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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy?

Or is what you see, what you get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What you see is what you get also Well most of the time

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I can only be myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy?

Or is what you see, what you get?"

Definitely the latter, I couldn't pull off being someone different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeeerrrrmmmm ....

In real life I'm invisible - I'm a chubby 44yr old woman.

I'm not deluded and do know that for most men on here any holes a goal - but at least I get to feel sexy for a short time

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

What you see is what you get, although when you meet me I have clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo what you see is what you get!

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's a case of what you see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WYSIWYG . Don’t know how to be anyone else. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an outlet to be someone true to myself.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I'm very much an open book to be fair...what you see is what you get!!

I don't really act any different on here to how I do outside...still the daft old joker!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I post as I would say it for real.

Some like it , some dont !!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This is a version of myself, albeit not one I otherwise let out much. The non sex stuff is me. The sex stuff is buried otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, in person I pull lots of faces, faces that make me look so hideous B doesn't allow them to soil our gallery, that's about the only difference

P

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Exactly as described.. nothing to hide here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m most certainly my true self yet have been catfished a couple of times by men:

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By *eordie4321Man
over a year ago

wallsend

I’m just me. Your gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much myself however ppl r surprised when they look at my profile n how dominant I can be in the bedroom!

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

The Doc says that neither of us have a split personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to have a persona but me kept seeping through so now this is all me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We are who you see

Mrs2

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm me plain and simple, what you see is what you get, take me or leave me.

There are those who choose to adopt a persona or hold things back in some way or another, and where that is to maintain privacy I totally understand so long as they give a fairly accurate indication of their general character.

What I don't understand is where people adopt a completely different persona on-line to their off-line one, and yet still plan to meet, which to me is duplicitous at best.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm still me

This is just my escape from reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just jolly old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others."

I’ll also add. I have many different faces I present to the world. It’s impossible to show them all at the same time. The more you know me, the more faces you see.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm very much my normal self on here...I want to meet so creating a persona would be counterproductive

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I am always the same person. No game playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am who I am!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This is me.

I am reserved, wise and worn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is me.

I am reserved, wise and worn out "

And covered in butter

P

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This is me.

I am reserved, wise and worn out

And covered in butter

P"

That was confidential......

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm me... I just come on here to talk the kind of utter shite I can't usually get away with in public, and to show off my extensive lingerie collection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is me.

I am reserved, wise and worn out

And covered in butter

P

That was confidential...... "

Eeeeeeeek, G-Crumps does not, I repeat, DOES NOT bathe in utterly butterfly.

Got your back G-Crumps. Peace.

P

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"This is me.

I am reserved, wise and worn out

And covered in butter

P

That was confidential......

Eeeeeeeek, G-Crumps does not, I repeat, DOES NOT bathe in utterly butterfly.

Got your back G-Crumps. Peace.

P"

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Personality wise, I am absolutely myself on here - probably more open than I am in many other areas of my life! I love having that freedom to express myself which I have found in the forums. It's not something I came here looking for but it's something I value very much.

Mrs TMN x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm several facets of myself but only one or two people get all of me.

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By *lackintelMan
over a year ago

Walworth .London

What you see is what you get, I'm just me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

What you see is most definitely what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im as blunt and direct as a tree stump to the heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure anyone would pretend to be this antisocial and direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm several facets of myself but only one or two people get all of me. "

This is probably closest to my serious answer too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people proud of being blunt and direct ?!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm still me

This is just my escape from reality "

That’s the best way to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy?

Or is what you see, what you get?"

What about you OP?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I am multi faceted, but I am who I am and the many, many people who know me through my swinging related jobs will attest to that I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people proud of being blunt and direct ?!"

Because im proud of myself

And dont give a toss if that upsets folk altho not my intent its also not my concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people proud of being blunt and direct ?!"

Not proud of it in the slightest. I wish I could force myself to say the right thing. It would make life a whole lot easier.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. "
i see your tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely me but a side of me I keep private

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. i see your tits "

Well they are right there no nips though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I'm several facets of myself but only one or two people get all of me. "

Yes, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. i see your tits

Well they are right there no nips though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are".

It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit....

The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug.....

I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I am a catfish and nothing I say is true "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"" I am a catfish and nothing I say is true ""

So, you're not a catfish? Or are you just wanting us to think that?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are".

It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit....

The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug.....

I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face "

I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

What you see is what you get honest and respectfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are".

It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit....

The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug.....

I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face

I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think. "

You Babs are obviously adorable, it shines through, honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get with me x

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By *as_no_ideaCouple
over a year ago

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I am a what you see is what you get kinda girl...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are".

It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit....

The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug.....

I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face

I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think.

You Babs are obviously adorable, it shines through, honestly "

Thank you that’s a lovely thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure really. What I show of me is definitely me, I’m crap at pretending, I just don’t show much (not talking about pics). I’m actually really private. So I guess yeah what you see is what you get there’s just a hell of a lot more once you know me properly.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

What you see is what you get with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly as I portray on here. It is my life outside of swinging that hides this part of me. I don't broadcast my private activities for anyone. None of my family or friends know what I get up to.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I’m me, not quite sure if I am more or less genuine on Fab. Certainly I talk about sex and sexuality more than in my day to day life.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I think I'm pretty much the same me on here as I am I real life - slightly reserved, or stand offish, and with a slightly different take on things to many people.

However, I can also reveal certain things (preferences, kinks etc) on here that usually remain hidden, or only told to very select people

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By *obey DickMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Definately, what you see is what you get. Im on here because I just love having no strings attached sex without all the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, I'm me, just a shortened version, I rarely, if at all, share the whole me, but I always share the real me, albeit the abridged version.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me, though more sexy than in real life x

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Eeeerrrrmmmm ....

In real life I'm invisible - I'm a chubby 44yr old woman.

I'm not deluded and do know that for most men on here any holes a goal - but at least I get to feel sexy for a short time "

You're beautiful.

But I can empathise with what you say.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What you see is what you get, I'm more chatty in person as I don't have to worry about the spelling and grammar police.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Nope what you see with me as laid back here as I am in a club or real life. Dont like pretenders theres no need just be yourself

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Nope what you see with me as laid back here as I am in a club or real life. Dont like pretenders theres no need just be yourself "

I can attest to that - you are indeed one of the genuine ones

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford


"Nope what you see with me as laid back here as I am in a club or real life. Dont like pretenders theres no need just be yourself

I can attest to that - you are indeed one of the genuine ones "

Thanks chick xx

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm definately a WYSIWYG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get, I’m pretty invisible in real life too

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy?

Or is what you see, what you get?"

Wasn't it Descartes who said; I am what I am?"

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy?

Or is what you see, what you get?

Wasn't it Descartes who said; I am what I am?""

Descartes was so inspired by Gloria Gaynor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, I'm the same weirdo in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you see is what you get, I'm more chatty in person as I don't have to worry about the spelling and grammar police. "

Don't worry about them. If the worse they can do is complain about that, they're not worth your time.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

As if GMF could ever be classified as an alter ego...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am more confident on here but I don't think my true personality comes through much in the forums. Maybe in pm's with people I chat to regular it does x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby always says in swinging situations ( clubs, social meets or playing ) I'm so much more confident.....every day me is more reserved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m me. I think I’m more naturally flirty on here than I am in real life when first meeting people, but after a couple of minutes with someone when they haven’t laughed me away, I can usually open up and become quite flirty with them too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much the same in real life.

If I had an alter ego she would be far more exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

"

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pretend to be something I'm not. I think I'm to honest for my own good sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't pretend to be something I'm not. I think I'm to honest for my own good sometimes. "

Me too. Even maybe a bit brutally honest sometimes I suppose. Rather be that than a lying fake. You just have to realise that not everyone is the same as you. A good lesson to learn.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We are very much WYSIWYG.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you "

I do like women called annabelke21 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeeerrrrmmmm ....

In real life I'm invisible - I'm a chubby 44yr old woman.

I'm not deluded and do know that for most men on here any holes a goal - but at least I get to feel sexy for a short time

You're beautiful.

But I can empathise with what you say."

Aw thankyou that just made me smile xx

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though "

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 "

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am me, fab is my fantasy finder. Which is also a part of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Just as miserable online as I am in real life

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! "

lol..what's a consonant between friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends "

So we are friends now?

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

What you see is what you get.

No point pretending

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends

So we are friends now? "

unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends

So we are friends now?

unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check "

While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends

So we are friends now?

unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check

While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits "

I don't give to receive but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anyone's gonna say... nah...I had you all. I'm just messing! This isn't me! I'm pretending!!!

Love these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends

So we are friends now?

unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check

While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits

I don't give to receive but...."

See how it is done kids

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am totally different in real life.

I don't fuck watermelons

I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums

I have trainers

Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you

I do like women called annabelke21 though

I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21

Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !

lol..what's a consonant between friends

So we are friends now?

unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check

While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits

I don't give to receive but....

See how it is done kids "

I'm ready for your close up Mr F&B

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm a fantasy in my own reality

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm a fantasy in my own reality "

so.etimes that's a good ace to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot more to me than what you see on fab and I’m pretty sure it’s the same for most of us.

The people I meet will know me better and the more we meet the more they’ll know me. I still manage to surprise my mum after 40 odd years so be warned that you should expect surprises too. Some you may like, some you may not. But it’s not about being purposefully deceptive, it’s about perception over a rather limited communication medium.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am totally myself on fab. Sometimes I use sex/kink as a way to become a "different person" but really it is just another version of myself.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im softer in real life

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Im softer in real life"

I need to give you a nice squeeze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely what you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what u see is what you get minus the bi curious side. Frowned upon in my religion and culture

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By *unfirst1000Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Mainly myself, but definitely a bit of someone that people don’t see every day. I’m quite outgoing, have a right laugh with people at work and a cheeky side. However, I have filthy mind so get to indulge in the world of FAB. But my cheekiness does get me in a spot where I would just love to blur out what’s in that melon of mine... but would probably get sacked!

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

"Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !"

"lol..what's a consonant between friends"

I think that nowadays you are obliged to obtain their consonant before entering someone's vowels.

Seriously though, OP's question is a very good one and no surprise to see the volume of well thought out and honest responses to it, notably :


"Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others."

"Just an outlet to be someone true to myself."

As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own.

It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet.

Just my tuppence worth.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

"Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !"

"lol..what's a consonant between friends"

I think that nowadays you are obliged to obtain their consonant before entering someone's vowels.

Seriously though, OP's question is a very good one and no surprise to see the volume of well thought out and honest responses to it, notably :

Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others.

"Just an outlet to be someone true to myself."

As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own.

It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet.

Just my tuppence worth.

"

I hear and understand your tuppence worth. It's great that people can be true to themselves in a way that 'ordinary' life may not permit them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Like anyone's gonna say... nah...I had you all. I'm just messing! This isn't me! I'm pretending!!!

Love these threads. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !"

"lol..what's a consonant between friends"

I think that nowadays you are obliged to obtain their consonant before entering someone's vowels.

Seriously though, OP's question is a very good one and no surprise to see the volume of well thought out and honest responses to it, notably :

Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others.

"Just an outlet to be someone true to myself."

As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own.

It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet.

Just my tuppence worth.

"

No-one is the same in all situations. They will hide some aspects in different situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get but the me on here has more confidence. The day to day people don't see what others see on here, think some would be a little shocked if they knew.

But it's hard enough being me without having to pretend to be something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you see is what you get with me"
took the words right out of my mouth exactly same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get, on our profile is who we are, like us or loathe us.

Just curious, does it work trying to be someone your not? How quickly do you get caught out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you see is what you get, on our profile is who we are, like us or loathe us.

Just curious, does it work trying to be someone your not? How quickly do you get caught out? "

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

I've got the birdy finger up in the air to the world and shouting, "this is me, deal with it or f*#* off"

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We are what we are, but she uses a 'swinger' first name which isn't her given one.

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