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"Is it someone I've just met? No that's a bit r*pey. Are we lovers and we both went out and got trollied and came home and fell into bed? Yep. But I'll make a point of doing the job properly in the morning cause d*unk sex rarely amounts to much... " | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" No I wouldn't. Always prefer a sober and willing partner or partners. | |||
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"No. I want to be 100% clear that they fully and willingly consent. " I swing stone cold sober, FYI. | |||
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"The problem for guys being really d*unk is what is known as brewers'droop. Not good for them or their partners. Henry I get that too tbh. I find it really hard to cum if I've had even a few drinks so it's in my own interests to just not bother. " Me too...thought i was a strange one. But i still enjoy the fun in trying | |||
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"No. But most women have to be pissed to wanna fuck me I suppose " | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. " I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference " Very much. I don't judge others drinking, unless I have to calculate if they still know what they're doing. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" Wouldn't that be like r##e or sexual assault in the person was so d*unk as not able to give CONSENT. | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. " I don’t drink at all so I know where you’re coming from. A slightly tiddly partner is fine but anything beyond that and I don’t even stay in that persons company, I find the d*unk to be obnoxious and frightening, swinging or not. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" Definitely not...the really d*unk look isn't sexy! | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. " we are the same, though no one has ever said that to us. | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference Very much. I don't judge others drinking, unless I have to calculate if they still know what they're doing. " A lot of the time they don't. | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. " They are just projecting their guilt into you. It's crazy the amount of people who 'need a drink' to be able to swing. Especially women. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ? Wouldn't that be like r##e or sexual assault in the person was so d*unk as not able to give CONSENT." This. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ? Wouldn't that be like r##e or sexual assault in the person was so d*unk as not able to give CONSENT. This." This is a very good point. | |||
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave. I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. They are just projecting their guilt into you. It's crazy the amount of people who 'need a drink' to be able to swing. Especially women. " I (Mrs) always drink if we travel to parties/socials. I don't drink to excess, maybe 2 glasses of wine if I'm in New territory with people I've not met before. Maybe another glass or two if with friends. At no point do I not know what I am doing, what anyone around me is doing and I am more than capable of saying no because if I don't do it sober then I don't do it squiffy. I have a drink because it relaxes me... Mr May have a Carling (liquid viagra too him lol) but that's it for him | |||
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"Depends on how well I know them. Some people, like my good self can handle our liquor. If I met my female counterpart, then yes, I would, provided she were giving off the same signs. Signs I can read from the time I've known her. It's a more inhibition-less and can be quite animalistic. If I dont know her all that well.. HELL NO!" Agreed, I wouldn't fuck someone who was hammered but I like going out and having a drink, I don't get falling over d*unk though. | |||
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"Nope...if they have no self control over their own bodies then they probably lack the faculties to take care of mine during sex." Have to agree with this | |||
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"Defo not. Consent must be given with a clear head. " Exactly | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" I couldn't have sex with a person who was really d*unk. I take consent very seriously. I don't do d*unken meets either. If I wanted a d*unken fumble I'd head to the nearest nightclub. | |||
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"Nope. I don't find d*unks attractive, and they can't give lawful consent anyway..." So true. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" No the consent line is blurred to much | |||
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"Could - Yes, Would - No, Turned down more than one lady in clubs before now. Out of respect for them & ourselves... S&H" Wish everyone was like this. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" No I would never do that. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ? No I would never do that." Good to know. Theres so many that would without even a second thought. | |||
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"God no I have seen people do it at clubs and it was really disturbing. " The men don't care. She's a sure thing. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" no.. unless it was an actual partner and even then unlikely | |||
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"God no I have seen people do it at clubs and it was really disturbing. " Same on a night out. | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?" nope sex and alcohol dont mix | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! " What did you do? | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! What did you do?" I stopped | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! What did you do? I stopped " Some wouldn't stop. | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! What did you do? I stopped Some wouldn't stop." Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless! | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! What did you do? I stopped Some wouldn't stop. Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless! " Sounds like my home life | |||
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep! What did you do? I stopped Some wouldn't stop. Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless! Sounds like my home life " I shouldn't laugh but | |||
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ? No I would never do that. Good to know. Theres so many that would without even a second thought." It is quite sad to see. | |||
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"I'm sure no one would admit it anyway." admit what? that they like d*unk sex lol for many men it would be pointless anyway brewers droop and for those that could get it up they'd smell like a brewery hardly condusive to up close and personal is it? | |||
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"Tipsy and merry is fine and dandy, but flat out, passing out pissed is a no from me. I like my partner to be Compos mentis and enjoying the activity (hell, even better if they put in a bit of effort to )" Could not have said it better so I'll piggyback your reply. | |||
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"When i was in my late teens and still living at home I went on a date and she got a little d*unk... She told me she was s virgin and wanted to lose it with me... At first it was good... But then she started getting 'too d*unk' so I tried to make up am excuse and said my parents would be waiting up for me... She went to go get another drink and came back to tell me she had called my parents and told them i wouldn't be home. She then threw up and I spent the night with her making sure she didn't ch*ke on her own vomit. I was shattered when I got home... Worst of all... She was shitty with me because I didn't fuck her and I never saw her again. " Sounds like she was lucky it was you as I imagine some would have taken advantage. | |||
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"Is it someone I've just met? No that's a bit r*pey. Are we lovers and we both went out and got trollied and came home and fell into bed? Yep. But I'll make a point of doing the job properly in the morning cause d*unk sex rarely amounts to much... " This | |||
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