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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

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By *tormy_TrooperWoman
over a year ago

crewe

If at a social it goes well then yes a kiss and agreed couldn’t have a meet where kissing isn’t allowed. You can tell a lot about someone from a passionate kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

"

For me I don’t care if another guy kisses C in a meet but I can understand that it might be too intimate for other couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If at a social it goes well then yes a kiss and agreed couldn’t have a meet where kissing isn’t allowed. You can tell a lot about someone from a passionate kiss "

I think without the kiss, the passion can be lacking. But that's just personal opinion, hence why I asked the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

For me I don’t care if another guy kisses C in a meet but I can understand that it might be too intimate for other couples.

"

See I understand the couple but as well, because a kiss can be seen as very personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, kissing is a must.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I do, but it gives me the heebie jeebies, cause I know where their mouths have been.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Yep..him, her, it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, but it gives me the heebie jeebies, cause I know where their mouths have been."

Perhaps choose your lover a bit more carefully then?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I do, but it gives me the heebie jeebies, cause I know where their mouths have been.

Perhaps choose your lover a bit more carefully then? "

I'll say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, kissing is a must."

I'd kiss that arse of yours.

What a peach lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, but it gives me the heebie jeebies, cause I know where their mouths have been."

Where has yours been?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

It is an absolute must for me, a nice hello kiss and hand holding is a fine icebreaker on a social as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing and lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet unless we do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Personally I adore kissing, it's the perfect starter, main course accompaniment and dessert to any meet and I can easily lose myself in just kissing with the right person - that said I appreciate that for some people kissing is not for them and if that is their preference then it's to be respected.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If we don't want to kiss somebody we won't be wanting to have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if its serloin

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No kissing would be a deal breaker for me.

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

I think kissing is so important!! Nothing more erotic than that for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential here. And if kiss doesn't feel right, not much chance for anything else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they use Listerine mouthwash

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

I love a kiss. I’m pretty good at it. But I’d say it’s 50:50 on couples in private meets that are into kissing. I think in clubs it’s probably more likely to kiss. I’m wondering if there is a correlation between intimate kissing and personal planned v club dynamic.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I do, but it gives me the heebie jeebies, cause I know where their mouths have been."

I think that’s a tad overboard!

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

And note there is no kiss emoji in fab ;0)

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"For me, kissing is a must."

Absolutely here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, kissing is a must.

Absolutely here too!"

Definitely! K loves to kiss and it turns me on to see her being so passionate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential here. And if kiss doesn't feel right, not much chance for anything else... "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam right i do....if a man cant or won't kiss then that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends I don't necessarily do anything on the first meet it all hinges on how we get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, although I have met couples and groups where I haven’t kissed them. I love a good snog though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No we don't. It's never been an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kiss on meets, although sometimes I regret it. Seems like a lot of men thinking "kissing" just means seeing how far they can shove their tongue down my throat

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

For me I don’t care if another guy kisses C in a meet but I can understand that it might be too intimate for other couples.

"

Its down to the couple or lady but I do love a good kiss during.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kissing is a must for me x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If I don’t want to snog them I’m definitely not doing anything else with them!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is essential it is the prelude to whatever follows. It helps set the mood and get the blood flowing and the heart racing. If there is no kissing it all becomes a bit clinical.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

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As you can see most people agree with you.

We make it clear on our profile so nobody who reads it needs to contact us. I don't think you need to "get it" just dont meet people like us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

If there is no kissing then there is no meet. I won't compromise on that ever

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Each to their own I suppose...

But for me...

I like to kiss if being intimate...it probably feels a bit uninvolved and robotic without it I suppose!!!

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes. Weird not to.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes definitely big part of playing

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh yes you can stick your cock in me but we can't kiss???

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton

There’s nothing as romantic as a quick kiss and finger blast on the first social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no kissing then there is no meet. I won't compromise on that ever "
100% agree ! In fact it’s on my profile x

No kissing no meet. No exceptions

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I kiss in the social if attraction there...& definitely on the meet during fun...not doing would be like fish without chips...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience it's usually couples who save that for their other halves which is very sweet.

I think it's foreplay though for me, love that release of oxytocin from kissing just heightens the whole experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with loads of these comments. Kissing just gets you in the mood. And I didn't mean on a first meet, just on a meet with someone you may have met before. I just think sex without kissing is like. Read without butter, metaphorically speaking.

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By *234 hot sairaTV/TS
over a year ago

west midland

Yeah my gob wide open

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely - it's the biggest turn-on!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

1000% i kiss

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Oh God kissing is everything

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Absolutely... no kiss, the senses don’t awaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't imagine not kissing, it's one of the best bits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a good kissing session....a great kisser says such alot about what's to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to kiss.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I guess first it depends on the nature of meet. If it's a social I wouldn't expect to be snogging straight away. But kissing is a huge deal to me. If someone didn't want to snog me why would I want to do anything more intimate with them? I love a good snog.

Granted sometimes I've ended up in the middle of a spontaneous orgy, that is a bit different because I sometimes I've played with ladies I've not always kissed on the lips or got to know well prior to that time and space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?"
I’d have to try to know for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?"

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone."

Usually the bj works as a perfect warm up. You'd be the first to complain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Usually the bj works as a perfect warm up. You'd be the first to complain "

Well, it's like......

No offence, but you might not be any good at it. And expecting that to do everything. It's like if a bloke didn't tease you or even try and arouse you and just went to try and put it in straight away with no tease, no build, no anticipation, no real lust.

Kind of like receiving a Christmas present unwrapped. It's no way near as fun as unwrapping it, with your teeth lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone."

Kissing is not the only form of warm up available

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Kissing is not the only form of warm up available "

I'm not saying that, but a kiss is a very important part in the process

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

On a social meet i will always kiss hello and goodbye. I did object however when one guy tried to pin me against the wall and snog the face off me in Glasgow central station during rush hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Usually the bj works as a perfect warm up. You'd be the first to complain

Well, it's like......

No offence, but you might not be any good at it. And expecting that to do everything. It's like if a bloke didn't tease you or even try and arouse you and just went to try and put it in straight away with no tease, no build, no anticipation, no real lust.

Kind of like receiving a Christmas present unwrapped. It's no way near as fun as unwrapping it, with your teeth lol."

We can't all be the same and like the same things, which is great.

From my perspective if I meet someone for play I'm aroused already and can't wait to rip his clothes off, taste him and for him to stick it in. If I'm not aroused by the thought alone of meeting someone - I simply won't meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is where the fun starts

I couldn't imagine not kissing. I am fussy with who I kiss, so if I kiss you it means I want a whole lot more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Usually the bj works as a perfect warm up. You'd be the first to complain

Well, it's like......

No offence, but you might not be any good at it. And expecting that to do everything. It's like if a bloke didn't tease you or even try and arouse you and just went to try and put it in straight away with no tease, no build, no anticipation, no real lust.

Kind of like receiving a Christmas present unwrapped. It's no way near as fun as unwrapping it, with your teeth lol.

We can't all be the same and like the same things, which is great.

From my perspective if I meet someone for play I'm aroused already and can't wait to rip his clothes off, taste him and for him to stick it in. If I'm not aroused by the thought alone of meeting someone - I simply won't meet him."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing is where the fun starts

I couldn't imagine not kissing. I am fussy with who I kiss, so if I kiss you it means I want a whole lot more "

Agreed

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to on a social, so we both know if we'll meet up again x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Kissing is not the only form of warm up available

I'm not saying that, but a kiss is a very important part in the process "

To you it obviously is which is fine. I know we're considered odd and have been called weird, cold, robotic etc by people who have never met us but we're on a swingers site where we thought at first that everyone's preferences were if not understood at least accepted without question. There's room for all of us, kissers and non kissers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Kissing is not the only form of warm up available

I'm not saying that, but a kiss is a very important part in the process

To you it obviously is which is fine. I know we're considered odd and have been called weird, cold, robotic etc by people who have never met us but we're on a swingers site where we thought at first that everyone's preferences were if not understood at least accepted without question. There's room for all of us, kissers and non kissers "

There is room for all

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I like to on a social, so we both know if we'll meet up again x"

Same!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I meet 1 on 1 I don't kiss. How many men would really complain if I went straight for bj and to action from there?

I would complain. Trying to stick it in with no warm up is no fun for anyone.

Kissing is not the only form of warm up available

I'm not saying that, but a kiss is a very important part in the process

To you it obviously is which is fine. I know we're considered odd and have been called weird, cold, robotic etc by people who have never met us but we're on a swingers site where we thought at first that everyone's preferences were if not understood at least accepted without question. There's room for all of us, kissers and non kissers

There is room for all "

I hope so but this is one of the most questioned preferences on the forum and people feel able to make implications about sex with non kissers that would cause outrage if made about any other preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I could play without kissing...but then I love to kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the chance. I do like to kiss..

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

If I like someone, we'll kiss. If not, we won't spend time together behind closed doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss can be the start of a good thing

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Apparently kissing makes girls wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Kissing is a must and a need

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By *hip67Man
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

My FB was on here with her previous partner as couple. We have openly discussed what they felt was acceptable and their boundaries and they would not kiss as it was too personal. My own view is that as a single it is part and parcel of the intamacy that goes with a meet but I understand that it may comprise some couples as well. She is moving back into the swinging world with me as a couple and it will be interesting to see where the boundaries are set this time.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"It depends I don't necessarily do anything on the first meet it all hinges on how we get along."

And also what car he drives. If it's a Merc or a BMW then no way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is part of the foreplay, the main event and the cuddles after. Kissing enables the flow of a sexual encounter, and more often than not continues it. Kissing stirs memories of moments and I feel all of these, in some degree, are needed in a meet. Or any sexual encounter to be fair. But that's just my opinion and would totally respect anyone choosing not to kiss... I would find it incredibly difficult however!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the be all and end all for me.

The kiss is where all the feelings come out

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Had 2 meets that didnt kiss ,not our choice theirs ,but ment it lacked something for me even hubby feels for me if there is no kissing ,you dont pick up someone in a bar and not start by kissing them ,why should this be any different?

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I have never kissed or met anyone on fab.... altho therebwas a 'hello' air kiss with blu at Robbies, Hull on Friday night... that is it.

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By *oliath AwaitsMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

If you both like each other why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Definitely enjoy a good kiss on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is needed! For me it’s the biggest turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is probably the most sexiest part of any foreplay. X

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Does the Pope shit in the woods?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Does the Pope shit in the woods? "
yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does the Pope shit in the woods? "

Are bears Catholic?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

There have been a few meets when the Couple has insisted No Kissing!

Each to their own, but it does seem to loose the intimacy of the meet. Still, I found ways around it to make it enjoyable!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I have. If it starts with a kiss and it’s a bit mewh it is probably a bad sign for the chemistry. Luckily that is a rarity!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

It's just knowing what each of us want from a meet, if you don't want to respect the others boundaries, then you can see it's not going to work.

Couples who indulge in singles meeting, may have their rules in place that you aren't privy to, that's for them to decide. It may not seem a big deal to some, but if that's their thing, who are any of us to not respect that. We each need to know our limitations, then enjoy the ride. If its not for you, then just don't go there.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

No kissing is a deal breaker for me - i personally dont see the point in meeting if theres no kissing involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must. The excitement you get from a good kiss is awesome. When you just get lost in each other, its the biggest single turn on for me

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet xxx

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong


"Kissing is probably the most sexiest part of any foreplay. X"

So true- I have to kiss, it's something that (when missing) really cuts my enjoyment of the whole thing.

I can understand why some couples won't though.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Mmmwwwwwahhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im aching to kiss my princess again so yes

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It seems normal to kiss, after all you are more than likely going to have the persons genitals in your mouth or tongue in them.

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

Kissing is one of the biggest parts of a meet. It's great when you find someone who matches your style of kissing but that topic could be a thread of its own.

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

It's always been a discussion point with us. We've never played alone, only as a couple so can't really comment on the single meet scenario. I (mr) find it a bit strange not to kiss. Mrs does it and enjoys it very much and I love to see her enjoying it whilst exploring the guy or lady with her hands and vice versa.

She isn't too keen on me doing it though. We're working on it..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking obviously after the social is done and then it comes to the play part?

Because I don't get how people can get into the play without a bit of kissing?

What are your thoughts?

"
omg kissing that involves exchanging bodily fluids

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong


"

omg kissing that involves exchanging bodily fluids "

And hence, has been made illegal.

(Anyone else seen Demolition Man?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

omg kissing that involves exchanging bodily fluids

And hence, has been made illegal.

(Anyone else seen Demolition Man?)"
arnold swartzenegar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as this is what I master best

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Kissing is a great part of sex, before, during and after. Why deny yourself pleasure? We kiss our playmates and love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing only met one woman that didn’t kiss on a meet and it was strange when we were in missionary and not kissing lol but I just respect whatever people’s rules are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is incredibly important...

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Can’t imagine a sexy meet without the absolute joy of that first kiss. So intense and sensual

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I can't imagine a play meet without kissing it just wouldn't work for me and at social meets if we get on we kiss at the end just to see if there is chemistry. I couldn't have sex without kissing.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

It's not that we don't want to, indeed we love it too, but can really understand why for some they don't.

Yes I know most here will focus on the oral sex aspect and how that seems more intimate than kissing, but there's a spiritual aspect that some will be wanting to keep for their partners, rather than the mechanical (in want of a better phrase) satisfaction that sex par se offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im into them and would like another meet

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By *toneMan
over a year ago

Colchester

You've got to love a little bit of kissing and cuddling, gets you in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont kiss its not great sex, its sex for the sake of sex, not for me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you dont kiss its not great sex, its sex for the sake of sex, not for me I'm afraid "

I had great sex without kissing and meh one with kissing. Kissing isn't everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you dont kiss its not great sex, its sex for the sake of sex, not for me I'm afraid

I had great sex without kissing and meh one with kissing. Kissing isn't everything."
lol oh no you didn't

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kissing is pretty standard dont know how people dont kiss what drives the gears in motion

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Most do, some don't, but I do like to kiss. All over.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Depends on the kind of kisses on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man I meet isn't a great kisser, we're not gonna have sex. Simple as that. Kissing usually happens at the end of a social. If he's lucky

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