FabSwingers.com forum: Why will no one meet me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here awhile now and had no look anybody got any advice?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Patience and post on the forums more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

No offence but looking at your profile all I see is a cock.

Is that the impression that you think appeals to people.

I’m not calling you a cock, just saying is that all I see is a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did have face photos for a year on here and still no look so I just gave the cocks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try writing a few paragraphs of description. Give people an idea of what kind of guy you are. What your interests are outside of the bedroom.

We need to stand out from the crowd on here as its about 10 blokes for every single woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bruddah - all I see is Dick.

No wonder you aren’t getting meets....

0 effort in your pictures & in reality - if that’s all a person can see when clicking on your profile. Then they’d go for someone with a better dick...

You’ve got to sell yourself. Not expect it.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

From a females perspective - you've been on over a year and have no verifications; and your public pics are all cock pics. If the ladies want to see your cock, they will ask for it. Try some body shots instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile tells me nothing about you, is bland, boring, and will get lost in the sea of thousands of other men’s profiles.

Stand out

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Also, there is not a lot on your profile. And the last line, asking someone to verify you comes across as a bit desperate imo

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

- crap pics

- desperate text

- too young

- can't accommodate

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Read Msgiveswood's profile

Lots of useful advice for beginners there ... but also may help those lacking in meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female POV II

Your profile is so forgettable. Dick pics- yawn, text- bigger yawn and instant reach for the delete button. Listen to the guys on here and put a bit more effort in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a start I see either someone who's a liar or lacks effort. Why?

Because in the tiny amount of writing on your profile it states "new to this" yet you've been on over a year.

One of those is not true and I don't think it's the time you've been on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here awhile now and had no look anybody got any advice?"

Based on your profile. Here is some advice.

Too many Dick pics. You’re much more than just a penis.

Your profile doesn’t have much information. Tell people something about yourself. The majority of people will want to get to know “you”. So something personal.

Write about what you can offer and what you you expect from a partner.

You are competing with hundreds of other guys, remember that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics need to go. Can't see you getting much attention with those

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

It's not just about your profile though, it's how you approach people on here, what your messaging is like. Get creative; single girls get bombarded with messages on a daily basis. Not everyone reads all of them so you have to make yourself stand out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had my account for over a year only just come back on to use it

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Had my account for over a year only just come back on to use it "

Now is a great time to update it then

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

People with dick pics are some of the most verified people on the site.

I put up my face, and people said they cant meet me because it means I am not discreet.

I hide my face, and people ask why am I hiding it, am I married?

I put up dick pic and people say I should put up more body shots.

I put up body shots and well, you guessed it...

People always have ways for me to get meets by changing my profile, but here I am 2 years without a meet.

I think I should get married, cheating men seem to do great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my account for over a year only just come back on to use it "

I'm not asking you for reasons or excuses, I'm telling you what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did have face photos for a year on here and still no look so I just gave the cocks ago "

It is quite weird irony but cock pics attract the attention of guys more than ladies.

As in other threads your profile is important and pics tell a story of who you are.

But ultimately people are here for many different reasons and are looking for many different things from the site. Having sex with some random guy is not high on the agenda.

Think about your profile and present yourself who you are give people a reason to be interested in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No written profile to speak of and asking for a verification is very rude. I got 4 in one week and didn't ask for a single one. My advice is go to a club social and just get chatting. 2 of my verifications are from social chat from two lovely couples. Be yourself and If you get chatting at a social I'm sure someone will verify you.good luck.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

You've changed your pics! Yay! Great start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- crap pics

- desperate text

- too young

- can't accommodate"

smooth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have I’m going to give things a try like u guys have said

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go to clubs, get verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have I’m going to give things a try like u guys have said "

I visited a club for the first time last week. Was nervous as hell as I'm not that good looking but ended up having a blast.chatted with some lovely people then later on I jumped in the jacuzzi and got to snog a gorgeous curvy young lady with a little bit of flirting and touching.Go with no expectations and if you get to play it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with dick pics are some of the most verified people on the site.

I put up my face, and people said they cant meet me because it means I am not discreet.

I hide my face, and people ask why am I hiding it, am I married?

I put up dick pic and people say I should put up more body shots.

I put up body shots and well, you guessed it...

People always have ways for me to get meets by changing my profile, but here I am 2 years without a meet.

I think I should get married, cheating men seem to do great."

This alone must have gotten you some attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with dick pics are some of the most verified people on the site.

I put up my face, and people said they cant meet me because it means I am not discreet.

I hide my face, and people ask why am I hiding it, am I married?

I put up dick pic and people say I should put up more body shots.

I put up body shots and well, you guessed it...

People always have ways for me to get meets by changing my profile, but here I am 2 years without a meet.

I think I should get married, cheating men seem to do great.

This alone must have gotten you some attention x"

I'm slightly confused because if he can't get meets with a body and profile like that we're all fucked..

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

As a single male with not much profile detail or verifications, you’re another little fish in the huge swinging ocean.

Personally, I think you’d be better off starting afresh. At least it’ll reset your date.

Take on board the comments when setting up a new profile and perhaps get to a swinging club, make yourself known and earn some verifications.

If you’ve got a few under your belt that demonstrate you’re genuine, sincere, respectful and have personality. Then this will complement your profile.

Once you’ve done this, as a single male, you’ll still be a little fish in the huge swinging ocean but competing with the next level of single men in your region.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thanks all I’ll give the things a try and see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the same problem, maybe my profile makes me sound like a boring old fart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do struggle also, I'm about to try a club and see where that gets me lol

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Quite simply ...

Your a single fella...

Like me be single ....the first question for the ladies is WHY ???

Most fabbers are polite , however couples treat single guys either with suspicion or worse pity.

Single females prefer to go with couples or clubs purely for the safety aspect,knowing guy is unlikely to be pushy.

It's awaiting game .... or just be patient.

Perhaps try a club or two ...or a social.You have to acknowledge the social side first.

Once you get a view feedbacks that you friendly and respectfull things may change.

Yes unable to accomodate is an issue... it suggests you may? be cheating ,you may wish to drop that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not cheating just live with a room mate and he isn’t in to all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simply ...

Your a single fella...

Like me be single ....the first question for the ladies is WHY ???

Most fabbers are polite , however couples treat single guys either with suspicion or worse pity.

Single females prefer to go with couples or clubs purely for the safety aspect,knowing guy is unlikely to be pushy.

It's awaiting game .... or just be patient.

Perhaps try a club or two ...or a social.You have to acknowledge the social side first.

Once you get a view feedbacks that you friendly and respectfull things may change.

Yes unable to accomodate is an issue... it suggests you may? be cheating ,you may wish to drop that."

Not all couples are suspicious, we know the play very well. There are those have viewpoints which they are entitled to. What ever the views are between the parties concerned. As for the cheating either or playing solo. Guys get a much tougher time than females it is just the way it is. I was married when I was playing solo but was upfront about it. Never once did anyone say sorry no your married. They couldn't wait to get into my pants married or not

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

You can always put more effort in but then if people are not interested there is little you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always put more effort in but then if people are not interested there is little you can do about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always put more effort in but then if people are not interested there is little you can do about it."

This is absolutely right if you are serious then you'll put the effort in. Be honest it may not have immediate effect you'd be very lucky to get it handed to you on a plate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always put more effort in but then if people are not interested there is little you can do about it.

This is absolutely right if you are serious then you'll put the effort in. Be honest it may not have immediate effect you'd be very lucky to get it handed to you on a plate .

This

honestly has helped me immensely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a loaded weapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a social. Great way to meet people.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"People with dick pics are some of the most verified people on the site.

I put up my face, and people said they cant meet me because it means I am not discreet.

I hide my face, and people ask why am I hiding it, am I married?

I put up dick pic and people say I should put up more body shots.

I put up body shots and well, you guessed it...

People always have ways for me to get meets by changing my profile, but here I am 2 years without a meet.

I think I should get married, cheating men seem to do great."

If you were closer I'd get a round in.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"If you were closer I'd get a round in."

Aww thank you x

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Be natural... think about what you want people to see in you, if a woman wants her mind captivated then use your profile to create a spark... if you want to just be objectified as a cock to use then make your profile suggest that... just think of the audience you want to have and think of how you can show that whilst being yourself.

Just note your success will depend on being honest with yourself, as you fall deeper into this lifestyle you’ll understand your needs are just as complex and to make the site what you want it to be requires you to apply your knowledge of yourself alongside the reasons why you are different from any of the many thousands of profiles here.

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