FabSwingers.com forum: Advocating bareback sexual activity

By *eoff2000 OP Man
over a year ago

Ferndown

Just read a couple's profile insisting they only meet with couples that indulge in bareback sex with others. How irresponible is that. What they wish to do privately is your own business, but for members to be allowed to openly make such a statement should be banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm what....

Should we ban everyone from speaking their mind or having an opinion that's different to ours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong think banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is their choice and the people who choose to meet them. They are open about their sexual preferences, they are not deceiving anybody.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Ban all people with bad thoughts or fun ....adults choices ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read a couple's profile insisting they only meet with couples that indulge in bareback sex with others. How irresponible is that. What they wish to do privately is your own business, but for members to be allowed to openly make such a statement should be banned. "

So you want them to hide their preference for bareback?

Would you rather be blindsided by the info when directly in front of you in person or have the knowledge and therefore informed choice to know now that they aren't the kind of people you want to meet?

I have zero idea what your problem is with them making their preference known. You don't have to engage in it, you don't have to speak to them.

I wouldn't engage bareback with anyone other than B, but I'm thankful those that do choose that way to play do it openly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So Nazi rules apply then. Freedom of opinion and speech not your thing? Don't like it, just block and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think folk who judge people’s profiles and what they get up to should be banned

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Everyone is entitled to make their own choices around how they play surely? Just because they don't fit with yours doesn't make them wrong necessarily - at least they're open and upfront about what they are looking for, giving anyone that doesn't play their way the chance to move past them rather than find out after a series of messages, or worse still on meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop liking things I don't like!..

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would rather people were open on their profile they only want bare back . Means I can give them a HUGE swerve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's better they be open about it so you know who to avoid.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Openesss, everything for me

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Everyone is entitled to make their own choices around how they play surely? Just because they don't fit with yours doesn't make them wrong necessarily - at least they're open and upfront about what they are looking for, giving anyone that doesn't play their way the chance to move past them rather than find out after a series of messages, or worse still on meeting.

Here, here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah let's ban people because they are open about their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, live and let live and the rest of the blah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here, here

That's what I kinda tried to say but messed it up fantastically

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why should Fab ban something that is not illegal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think its great that they are open about it because we know who to block.

If it's their preference then as adults they are entitled to do it. Its refreshing to see people being honest about their preferences so good on them

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

As it’s advocation Friday. I’d like to put forward a proposal to advocate running out in front of buses bending over and screaming fuck this ya cunt.

I reckon I’d have more chance of not catching something

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Here, here

That's what I kinda tried to say but messed it up fantastically

I get every word P...true that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have much more respect for open honest folk than the judgemental type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they are honest about it, not trying to waste your time? Gives you a simple choice not to engage, rather than find out days or weeks later. Always another angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop liking things I don't like!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im interested to know how OP thinks this would be policed.

How does anyone know who ' advocates' barebacking, and who doesnt?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sounds like Geoff got turned down by a couple looking for couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread hasn't gone well for Geoff.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Down with this sort of thing!!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

How other people choose to meet has no impact on me whatsoever, isn’t it a good thing that they display their preference, and let’s face it they aren’t the only ones who play that way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Sounds like Geoff got turned down by a couple looking for couples!

I am not sure why everyone does this, maybe he just has a view that is different than yours

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, what you describe is not against rules

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