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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Three.

Two women friends and Mr N

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. "

i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'

hope your ok OP X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.

i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'

hope your ok OP X"

Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain.

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london

Just the two, and frankly that's enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite lucky to have rather a lot. One on here, the rest I've collected over a couple of decades. Without them I'd be nothing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just the two, and frankly that's enough "

Wish I even had that amount.. But nope!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I’m lucky I have one know known since I was 10 and one since I was 20 and both have stepped up in times of need without question and I also have one other that I’ve know for 5 years and I know she will always be there regardless of what’s needed, and there is always my big brother who is my hero!

Mrs x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.

i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'

hope your ok OP X

Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain."

haha at least your in good spirits and can joke about it... xxx you tried local groups? any hobbys? contacting old school or work colleagues? pm if you ever fancy a chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.

i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'

hope your ok OP X

Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain."

I totally get that. I know lots of people and consider a few friends but I don't really have any that I feel really close too.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

About 5 or so. I'm not a very social person, so that's enough for me.

Katie.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

to anyone out there feeling low or needing a friendly ear, my box is always open!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many lol i had my 50th birthday party in a phone box so all my friends could come lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to anyone out there feeling low or needing a friendly ear, my box is always open!! "

So kind. Lol

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london


"Just the two, and frankly that's enough

Wish I even had that amount.. But nope! "

You never know who you got out there. You'd be surprised.

I'd say I will be your friend but:

a) you're not that desperate

b) I don't take friendship lightly

c) I it have 2 fingers left. Long story

Chin up OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to anyone out there feeling low or needing a friendly ear, my box is always open!! nice to see some people are so considerate

So kind. Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. "
true friends really are hard to find i have two that i trust implicitly

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

One really close friend who I have been best mates with for over 25 years. And a couple of good friends who know a lot about me but but not half as much as my best mate does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't count my husband then 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got 1 real friend i could tell anything to and he would do anything for me. And a circle of around 7 others that are real good friends but i know i couldnt tell them cirtain things.

I used to have a massive circle but found that many were hangers on, just used me for the partys i had and name dropping to get in cirtain places ect.

I deleted everyone out my phone a year ago and saved peoples numbers as they contacted me on a friend front not a 'wanting' front

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have got one very best friend who I can talk to about anything and she is someone I met on here

We are real world friends too and I consider myself lucky to have found her.

I also have MrLicka of course but it’s good to have a girlfriend too

Sometimes people just turn up and you don’t realise how important they are to you at first but they quickly become so close you feel you have known them a lifetime - I hope you find your someone special soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from gf..just one..total..I'm not one for acquaintances etc..funny because she s a 75 year old..friends for me are very difficult as I m looking for open minded talk about anything, dress how they wanna dress..non conformist such as myself...I ve given up trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have so many who think they’re my friends but I don’t. Actually got 2 who know virtually everything about me. Have met a couple of others on here who are also on the way to becoming very close

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have 3 true friends who I would class as sisters...

Everyone else dips in and out as life goes on as I do to them

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"

How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.

True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. true friends really are hard to find i have two that i trust implicitly "

Thankyou x

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Just the one but we have been friends since we were 16. Been through a lot together and I wouldn't change a thing.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

2 now, as sadly one of my most trusted friends passed away last week.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I have lots of acquaintances and work friends but no-one I'd call a true friend, someone who knows where all the bodies are hidden. And you know what? I'm totally fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 Charlie and 1 other male. I have lots of casual friends but they are not people I would share confidences with x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

None. Some casuals. None I trust like my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 real friends - 5 who I met through here and became really close friends with. Have 1 more in the real world who may become a close friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friends are on here local friends i dont need i dont go drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, and that’s how I like it.

I’m like the Lone Ranger and keep myself to myself a lot of the time.

I do have ‘acquaintances’ and family I socialise with when I’m in need to human contact

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By *toneMan
over a year ago

Colchester

I know many people, local, work colleagues etc, but to have a true friend that won't stab you in the back is hard to find nowadays... Also my inbox is open if anybody wants to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link. "

Loneliness is terrible but people can forget there are many attached loved people who, in themselves, still feel loneliness..this can come about thru a shift in their thinking, or a change in their lifes wants, wishes, dreams...in fact though living a so called perfect life some people can inwardly and without knowing disconnect and feel they no longer belong, don t feel they can change their life and so live it whilst slipping into isolation and loneliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link.

Loneliness is terrible but people can forget there are many attached loved people who, in themselves, still feel loneliness..this can come about thru a shift in their thinking, or a change in their lifes wants, wishes, dreams...in fact though living a so called perfect life some people can inwardly and without knowing disconnect and feel they no longer belong, don t feel they can change their life and so live it whilst slipping into isolation and loneliness"

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two friends I speak with and see all the time

I have other friends who sadly I don't see very often but we know if I or they ever needed anything we would be there

For some reason my best friend and I drifted apart when she got married . I miss her terribly. Not sure what I did wrong. I try to keep in touch but never really gets much respond.

I then have other friends who I keep in touch with end see now and again.

I'm very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lost several people that I thought were friends over the last few years.

And now I have just one good friend that I've known forever.

I spend a lot of time alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One very close friends who knows everything about me and who's been my rock

A few casual friends ,and a sister and daughter who are also friends aswel as being family and that's all I need

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

A handful at most...

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york


"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link. "
I saw a program on it in Japan .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No real true friends tbh.

I am a terrible friend, never contact them, never make plans. I like my evenings and weekends for me, selfish but true.

I am quite close to my daughter in laws Mum, we never arrange to do stuff though because she is the same as me. But I know she would be there if I needed her, and vice versa.

Though we are planning a a day in Liverpool looking for Wedding dresses for my Daughter in Law.

Good thing about being friends we can cook up plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. One guy two ladies. They know everything about me and are still here. They must be good friends to put up with a moody git like me.

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I have about 7 I can trust with my life !

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

5 really close mates, 1 of which has been for 40 years and is more like my sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No real true friends tbh.

I am a terrible friend, never contact them, never make plans. I like my evenings and weekends for me, selfish but true.

I am quite close to my daughter in laws Mum, we never arrange to do stuff though because she is the same as me. But I know she would be there if I needed her, and vice versa.

Though we are planning a a day in Liverpool looking for Wedding dresses for my Daughter in Law.

Good thing about being friends we can cook up plans "

I locked myself away from the world for a long time and pushed my friends away but the real ones stuck by me.

Sending hugs x

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