FabSwingers.com forum: Negativity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do the majority of the people on the forums purposely go out of their way to make sly negative comments to me, it's getting boring now don't know why people thinks it's ok to personally troll me constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do they? If anyone breaks the rules they should get a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep report if there are persistent offenders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it's not specifically about you. Some folk are just awfy miserable, ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep report if there are persistent offenders

I meant to reply and quote to queen whatserfaces comment btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not all that sure but this aint me picking at you cos id say it to anyone ignore it

Or as my granny used to tell me to say sticks and stones will break bones so fuck with me il cave you in

aint grannys awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep report if there are persistent offenders

I meant to reply and quote to queen whatserfaces comment btw

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

The "majority" you say OP, can't say that I've noticed maself. As others have said, if you get abuse, just report and block. Most peole on here are lovely and just wanna eat cake in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report as mentioned above as if you block them they can still post on your threads though

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Why do the majority of the people on the forums purposely go out of their way to make sly negative comments to me, it's getting boring now don't know why people thinks it's ok to personally troll me constantly. "

S would it be better if everyone just ignored you and let you do your own thing not having any opinion on your comments?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not a grass unfortunately

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I've never been rude to anyone on here.

Report them and move on.

Some people have horrible days and take it out on other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people court attention regardless of the tone of said attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

S would it be better if everyone just ignored you and let you do your own thing not having any opinion on your comments?"

If only they gave their opinion, unfortunately they feel the need make fun of me personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people court attention regardless of the tone of said attention "

What's that supposed to mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focus on the ones you like or ppl who are nice or interesting. If you give trolls the oxygen they're looking for then you'll make yourself a target.

(Or, just be amazingly sharp and nail said trolls from 50 paces before they even get their wheels up....

)

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Honestly I've not noticed you on the forums, I'm not being negative here btw,I'm being honest.

To answer the question I have no idea.

People are friends on here and talk to each other via here, maybe you are just missing bits of their conversations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Focus on the ones you like or ppl who are nice or interesting. If you give trolls the oxygen they're looking for then you'll make yourself a target.

(Or, just be amazingly sharp and nail said trolls from 50 paces before they even get their wheels up....

)

Cheers mate that's usually what happens tbh just really annoying me ATM

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I feel the same.. I share your pain..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a grass unfortunately "
its not grassing its not like there gonna do hard time for selling drugs but if you feel ur being bullied you need to stand up for yourself either by confronting them or reporting thrm

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I'm not a grass unfortunately "

Mate, it’s not the mafia. If you’re encountering trolls, ignore/block and/or report. Hopefully your experience will improve as this place is full of splendid people to balance out any perceived bad eggs. Good luck! Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people court attention regardless of the tone of said attention

What's that supposed to mean ? "
dont be so defensive dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people court attention regardless of the tone of said attention

What's that supposed to mean ? dont be so defensive dude "

Just seems that comment means I'm asking for it in some way. My bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a grass unfortunately its not grassing its not like there gonna do hard time for selling drugs but if you feel ur being bullied you need to stand up for yourself either by confronting them or reporting thrm"

That's made me chuckle.

OP don't let it get to you man. Put an extra layer on. It might do you good it's getting cold outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment"

What do expect, you wanted attention and now you have it,or do you want it all to be a bed of roses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I reported 75% of the usual forumites would be gone

, funny how none are commenting now and the nice people are actually out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you honestly think the majority of the forums even know who you are? I’ve seen your previous threads and you do give as good as you get, sometimes provoking stuff. Nobody should be rude though, just report as others have said if you feel it warrants it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment

What do expect, you wanted attention and now you have it,or do you want it all to be a bed of roses"

Wow it's ok for me to get personally attacked because I post a thread ok cool

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" do you want it all to be a bed of roses"

Roses have thorns. A bed of pricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment

What do expect, you wanted attention and now you have it,or do you want it all to be a bed of roses"

Remind me what date you're leaving?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"If I reported 75% of the usual forumites would be gone

, funny how none are commenting now and the nice people are actually out "

That implies 75% of regular users are not nice, I am one of the regular posters!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If you put positive energy out, you get positive energy back. Likewise in reverse.

I'm not saying that it's necessarily you but you have been somewhat 'combative' in the past and on your threads.

Take a look at Saffrons thread and see what positive looks like, then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you put positive energy out, you get positive energy back. Likewise in reverse.

I'm not saying that it's necessarily you but you have been somewhat 'combative' in the past and on your threads.

Take a look at Saffrons thread and see what positive looks like, then go from there. "

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"If I reported 75% of the usual forumites would be gone

, funny how none are commenting now and the nice people are actually out "

There is s huge chunk of irony here as you are doing what you are complaining others are doing as in having a sly dig at other users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment

What do expect, you wanted attention and now you have it,or do you want it all to be a bed of roses

Remind me what date you're leaving?"

Why is that?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest op i had no idea who you where until you started your "fit" thread yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you put positive energy out, you get positive energy back. Likewise in reverse.

I'm not saying that it's necessarily you but you have been somewhat 'combative' in the past and on your threads.

Take a look at Saffrons thread and see what positive looks like, then go from there. "

You cant just tell the poor guy to conform to fit in and be popular! That's what makes the forum so sickening dull at times. Opinion and debate and learning is great as long as we're respectful of each other, and without it I'd never come here. And often I see the clique hanging up on new ppl like the OP because fuck knows what unimaginable terror would happen if you just let him in and took his views on board...... probs mass unlos or some nasty gory shit.....

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If you put positive energy out, you get positive energy back. Likewise in reverse.

I'm not saying that it's necessarily you but you have been somewhat 'combative' in the past and on your threads.

Take a look at Saffrons thread and see what positive looks like, then go from there.

I think that was your 'stuff' coming out there, not about the OP.

I stand by my comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you put positive energy out, you get positive energy back. Likewise in reverse.

I'm not saying that it's necessarily you but you have been somewhat 'combative' in the past and on your threads.

Take a look at Saffrons thread and see what positive looks like, then go from there.

I guess you haven’t been around to see the op’s threads before.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ooooooh stop whining and get on with it

Shock another negative comment

What do expect, you wanted attention and now you have it,or do you want it all to be a bed of roses

Wow it's ok for me to get personally attacked because I post a thread ok cool "

It isn't no, report and it will be looked at

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