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Easily led?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Are you a leader...the go to person with good ideas and happy to make decisions?

Or, are you happy to let others make the decisions.. a go with the flow type of person?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Go with the flow to seizing the initiative and taking the lead kind of person

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m all of them.

I happily take the lead and make a decision, just as I’m happy to let others decide. Going with the flow and doing what feels natural and right at the time is the important bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a go with the flow until I see danger, then I step in and the foot goes down.

If I want things to go a certain way and I can tell others are unsure of that (as in the vibe - you know what I mean) then I'll speak up and steer things in the opposite direction

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh so easily led

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im easily led

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Definitely easily led

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not full of ideas but happy to take the lead and direct ! But I’m also happy being told what to do as long as it’s in a polite way x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m the quiet one who doesn’t participate until asked. The one who everyone mistakes for a pushover as so quiet, but who actually has the temperament of a lion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to be lead. But I may drop hints of how I would like things to go. Not sure where that fits in?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm a bit of both - probably more of a natural leader, but also very laid back and happy to go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be in charge. I can’t help but take the lead

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think it depends on the situation and circumstance and to that extent am fairly adaptable - but generally I'm very much go with the flow and happy to go along with the natural (or otherwise) direction things take, can also be quite impulsive when it comes to making decisions.

If assertiveness or decision making is called for, I can do that, but often have to be pushed into doing so, rather than directly taking the initiative, which I think comes from a natural inclination to put others wants/needs first ahead of myself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very context dependent for me too. I'm not a natural leader or assertive, but if push comes to shove I will. I'm full of ideas and a collaborator. I'm also happy to go along to get along.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Very context dependent for me too. I'm not a natural leader or assertive, but if push comes to shove I will. I'm full of ideas and a collaborator. I'm also happy to go along to get along. "

I can identify with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love let everyone else make all decisions... unfortunately I find in most situations I’m the one who makes all the decisions and organises everything and everyone

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Are you a leader...the go to person with good ideas and happy to make decisions?

Or, are you happy to let others make the decisions.. a go with the flow type of person?"

I am both of those things depending on the circumstances, I am happy to take charge if needed and equally happy to stand back if they are doing it my way anyway

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm a sheep, I'll just go with the flow generally speaking.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Total mixture of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the silent one at the back who takes over when things go tits up

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm more comfortable as a leader but it depends on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leader except with a very few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both id say im adaptable in my reallife unless its something im expert at

In the bedroom i tend to lead well

At work more a leader thru delegation motivation inspiration and enthusiasm

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm typically the driver and leade, at my cost. I like consensus but will persist with a fair bit of tenacity, if I think things could be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily led here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation.

I won't lead a proctologist as I don't know anything about colon but I may lead someone who is looking for a street nearby where I used to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’m either of those two things to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go my own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a leader...the go to person with good ideas and happy to make decisions?

Or, are you happy to let others make the decisions.. a go with the flow type of person?"
bothi make decisions based on experience and i can listen to what the other person wants to do and go with it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m a ‘go with the flow’ type of person

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can lead and make decisions but its one of my friends that organizes us all in my group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to organise things and put plans in action but then sit back and let others take control of my plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my Austin tendencies, I struggle to change route of what my head has told me what should be happening....

However- with those patient with me, I like to be led occasionally

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With my Austin tendencies, I struggle to change route of what my head has told me what should be happening....

However- with those patient with me, I like to be led occasionally

Mrs P x"
mary can i lead you down the garden path?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a leader,though i never used to be. Once upon a time i would be lead like a dog out for walkies.

I started a new job and it changed me. Gave me more confidence, gave me more belief in myself, showed me that i can make decisions. Now i can lead, not in a "Im in charge! Listen to me" kind of way. Now i can make a decision, although i still turn to others to see what they think, i am not a fascist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I always go with the flow but looking back at work I can be more of a leader at times. Something I would never descibe myself as. This only happens tho within my immediate team, seems I like to think I know what I'm doing.

Rest of the time, I let others make a descion and flow with it.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I thought this was going to be a thread about changing from normal bulbs to LED one's.

It isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been easily led in work setting. Now I realise most people peddle bullshit, don’t know what they’re actually on about (both at work and at life in general) and get by by being confident in their BS. Starting to exercise my leadership skills at work and so far I seem to be doing just fine. I am a slow learner when it comes to changing myself a person. But I do get there in the end!

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