FabSwingers.com forum: Visual stimulation

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Apologies if this seems a little garbled, I'm on my lunch break and posting on the fly...

I've recently posted a new set of pictures and I've found it interesting how genders fab the different styles of image. Obviously this isn't a new revelation, however I'd forgotten how stark the contrast can be.

I'm interested to know what kind of images you 'enjoy' and if it makes a difference to your interest level in a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love pics like yours,sexy hot,and leave something to the imagination

Fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For me creative, teasing, tasteful and sensual will always get my attention over blatant in your face - and I can appreciate a well taken pic regardless of my level of interest in someone, in fact a large number of my hotlisters are there purely because I like their pics.

That said my initial interest in talking to someone with a view to meeting can certainly be piqued by pics - although the real interest comes from finding a connection and chemistry and interaction.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

That's the toughie! I disposed of loads because I was 'posing', half were blurred and many just looked weird

Getting the goldilocks images was tough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good teasing lingerie shot usually works for me when it comes to the lady's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pics where the person has thought about it, that you can tell they know how to hold themselves or how to express themselves and have an idea of what they want to portray.

It's hard to define what catches my eye, one of my favourite pics of J is his neck because I get the urge to kiss it. I guess that's what makes a good photo, it makes you want to get involved. That teasing/tempting thing to me is more attractive than a close up of your genitals or the gangbang you had last weekend.

Rubi xx

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

That's the toughie! I disposed of loads because I was 'posing', half were blurred and many just looked weird

Getting the goldilocks images was tough! "

I take one then, I’ve had enough, don’t want to look at that mug any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Undressing. Like your profile picture.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Artistic and creative with a little left to the imagination.. very cheeky pics TM!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones with me and her in cuddling im not putting them on here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all sorts of different pictures but on the whole I prefer those that are more artistically posed, show more of the person rather than just focusing on one body part and i find that person attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often fab pics because of the photo rather than the subject, if that makes sense. Whether it be form, just-perfect lighting, composition, a beautiful angle, these are the things that catch my eye. Sometimes we both like a photo because of what it depicts, something we've previously enjoyed or would like to

Not sure how much it affects our actual interest in a person although a dreadful photo might influence us adversely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like arty photos, not too in your face and leave something to the imagination.

I also love a black and white photo!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like ones where you can imagine the person has enjoyed taking the photo; where you can see the fun/tongue in cheek side of it. I like the effortlessy effort sort as mentioned above. I like a good dick pic, I like the arse in the air and glimpse of vag ones.

I don't know if photos have that much of an effect on my interest in a person - it might pique it briefly but I place far more onus on words.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it. "

Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety.

Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Variety.

Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.

That's quite a list, especially for saying that most guys seem to go with 'naked'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Variety.

Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.

That's quite a list, especially for saying that most guys seem to go with 'naked' "

A bit of a scan in my head happened of things i enjoyed seeing here and those would be one word captions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.

On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.

I like stuff that shows personality and emotion

Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it.

Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural? "

Yes, exactly that.

A great example of this is PBs come ere finger.

Pics that make me feel as though I could just fall into the photo and fit right in.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Variety.

Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.

That's quite a list, especially for saying that most guys seem to go with 'naked'

A bit of a scan in my head happened of things i enjoyed seeing here and those would be one word captions.

I'm not criticising, I'm impressed and intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it.

Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural? "

Pretty much yeah. I can appreciate a good picture in it's own right but I'm not turned on by someone's photography skills. I just want to see their body showcased in a good way.

I have a friend who takes the most unbelievably erotic pictures that drive me crazy. He doesn't use b&w, props, unnatural poses. Just shows enough of what I like in a very sensual way. I'm always trying to introduce him to the forum, you guys would love him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not criticising, I'm impressed and intrigued. "

Lol. I'm not defensive, just taking time to explain my verbal diarrhoea;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh loving the new pics OP. Definitely into the more arty ones personally as they let my imagination take over. However I also believe variety is the key, something for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics that make me feel as though I could just fall into the photo and fit right in.

What she said ^^^

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Oh loving the new pics OP. Definitely into the more arty ones personally as they let my imagination take over. However I also believe variety is the key, something for everyone.

I was told that I needed more variety, I'm interested by the reactions to the results!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I won't be looking at your photos OP.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I won't be looking at your photos OP.

Good. Don't!

There are somethings you don't need to see.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....

Yes different levels of interest come from profile pictures. The more clothes you take off the more interest you normally get as a woman I've found. The quality of that interest definitely normally does down in messages received. But I'm not trying it to see.

Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Pictures that make you think ‘hmm they look interesting/sexy/intriguing’ without having to try too hard at the finished picture.

That could be a well thought out pose and definitely without having the phone in the middle of the frame.

Use the timer.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....

Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X

I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erotic art basically. Flying crotch shots are a bit naff.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....

Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X

I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image..."

To me yes. But we are all differant. Find your audience, find your type thought visual matching

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....

Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X

I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image...

To me yes. But we are all differant. Find your audience, find your type thought visual matching

That's a good point really. It's the most effort I've put into a set of photos since Christmas, I guess effort is key really.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Erotic art basically. Flying crotch shots are a bit naff."

That's very true

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Apologies if this seems a little garbled, I'm on my lunch break and posting on the fly...

I'm interested to know what kind of images you 'enjoy' and if it makes a difference to your interest level in a person? "

Mmmm my interest has been piqued

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Very nice OP, leaving enough to the imagination!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm fairly broad in my tastes, and fabbing pics depends on my motivation. Sometimes it's the equivalent of smiling at someone, showing appreciation. Other times I'd potentially like to explore mutual interest. I especially like a really unusual photo where I'm astounded - it's unlikely to be a cock pic. A certain expression, an impressive and visually great full body, a guys back or chest. I like a few cocks.

The winners are usually shots including the face. I'd give multiple fabs for these if I could.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Very nice OP, leaving enough to the imagination!

I saw your white shirt picture and it inspired me!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm fairly broad in my tastes, and fabbing pics depends on my motivation. Sometimes it's the equivalent of smiling at someone, showing appreciation. Other times I'd potentially like to explore mutual interest. I especially like a really unusual photo where I'm astounded - it's unlikely to be a cock pic. A certain expression, an impressive and visually great full body, a guys back or chest. I like a few cocks.

The winners are usually shots including the face. I'd give multiple fabs for these if I could.

That's a really interesting comment. I think that for many people (born out by the comments on this thread) it's a unique moment that's been caught that they like. A natural gesture or movement that shows something more than just the pose, it's not going to be false or affected. It's *that* which people look for or find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arty, erotic..often black n white..something that draws you by making you wonder as opposed to bang in your face

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like your new pictures op youve worked well on your physique. Personally i have zero interest in arty photos. Bodies dont really turn me on im a person who is more attracted to a mind. Give me a picture of a happy smiling face over all the other types of picture. However, i do know im in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw OP I hadn't checked out your pics before commenting, they're good! Especially the 4th and 5th

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