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People should stick to their own type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change, people want to explore different things/fantasies. I don’t see the problem?


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

Huh?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

Are you shitting me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right op. You tell em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say so Mavis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

I do.....however I’d happily chat to anyone who takes the time to chat in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

Think you're reading into things a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's right op. You tell em "

People say it all the time. It's true.

They look at veris and if the person hasn't met someone who looks like them, they get pissed off and assume they are just desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wut? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t agree at all.

Not all verifications are of all meets firstly, secondly I’m sure verifications disappear when someone deletes their profile.

In regards to the rest, it could simply be a lottery, those who agreed to meet in that time were all of a certain size/age. Doesn’t mean the person isn’t open to others.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance "

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Love it OP..

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

My 'type' is younger than me.

However occasionally I get chatting to an older guy and I like him

Simples.

So we might meet. I'm not desperate, just meeting a guy I connect with, get on with, want sex with. He's just different from guys I normally seem to fancy. But that's a good thing right? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines are hidden so anyone I message will just need to take my word for it that they're my type...that day at least

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Now this made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, but, but I only wanted a little suck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie. "

I can kinda see where your coming from. If a very aesthetically pleasing Male messaged me an all his veris are from gym fit blondes I would wander why he’s message me when I’m average 40 and brunette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're thinking way too hard about this, "oh this person messaged me, let's look at their veris. Oh they're all slim and I'm an ample woman, they're obviously just desperate and trying to waste my time!!" That's what it sounds like, and as someone said people want to try different things, and fantasies/preferences can change over time.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie. "

You're quite right. Whoever wrote the veri is that person's type and this removes any freedom of deviation whatsoever from the recipient. Veri trails are great for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie.

I can kinda see where your coming from. If a very aesthetically pleasing Male messaged me an all his veris are from gym fit blondes I would wander why he’s message me when I’m average 40 and brunette. "

He probably thinks you're hot. Fuck his brains out. (If you fancy him too.)

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

"

There really should be a sarcasm emoji or something...

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"That's right op. You tell em

People say it all the time. It's true.

They look at veris and if the person hasn't met someone who looks like them, they get pissed off and assume they are just desperate. "

What on earth are you on about... I dont have a type... as such. I meet tall guys..shorter guys.. bigger guys.. smaller guys.. big cocks.. small cocks... but they all have grabbed my attention.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U cannot have my penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people meet a certain type of person- all their veris are the same type. For example all slim or all young.

Then they mail someone who isn't slim or young and that causes issues. They are clearly just mailing the not young/ not slim person because they're desperate for a fuck. They can't possibly fancy them as they're not their type.

There really should be a sarcasm emoji or something... "

Or something.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Mine are all tipsy MLS attendees that I don’t have sex with. They’re obviously my type

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier


"I don’t agree at all.

Not all verifications are of all meets firstly, secondly I’m sure verifications disappear when someone deletes their profile.

In regards to the rest, it could simply be a lottery, those who agreed to meet in that time were all of a certain size/age. Doesn’t mean the person isn’t open to others. "

That is right versus disappear when a profile is deleted. Hence I have lost some.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Veris don't lie. "

But elsewhere on here are threads stating that an unspecified number of veris are actually fake.

I strongly suspect that we're all overthinking this... 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's right op. You tell em

People say it all the time. It's true.

They look at veris and if the person hasn't met someone who looks like them, they get pissed off and assume they are just desperate. "

I know. They're all flipping mental on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My verifications are from 26 up to 49, I have no type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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You’re quite right. All hell broke loose when I messaged someone without a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't have a type. When I have a couples profile with my OH it always surprised me that there were all kinds of women in pics he fabbed. Slim, curvy, gym fit, big boobs, small boobs and many many pictures of butts of all sizes :D

If a person was so fussy that they would only meet certain type of people I don't think that they word change their preferences just because they want sex.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance "

Its because you start the poo chat too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's amusing about this is that I generally go for men age 45 plus. My man generally goes for woman older than him. But as soon as we met each other we knew we were not interested in anyone else despite us not fitting in each others typical requirements.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's right op. You tell em

People say it all the time. It's true.

They look at veris and if the person hasn't met someone who looks like them, they get pissed off and assume they are just desperate.

I know. They're all flipping mental on here!"

Some! Not all. Oh crikey.

Hope the club was good. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

Its because you start the poo chat too quickly "

Ok from now on I'll be opening up with watersports, to lube them up first

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie. "

That’s so true I’ve had many an exchange where the other person has said ‘he/she wouldn’t be interested in me, have you seen his/her veris?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All my meets look completely different from one another, so no logic in my type. I get on, with who I get on with

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I love men with muscles. Doesn't mean I dont want to meet someone without. And I'm not exactly a gym bunny so most muscles men aren't interested in me at the end of the day attraction speaks for more than body type.

I've seen men on here ripped as hell but their face doesn't do it for me, should I meet them just because I like their body?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I often think the reverse of this. Why are you messaging me when your verfications are much larger than me. So it words both ways.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie.

I can kinda see where your coming from. If a very aesthetically pleasing Male messaged me an all his veris are from gym fit blondes I would wander why he’s message me when I’m average 40 and brunette. "

so if i messaged you what would you think?

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"All my meets look completely different from one another, so no logic in my type. I get on, with who I get on with "

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

I like myself, but I'm not my type.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

maybe its the flip of that... they message a wide variety of different types of men/women/couples and only a certain type respond?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Preach OP.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Looking for easy pickings - I tell them to bugger off, I'm worth more than that kind of treatment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe its the flip of that... they message a wide variety of different types of men/women/couples and only a certain type respond? "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Oh dear... beauty is in the eye of the beholder..don't ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a load of bollocks!

I only have veris from ladies 35+ but that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet ladies in their 20s or early 30s, it's just that they don't give me a chance

No, they will assume you only like women 35+. Veris don't lie.

I can kinda see where your coming from. If a very aesthetically pleasing Male messaged me an all his veris are from gym fit blondes I would wander why he’s message me when I’m average 40 and brunette.

so if i messaged you what would you think? "

I don’t know can’t say as you’ve got me blocked

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I like myself, but I'm not my type. "

don't you worry your are somebodys type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh shit, as I'm married to a nearly 70 years old that must be my type...

Right, all of you 70+ quick march to my inbox. The rest - forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a veri

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