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"Why not just message them? X" This..you could always use a furm post to break the ice x | |||
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"Why not just message them? X This..you could always use a furm post to break the ice x" Although naming on the forum it's kind of shunned | |||
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"Why not just message them? X This..you could always use a furm post to break the ice x" Yes that’s what I was thinking | |||
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"Why not just message them? X This..you could always use a furm post to break the ice x Although naming on the forum it's kind of shunned" Also this ....could be bad manners | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings," Then strictly speaking you should respect their preferences and settings | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings," Yeah, it's not a great thing to do to be honest, they have filters for a reason. | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings," Then I wouldn't do it. It's a form of getting around their settings and blocks and frowned upon by the owners of Fab. | |||
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"Why not just message them? X This..you could always use a furm post to break the ice x Although naming on the forum it's kind of shunned" I mean replying privately to a forum post | |||
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"Go for it.. only expect others to call you a lampost pisser, some people get very tetchy about that kind of thing, bizarrely, as it's nothing to do with them. I think its jealousy myself. Might be worth bearing in mind how the person who is the object of your affections may feel though. Some people find it a bit cringey. " I agree it just Another way to make contact, but your right could shoot myself in the foot | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Yeah, it's not a great thing to do to be honest, they have filters for a reason. " Could be temporary.....clearly meet guys in the profile ...but your right | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Then I wouldn't do it. It's a form of getting around their settings and blocks and frowned upon by the owners of Fab." Thanks appreciated | |||
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"Perhaps the best way .. be active in the forums or chatrooms Comment on your "crush's" comments but reply and quote, and try and spark a connection that way Be seen, don't hide away" Yes, that makes sense, thank you | |||
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"If it is to get around their settings then I agree with above don't do it!" Great advice guys thank you x | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings," Respect their preferences. | |||
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"Harass and plague the life out of them with multiple unanswered messages I thought that was the normal game plan. " ....Oh dear, | |||
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"Is it me again Harvey ? It is isn't it ? Oh go on then ....... wharrra ya want ?" Hahaha yes I’ve finally made contact lol | |||
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"OK OK OP, I’ll drop my filters for one message. But it only one message "Haha don’t drop anything keep em on lol | |||
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"If I wanted to give a shout out to a profile Id like to support or make contact indirectly ....is it bad form to do so on here? Just wanted to check the etiquette " Use the wink option. | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Respect their preferences." It seems so obvious yet so many don't understand this.  | |||
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"If I wanted to give a shout out to a profile Id like to support or make contact indirectly ....is it bad form to do so on here? Just wanted to check the etiquette " just do it its your site to, do what you feel comfortable with  | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Respect their preferences. It seems so obvious yet so many don't understand this. "General point It’s not always obvious when the profile states different to the pref settings, however I agree respecting the preferences is a mustv | |||
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"If I wanted to give a shout out to a profile Id like to support or make contact indirectly ....is it bad form to do so on here? Just wanted to check the etiquette just do it its your site to, do what you feel comfortable with "Thanks mate, | |||
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"Go for it mate. We've seen worse threads. " Yes your wearing them lol | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Respect their preferences. It seems so obvious yet so many don't understand this.
General point It’s not always obvious when the profile states different to the pref settings, however I agree respecting the preferences is a mustv"They put filters on to stop mail. They may be looking for men but don't want mail from them. They go looking. If they use the forums there's no harm in chatting or commenting on a post. They may still not want a private message though.  | |||
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"Why not just message them? X Profile settings, Respect their preferences. It seems so obvious yet so many don't understand this.
General point It’s not always obvious when the profile states different to the pref settings, however I agree respecting the preferences is a mustv
They put filters on to stop mail. They may be looking for men but don't want mail from them. They go looking.
If they use the forums there's no harm in chatting or commenting on a post. They may still not want a private message though. "Thank you | |||
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"Harass and plague the life out of them with multiple unanswered messages I thought that was the normal game plan. " Not for all guys. Some of us are well behaved and respect the Ladies. We are drowned out by scatter gun, copy paste and bad manners. | |||
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"Harass and plague the life out of them with multiple unanswered messages I thought that was the normal game plan. Not for all guys. Some of us are well behaved and respect the Ladies. We are drowned out by scatter gun, copy paste and bad manners." Well said  | |||
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