FabSwingers.com forum: How do you like yours?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do you prefer your women to be like the girl next door..you know hardly any make up, or none at all, jeans & T...

Or styled , hair done, make up on...looking like they mean business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fun of dressing up is being able to switch between the 2.

I'd favour the girl next door look slightly more than glam, but I would frown on any person who doesn't glam up when the occasion requires it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

This is a good question actually , and if I'm honest, somewhere between both .

I dont like too much make up or high heels , but at the same time I wouldnt want them to turn up in a onesie either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, depending on what mood she’s in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl next door. Could you imagine how good she would look when she makes the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I prefer the girl at home look..You see them out for nights out and you would barely recognise them they have so much make up and everything else done x..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but I don’t belong in either of these boxes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who has always hated the taste of lipstick and the smell of warpaint, I prefer a girl who usually needs no, or minimal makeup.

However, it is still nice if she knows how to apply it properly, for special occasions, without overdoing it.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Oh but I don’t belong in either of these boxes...

Me too...I wear both looks and those in between. I have my own kind of style. Can ramp it up a notch when I want and take it down a notch too.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both - that way you get your breath taken away on special occasions where they get glammed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take what I can get, but prefer the girl next type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more attracted to the feminine women. Makeup, lingerie, long hair, and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am more attracted to the feminine women. Makeup, lingerie, long hair, and all that

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me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to bed with the style, waking up with the girl next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

Everyday life I hardly wear makeup. I dress up but when I do it’s not for anyone else and likely doesn’t meet expectations. I don’t wear heels, I favour doc martens, I wear whatever eclectic combination of clothing pleases me. I see a lot of “dress to impress” on this site and it makes me giggle as I’m not sure what it even means! I do put makeup on when we go out for an evening or a meet but it’s minimal, and I’m comfortable in my own skin even if I don’t fit into a box. I like people to dress and be how they like, that comfort and confidence is so attractive. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident with a swagger and just been to the gym lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By expectations I mean the “normal” or current trend way. I don’t need to apply eyebrows, or eyelashes. Just a bit of makeup and I go. It makes me feel pretty but by modern standards I probably don’t look like I’ve done enough. If I put on a full face I would be too uncomfortable to go out. It’s just not me except when I feel like creeping back into full goth with the makeup haha but I don’t do that for going to meets or the club. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you prefer your women to be like the girl next door..you know hardly any make up, or none at all, jeans & T...

Or styled , hair done, make up on...looking like they mean business?"
personally i prefer them to be men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I like mine feeling comfortable

I think Mr feels the same. Whatever makes them feel confident

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

Absolutely this

I hate when guys say "will you wear xyz for me" - I'm my own woman, not a fantasy dolly for you to dress up. I'll wear what makes me feel attractive, thanks

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday girl next door but for the special times dressed up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

Absolutely this

I hate when guys say "will you wear xyz for me" - I'm my own woman, not a fantasy dolly for you to dress up. I'll wear what makes me feel attractive, thanks

Mrs TMN x"

I’m so relieved you agreed. It puts me right off and gets my back up. One asked me to wear something risqué to a social only meet and serve him a drink... I lectured him and then blocked as it came across so creepy to me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Both and everything in between. I like women to be happy expressing their individuality in whatever way they feel is right for them and the circumstances

Absolutely this

I hate when guys say "will you wear xyz for me" - I'm my own woman, not a fantasy dolly for you to dress up. I'll wear what makes me feel attractive, thanks

Mrs TMN x

Ha, nicely done! I figure, if you want me, you take me as I am. That's not to say I turn up snotty, in trackie bums and hairy legged like I am today, but don't tell me what to do, thanks!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Neither really. I like quirky women. Either alternative or just have their own style. I prefer more feminine presenting women. I'm not really attracted to really heavy, Insta model style make up, as much as I appreciate the art of it. If I'm attracted to a women though I will fancy her whether she is in pyjamas or a posh dress.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Everyday girl next door but for the special times dressed up x"
This but i choose the underwear and pull ups and short skirt etc that makes ME feel comfortable but sexy ,not my usual at home comfy attire ...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Do you prefer your women to be like the girl next door..you know hardly any make up, or none at all, jeans & T...

Or styled , hair done, make up on...looking like they mean business?"

God no, the girl next door has a nice arse, but a face like a blind cobbler's thumb and can hold a note like a colander hold water yet still wails at the top of her voice

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would encourage any woman who met me not to wear any make-up. If I'm attracted to somebody, the could have just rolled out of bed and stuck on jeans and a T-shirt and I know they would still look fantastic. I love a natural look. I don't mean they should just let their hair grow wild, but they don't have to do much.

I would love women to feel more confident about how they look naturally. Dressing up all glam is not going to lead to me fancying somebody any more than if they were just pottering around the house.

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have that fresh girl next door and im not a fan of heavy make up. I suggest women just be themselves whatever that be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't smoke 40 a day I ain't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All done up and skimpy outfits all day long

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It'll be said it's a cop out white knight comment but honestly, my preference is however they feel comfortable - glamour puss dolled up to the nines is just as fine as girl next door jeans and comfortable jumper as far as I am concerned so long as the person I am meeting feels comfortable and I can be equally attracted to either look or anything else in between. People have asked me before how they should dress when we meet and my response is always "I'm meeting you not your clothes, so whatever you are comfortable and "you" in"

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"If they don't smoke 40 a day I ain't interested

then we are a match made in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they don't smoke 40 a day I ain't interested

then we are a match made in heaven

I'll grab my car keys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like to have my hair all done & wear makeup everyday & I do it for myself because I like couldn’t care less what men think

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Being themselves definitely.

Choosing, my answer is probably quirky. Being themselves, whatever that looks like.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Do you prefer your women to be like the girl next door..you know hardly any make up, or none at all, jeans & T...

Or styled , hair done, make up on...looking like they mean business?personally i prefer them to be men

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire ladies with the commitment to always looking glam, and they tend to catch my eye.

I make very little effort day to day, but like to pull out all the stops for 'special' occasions

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