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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

It's often commented guys don't read profiles.

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do ladies read them, or just look at the pictures.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I just look at the pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read them, then I read the veris, then I look at the people who wrote the veris and what the guy wrote about them etc...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Obviously some don't, I used to have don't send winks or friend requests but it didn't stop them

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’ve speed read your profile and you’ve got my thumb print on your pic so my attention has been caught...

Sadly your location is miles away...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I read whatever is available, admittedly not always to the end, as something may have put me off before that so why continue

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I read profiles, often to the exclusion of pictures.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I never did either but nor did I send a message because I wanted to meet. I used to message random folk for a chat if I was awake at ridiculous o’clock or on the back of a forum post/thread

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I always read them, then I read the veris, then I look at the people who wrote the veris and what the guy wrote about them etc..."

This

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Guys write profiles? Some I’ve seen are one line or even just one word! Then they wonder why no one messages them!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I do, without fail!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Some do, some don't, like the men and couples

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

Hope not

Mines terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's often commented guys don't read profiles.

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do ladies read them, or just look at the pictures."

We read the profile look at the pictures , then read the verifications . Chain reaction of events then we’ll make our conclusion

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By *mJamsCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I always check out the profile of the guy messaging me or if I’ve spotted someone in the forum I’ll go and check their profile out and see what it says before messaging x

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I always read them, then I read the veris, then I look at the people who wrote the veris and what the guy wrote about them etc..."

Same here...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I read whatever is available, admittedly not always to the end, as something may have put me off before that so why continue "

Same here, I won’t get past the first 2 words if it says “Imagine this...”

I glance at pics, all cock pics tell me plenty about a man.

If the message was reasonable and the profile is not immediately off putting then I check the height

I think we read status updates too. The best profile in the world can be ruined by a dodgy status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancy them, yes, I read it all. In the same way I'd like someone to read mine before they message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read whatever is available, admittedly not always to the end, as something may have put me off before that so why continue

Same here, I won’t get past the first 2 words if it says “Imagine this...”

I glance at pics, all cock pics tell me plenty about a man.

If the message was reasonable and the profile is not immediately off putting then I check the height

I think we read status updates too. The best profile in the world can be ruined by a dodgy status "

Whiny status updates are the worst... definitely not sexy

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I read whatever is available, admittedly not always to the end, as something may have put me off before that so why continue "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scan them then play ‘guess the number of cock pics’. The profile text (or lack of) is a pretty good guide.

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By *NA TeamCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I read them, then the verifications and then look at the people who have left the verifications! I like to do my homework lol!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I scan them then play ‘guess the number of cock pics’. The profile text (or lack of) is a pretty good guide."

Or guess the mental age based on the number of cock pics

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By *mJamsCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

[Removed by poster at 06/10/19 11:20:44]

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By *mJamsCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I read them, then the verifications and then look at the people who have left the verifications! I like to do my homework lol! "

Haha yes this too! I always read the verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profiles and also some of the verifications as well.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes I do. If someone sends me a message I'll go into there profile first read it, look at the pictures if I see a cock I just delete. Then I read the message.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"It's often commented guys don't read profiles.

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do ladies read them, or just look at the pictures."

I do both.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I read the profile, look at the pics and read veris when I get a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile, look at their veris and then look at the pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the pics first to see if i find them attractive...no point reading the profile if not.

If i find them attactive i would go through the whole profile and then show hubby before winking or messaging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read them, then I read the veris, then I look at the people who wrote the veris and what the guy wrote about them etc...

Same here... "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Pics

profile text

veris

people who have verified them

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"Guys write profiles? Some I’ve seen are one line or even just one word! Then they wonder why no one messages them! "

I was advised mine was too long. So I edited it and it ended up a whole 2 words shorter!

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I read before replying (unless itas a no thanks) or if searching and going to message someone first I always read their profile.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They just look at the cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

There’s words too?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys write profiles? Some I’ve seen are one line or even just one word! Then they wonder why no one messages them! "

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Check the pics, then status update, read profile and then veris before reading message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys will send a message before reading a profile, women read the profile before opening that message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will read if the avatar isn't a cock and if a username isn't off putting.

I will read if there is something to read.

If profile text looks ok, I will check the pictures.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Contrary to most....I will always read a profile before I message!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Profile text is often more important to me than pictures. That's probably why I struggled with Tinder as most leave it blank or write a silly one liner.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I read everything, even the T&Cs in teenytinny font when filling in forms & stuff.

I'm a bit OCD like that.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I perv the pics, then if there's a profile to read I will read it. There are times when I don't even look at profiles

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I read I wouldn't mail someone without looking at their profile often the lack of one makes me just not contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I scan them then play ‘guess the number of cock pics’. The profile text (or lack of) is a pretty good guide."

Where K= cock pics, N= Number of words, O= Orifices being hung out of and B=Balls being full statuses, This is proportional to:

H=Hi messages, E=Erections on display, A=Age of forumite and D=Distance from other people.

By multiplying both factors for each variable, there is symmetry in the equation

KNOB=HEAD

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier


"I read everything, even the T&Cs in teenytinny font when filling in forms & stuff.

I'm a bit OCD like that. "

Very thorough approach. Too time consuming to read the T&C's as well?

I am liking the thorough approach of the Ladies I am discovering here. Give the vine of mails you get this is quite some work. Appreciate your efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the profile.

The ‘will fill this in later’ ones take me a while.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

My husband will always read the profile and I tend to look at the pictures first ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking of adding a line to my profile text to say if you message or reply to my message please put "hey" in the title, just to check.....

Fuck it I'm going to!

I love when ppl ask you to jump through blazing hoops and tread hot coals..... it's just fab it doesn't really matter does it...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I scan them then play ‘guess the number of cock pics’. The profile text (or lack of) is a pretty good guide.

Where K= cock pics, N= Number of words, O= Orifices being hung out of and B=Balls being full statuses, This is proportional to:

H=Hi messages, E=Erections on display, A=Age of forumite and D=Distance from other people.

By multiplying both factors for each variable, there is symmetry in the equation

KNOB=HEAD"

Genius

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If I look at the pics and I don't have any attraction, I don't bother reading the profile cos there's no point.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"It's often commented guys don't read profiles.

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do ladies read them, or just look at the pictures."

I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the picture first, then I read the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely read, until I get to 'cannot accommodate' or 'joined a month ago'.

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon


"I always read them, then I read the veris, then I look at the people who wrote the veris and what the guy wrote about them etc..."

Ditto.

Exactly this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profile always. Look at number of veris and number of gallery pics.

We don't read veris or view gallery pics. High numbers are an instant put-off. We are not interested in just being another notch. We hold little value in veris anyway. We do not converse or not, purely on looks. Prefer dialogue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys will send a message before reading a profile, women read the profile before opening that message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys will send a message before reading a profile, women read the profile before opening that message."
So true

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Usually looking at pictures to see if there is more than cock picks and there is nothing what would turn me off like bare sex pics etc., than height, from where they are, what interests they have sex wise and than description. One of things I’m looking at is verifications, not descriptions but what sort of woman they have met before (size wise etc, no bare sex pics etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small portion of them don't read it or they read it and choose to ignore it.

Some couples are even worse though because they go straight to it, without so much as saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to read, saves my time and theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never did either"

Thank fleck for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just look at the pictures "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say ladies in general read far more than men do.

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