looking after..... it’s not mistreatment "

Too Cheeky...me....Never...I shall tone it down maybe so that I don't get so much punishment!!! Hahaha

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy

What am I doing wrong Spurs....I'm a good boy really....I don't deserve all this mistreatment...surely....

It could be your just too cheeky so the ladies think you need looking after..... it’s not mistreatment

Too Cheeky...me....Never...I shall tone it down maybe so that I don't get so much punishment!!! Hahaha "

As if! you love it

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

You people have me all wrong in this place....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

I have got Ken and Barbie scenarios stuck in my head now

What are these said scenarios....for research purposes....am I meet this Barbie lady...

Kens bent over hands bound to his ankles...shall I go on?

He was always a bit stiff for my liking

Me too. Give me barbie anyday

so okay, he's bent over and bound...why is this?....what happens next then....

Haha Jizzy, you do seem to find yourself bound and tied a lot lately..... don’t ask what comes next just enjoy "

He needs to stop misbehaving then I might let him go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the gf are new to fab and are avoiding seasoned fabbers because we don't want to be with someone who has been going from person to person on here for the past 3 years,but we can't find newbies in our area so depend what your after I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to virtually all my messages new or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just waiting for my first verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally wait a few weeks and if they’re still around I’ll message but I don’t see the point messaging women when they first join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m new "

Behave Cheeky

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"I’m new "

I'm playing my bullshit card on that one Cheeky....I think your passed the new stage aren't you...

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

How u know if they newbies i see some deleting and making new accounts every few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m new "

Only coz you keep bloody leaving!

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

So is a Newbie someone who has been on a short time or someone who has no veri's?

Or is it a mix of the two?

What is a short time?

Month?

6 month's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m new

Only coz you keep bloody leaving! "

I only come back for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m new

Behave Cheeky "

No, make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m new

I'm playing my bullshit card on that one Cheeky....I think your passed the new stage aren't you... "

New old I am

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I hardly reply to messages anymore but I kinda feel for newbies.

Are you more likely to message a newbie back more so than a seasoned fabster.

I do sometimes, if they come across well. I knock them back mainly but I think I feel sympathy for them.

Am I just soft? Afterall they are like puppies. Eager to please, tail wagging and ready to lick you to death."

Hubby usually arranges meets with couples. My heart sinks when I realise they’re newbie as it never goes anywhere. They’re eager to chat and ask questions. Then off they go with others or disappear! Always the same. Still I get convinced it will be different this time and it never is!

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