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"Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others." I’ll also add. I have many different faces I present to the world. It’s impossible to show them all at the same time. The more you know me, the more faces you see. | |||
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"This is me. I am reserved, wise and worn out " And covered in butter P | |||
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"This is me. I am reserved, wise and worn out And covered in butter P" That was confidential...... | |||
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"This is me. I am reserved, wise and worn out And covered in butter P That was confidential...... " Eeeeeeeek, G-Crumps does not, I repeat, DOES NOT bathe in utterly butterfly. Got your back G-Crumps. Peace. P | |||
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"This is me. I am reserved, wise and worn out And covered in butter P That was confidential...... Eeeeeeeek, G-Crumps does not, I repeat, DOES NOT bathe in utterly butterfly. Got your back G-Crumps. Peace. P" | |||
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"I'm several facets of myself but only one or two people get all of me. " This is probably closest to my serious answer too. | |||
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"I'm still me This is just my escape from reality " That’s the best way to put it | |||
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"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy? Or is what you see, what you get?" What about you OP? | |||
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"Why are people proud of being blunt and direct ?!" Because im proud of myself And dont give a toss if that upsets folk altho not my intent its also not my concern | |||
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"Why are people proud of being blunt and direct ?!" Not proud of it in the slightest. I wish I could force myself to say the right thing. It would make life a whole lot easier. | |||
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"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. " i see your tits | |||
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"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. i see your tits " Well they are right there no nips though | |||
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"I'm several facets of myself but only one or two people get all of me. " Yes, this. | |||
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"What you see is pretty much as I am. Obviously people I’m really close to will see the added extra version of me but this is who I am, what you see right here. i see your tits Well they are right there no nips though " | |||
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"" I am a catfish and nothing I say is true "" So, you're not a catfish? Or are you just wanting us to think that? | |||
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"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are". It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit.... The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug..... I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face " I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think. | |||
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"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are". It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit.... The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug..... I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think. " You Babs are obviously adorable, it shines through, honestly | |||
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"Text is such a limited form of communication, so however much you believe that you are being "yourself" then sadly you're only fooling yourselves if you think most ppl will see you "as you are". It's proven that text (aka verbal communication) only gives something like 20 percent of your full power of communication, most of your personality is contained within your non-verbal and para-verbal communication. That's why most ppl meet for a social before they agree to shag innit.... The last lady from fab I met was not expecting the full power of geek when she met me. In her mind she thought I'd be bald and a thug..... I wouldn't judge anyone from text appearances on fab, not without some one to one discussion, ideally face to face I take the point you’re making but I would say that the bit they do see is how I really am, in the sense that there is no falsehood or created persona. We can never be sure of others perceptions of us in any scenario in life. It’s clearly not all of me, it can’t be can it? But you don’t get ‘the full person’ until you have spent significant time with them I think. You Babs are obviously adorable, it shines through, honestly " Thank you that’s a lovely thing to say | |||
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"Eeeerrrrmmmm .... In real life I'm invisible - I'm a chubby 44yr old woman. I'm not deluded and do know that for most men on here any holes a goal - but at least I get to feel sexy for a short time " You're beautiful. But I can empathise with what you say. | |||
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"Nope what you see with me as laid back here as I am in a club or real life. Dont like pretenders theres no need just be yourself " I can attest to that - you are indeed one of the genuine ones | |||
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"Nope what you see with me as laid back here as I am in a club or real life. Dont like pretenders theres no need just be yourself I can attest to that - you are indeed one of the genuine ones " Thanks chick xx | |||
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"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy? Or is what you see, what you get?" Wasn't it Descartes who said; I am what I am?" | |||
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"Do you use fab to become someone different...just for a time....fantasy? Or is what you see, what you get? Wasn't it Descartes who said; I am what I am?"" Descartes was so inspired by Gloria Gaynor | |||
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"What you see is what you get, I'm more chatty in person as I don't have to worry about the spelling and grammar police. " Don't worry about them. If the worse they can do is complain about that, they're not worth your time. | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers " Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you | |||
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"I don't pretend to be something I'm not. I think I'm to honest for my own good sometimes. " Me too. Even maybe a bit brutally honest sometimes I suppose. Rather be that than a lying fake. You just have to realise that not everyone is the same as you. A good lesson to learn. | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you " I do like women called annabelke21 though | |||
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"Eeeerrrrmmmm .... In real life I'm invisible - I'm a chubby 44yr old woman. I'm not deluded and do know that for most men on here any holes a goal - but at least I get to feel sexy for a short time You're beautiful. But I can empathise with what you say." Aw thankyou that just made me smile xx | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though " I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 " Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! " lol..what's a consonant between friends | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends " So we are friends now? | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends So we are friends now? " unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends So we are friends now? unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check " While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends So we are friends now? unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits " I don't give to receive but.... | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends So we are friends now? unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits I don't give to receive but...." See how it is done kids | |||
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"I am totally different in real life. I don't fuck watermelons I don't like anuses but I do enjoy rectums I have trainers Aww..there goes all my fantasies about you I do like women called annabelke21 though I know someone who sounds similar..like _nabelle21 Ok ok I admit I fucked it up ! lol..what's a consonant between friends So we are friends now? unless you've unfriended me! Back in a mo I'm off to check While you are at it can you send a picture of your tits I don't give to receive but.... See how it is done kids " I'm ready for your close up Mr F&B | |||
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"I'm a fantasy in my own reality " so.etimes that's a good ace to be | |||
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"Im softer in real life" I need to give you a nice squeeze. | |||
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"Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others." "Just an outlet to be someone true to myself." As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own. It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet. Just my tuppence worth. | |||
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" "Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !" "lol..what's a consonant between friends" I think that nowadays you are obliged to obtain their consonant before entering someone's vowels. Seriously though, OP's question is a very good one and no surprise to see the volume of well thought out and honest responses to it, notably : Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others. "Just an outlet to be someone true to myself." As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own. It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet. Just my tuppence worth. " I hear and understand your tuppence worth. It's great that people can be true to themselves in a way that 'ordinary' life may not permit them to. | |||
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" Like anyone's gonna say... nah...I had you all. I'm just messing! This isn't me! I'm pretending!!! Love these threads. " | |||
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" "Ok ok I admit I fucked it up !" "lol..what's a consonant between friends" I think that nowadays you are obliged to obtain their consonant before entering someone's vowels. Seriously though, OP's question is a very good one and no surprise to see the volume of well thought out and honest responses to it, notably : Personality wise what you see here is me, albeit I’m more liberated in this environment than I am in others. "Just an outlet to be someone true to myself." As someone called Brian once said (in a film about his life) to his crowd of unwanted followers "we are all individuals". Fab, like the Internet, is many different things to each of us. It is a relative new phenomenon and one we haven't really figured out yet, so a certain amount of care is required. That can lead to people taking on or demonstrating a personality that is not 100% their own. It empowers some to seek out experiences they would never dream of risking in 'real life' - bringing them a step or 20 closer to their fantasies. To others it's a chance to show a side of themselves that they have, for many reasons, kept hidden. A side they themselves might have been unaware of and one that they cannot risk exposing to those closest to them for fear of damaging their relationship, so Fab is a welcome outlet. Just my tuppence worth. " No-one is the same in all situations. They will hide some aspects in different situations. | |||
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"What you see is what you get with me" took the words right out of my mouth exactly same here | |||
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"What you see is what you get, on our profile is who we are, like us or loathe us. Just curious, does it work trying to be someone your not? How quickly do you get caught out? " | |||
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