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Everything happens for a reason?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do you think it is fate, destiny that has led you to where you are now. Or is it the decisions that you've made that have formed the path that you are on?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’m a great believer in fate...

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Decisions someone else made to be fair....else I probably would not of returned to this mad little corner of the internet!!! Haha

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Decision I have made as made me who at what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in fate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing irks me more than this saying.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My decisions and I trust in karma,

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I am where I am now because of intellect, skill, and charm...

A bit of hard graft too

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Nothing irks me more than this saying."

what, believing in fate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make our own destiny...

The stars are there to be reached for, they won't come down to you

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"We make our own destiny...

The stars are there to be reached for, they won't come down to you "

Profound!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really although I do believe in finding a meaningful purpose in life and connecting different experiences in my life along with greater self-awareness enabled me to find a meaningful purpose for mine, based on what I love to do and my strengths. If that’s fate then so be it. Lots of other things happen in my life that are simply random events, only those I imbue with some significance take on a deeper meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just roll the dice..

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Everything is pretty random; you can affect some things yourself in a small way - but if you're born in a slum in the developing world your chances of rising out of the gutter are slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a lot of bad decisions. I have no one to blame but myself for some of my struggles.

Other times I think I have got it hard and wasn't dealt the easiest of hands.

All I can do is keep moving forward though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We make our own destiny...

The stars are there to be reached for, they won't come down to you

Profound!"

Yes it is looking at it lol. It's just my experience that if we sit back and think fate will play it's hand then little happens. As a cancer survivor if I hadn't have stepped up and fought it then I might not be here now

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Do you think it is fate, destiny that has led you to where you are now. Or is it the decisions that you've made that have formed the path that you are on?

"

Both. I believe it is fate... thus moulding your life and decisions you make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix of both

Albeit largely...

The bad = v high poor decision making

The good = fucking hard work applied

My moral is you get out what you put in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes partly the ending is set but the journey is where your tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing irks me more than this saying.

what, believing in fate?"

No, saying everything happens for a reason, people have mental illness for a reason do they ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes partly the ending is set but the journey is where your tested "
yes not hes

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

"

We do have to play the cards we are dealt. I suppose it is how well you play the game that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

We do have to play the cards we are dealt. I suppose it is how well you play the game that counts "

You got it. I never thought I'd have emigrated but determination and hard work made it possible.

Mind you try as I might I can't make myself better looking lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't believe there's a destiny, apart from the demise of universe in the future. We have influence over our destiny and I've used mine to some effect.

We are tiny elements in the grand scheme of things, with the only significance and meaning that we create ourselves in all likelihood Imo.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

We do have to play the cards we are dealt. I suppose it is how well you play the game that counts

You got it. I never thought I'd have emigrated but determination and hard work made it possible.

Mind you try as I might I can't make myself better looking lol "

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I call buckshot

You can clean up & build up that slum

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.

To be? or not to be?, that is the question.

Everyone has the same 24 hours in a day, it's what you choose to do with that time that makes the difference.

There's quite a few quotes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

"

I like this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing about fate...

We are all dealt a set of cards, some lucky and others not so.

It's up to us to make the best hand out of the cards we're holding.

If the random cards are fate then it's only our determination that turns a bad hand good.

We do have to play the cards we are dealt. I suppose it is how well you play the game that counts

You got it. I never thought I'd have emigrated but determination and hard work made it possible.

Mind you try as I might I can't make myself better looking lol

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder "

I've got the eye... You have the beauty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't decisions and destiny the same thing....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever’s going to happen in life is going to happen anyway, whether you like it or not. Just get on with it.

This is something someone told me once.

I believe in all of the mentioned.

There is fate, destiny, luck and of course own effort, hard work, commitment and dedication too.

Everything needs to be in balance and proportion to achieve something.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I think fate puts you in certain situations at a certain time but it's your decision once you're there with what you do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

you're able to influence the small things in life but the laws of science and nature influence the bigger picture not fate or destiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it is fate, destiny that has led you to where you are now. Or is it the decisions that you've made that have formed the path that you are on?

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I do believe your life is mapped out , if one strays from planned path then at some point you’re guided back on track ( just my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our own life choices leads to the butterfly effect - my thinking anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

oh and everything does happen for a reason but not to teach us lessons, although we can if we choose learn from things. However the reason things happen is that a set of circumstances led up to them there isn't a grand plan with individual life lessons built in for every person

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