FabSwingers.com forum: Black. Women.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Their seems to be a distinct lack of 'black women' on (fab). They are very few and far between.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

I've come across a few & very nice to

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There is but that's a reflection of society as a whole. Well, not that there's a lack of but more proportional representation of different ethnicities are to be expected. Add in differing socio-cultural beliefs (stigmitisation etc) and it makes sense.

There are a few black women about. And to the shock of some, I'm not actually white. Sorry.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a black woman and what you say is common with a lot of messages I get from guys, who say there aren’t many black women on here!

I suppose like above, it is representative of society as a whole! Women are in the minority on here, black women even more so!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"There is but that's a reflection of society as a whole. Well, not that there's a lack of but more proportional representation of different ethnicities are to be expected. Add in differing socio-cultural beliefs (stigmitisation etc) and it makes sense.

There are a few black women about. And to the shock of some, I'm not actually white. Sorry.

You’re not white? You didn’t tell me that at the social

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

As the world of porn seems to have introduced an almost fanatical desire for BBC- maybe they should start concentrating on some HBF porn to redress the balance (Hot Black Fox)....hopefully it will filter down and let more lovely ladies of all ethnicities know they'll always receive a warm hand upon their entrance in the land of kinksville

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few black women about. And to the shock of some, I'm not actually white. Sorry.

That's a relief, i thought the contrast on my screen was playing up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Living where I do you very rarely see black women at all...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

probably an over-represntation of black men because of the BBC thing, they can have any size cock and be BBC, so it would make sense that a higher proportion of them might chance their luck.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Living where I do you very rarely see black women at all... "

Yeah, I have the same thing where I live aswell.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There are a few black women about. And to the shock of some, I'm not actually white. Sorry.

You’re not white? You didn’t tell me that at the social

Sorry Babs. Next time I'll wear a badge.

Being a bit serious, quite often I get the "I've never been with a *insert what ethnicity/heritage they think I have* person and then that fetishisation is a bit

. I get it if that's what you're into or someone plays up their "otherness" but otherwise... nah.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"Being a bit serious, quite often I get the "I've never been with a *insert what ethnicity/heritage they think I have* person and then that fetishisation is a bit

. I get it if that's what you're into or someone plays up their "otherness" but otherwise... nah."

I had the reverse of this about 5 years ago. I was dating a black woman who comes from a Caribbean background.

About 4 months into our relationship, she suddenly announced "I think you're only with me because you've got jungle fever". I had to ask her to explain, as I didn't have a clue what she was talking about.

She was a lovely woman and great fun to be with, but after this it all went downhill as she didn't believe I was with her for no other reason but wanting to be with her.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

She was a lovely woman and great fun to be with, but after this it all went downhill as she didn't believe I was with her for no other reason but wanting to be with her."

4 months is a long time to decide someone's only into you because race. Had there just been a Spike Lee season on Channel 4 or something?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few black women about. And to the shock of some, I'm not actually white. Sorry.

You’re not white? You didn’t tell me that at the social

Sorry Babs. Next time I'll wear a badge.

Being a bit serious, quite often I get the "I've never been with a *insert what ethnicity/heritage they think I have* person and then that fetishisation is a bit

. I get it if that's what you're into or someone plays up their "otherness" but otherwise... nah."

I agree.

It might be trivial but I don’t like messages such as “Lovely chocolate girl” or “I’ve never fucked a black woman” makes me roll my eyes a bit.

I know they likely mean well, but referring to my skin as “chocolate” just doesn’t do it for me lol.

It’s perfectly fine for people to be attracted to black women or have a preference, it’s when it comes across as a box ticking exercise that I find it weird.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind skin colour as long as she blows my penis till my rectum swallows the bed linen .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"4 months is a long time to decide someone's only into you because race. Had there just been a Spike Lee season on Channel 4 or something? "

Not a clue why she suddenly came out with that. I certainly never said or did anything that would make her think things like that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 months is a long time to decide someone's only into you because race. Had there just been a Spike Lee season on Channel 4 or something?

Not a clue why she suddenly came out with that. I certainly never said or did anything that would make her think things like that."

Sounds like she just wanted out of the relationship and couldn't realistically find an excuse with how you treated her and came up with a fictional one...or maybe you unwittingly often complemented her with reference to an attractive feature of her ethnicity. Whatever the reason, if one person is unhappy both will be, so I'd chalk it down to incompatibility .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't come across one since 1983..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"Their seems to be a distinct lack of 'black women' on (fab). They are very few and far between."

Given the make-up of the UK there are loads

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I think black ladies are beautiful. Their figure, most seem to take a lot of pride in their looks (as do white ladies) and the clothes they wear look gorgeous.

Many years ago I went out with a lady from Zimbabwe, she was so beautiful (and a nice lady to) I had to keep pinching myself to believe it was true.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My. Lady friend for a. long time on here was. black. I assume she still. Is.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My. Lady friend for a. long time on here was. black. I assume she still. Is. "

That’s. Funny my friend

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love black women, as I have been out with a couple in my time and find them stunningly attractive and very beautiful - wish I could meet a couple more on here!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bonybbwWoman
over a year ago

London

Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two hot meets with black ladies from here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males. "

Well, next time I am in London, if you're keen...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 1 on my Hot List, I have no chance in meeting but can always hope!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males. "

That does not give me hope of losing my club cherry!

I’ve also had abuse from what’s on my profile, most the black & Asian guys calling me a traitor or similar for my preference. Always wonderful to receive a barrage of abuse for my choice!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh I hate these type of threads. Open your eyes we are here!! I've been approached by quite a few on here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"probably an over-represntation of black men because of the BBC thing, they can have any size cock and be BBC, so it would make sense that a higher proportion of them might chance their luck."

Hahaha I'm an SBC!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males. "

Well after reading your profile I can say..... Yes he really does exists I’m

Here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there were more black ladies online

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males. "

I wish I could come across you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Their seems to be a distinct lack of 'black women' on (fab). They are very few and far between."

Gorgeous they are too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I’m just going to say it..

Does it really matter what colour anyone is?

Mutual attraction happens naturally

And it’s the person that counts not their colour..

I don’t care if your blonde, a Celt, Asian,

Indian, it makes no difference, you are you..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just going to say it..

Does it really matter what colour anyone is?

Mutual attraction happens naturally

And it’s the person that counts not their colour..

I don’t care if your blonde, a Celt, Asian,

Indian, it makes no difference, you are you..

Yes it does matter to some people.

It makes no difference to you, and that’s totally fine.

But it does to some, and that’s totally fine too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"probably an over-represntation of black men because of the BBC thing, they can have any size cock and be BBC, so it would make sense that a higher proportion of them might chance their luck.

Hahaha I'm an SBC!

You are too self-critical.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males.

That does not give me hope of losing my club cherry!

I’ve also had abuse from what’s on my profile, most the black & Asian guys calling me a traitor or similar for my preference. Always wonderful to receive a barrage of abuse for my choice!

How can you be a traitor of Asian men?

Although I am not surprised. They are usually the ones calling me a racist.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males.

That does not give me hope of losing my club cherry!

I’ve also had abuse from what’s on my profile, most the black & Asian guys calling me a traitor or similar for my preference. Always wonderful to receive a barrage of abuse for my choice!

How can you be a traitor of Asian men?

Although I am not surprised. They are usually the ones calling me a racist.

Exactly my thoughts! Some of the things that get said to me via message don’t even shock me anymore!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

This thread started sensibly and went down hill.

I will say upfront I really don't care what people's preferences are but I do get frustrated when white men's preference for black women and vice versa is used to have a go at black men and white women.

Just because there is a black man and white woman scene does not set up an entitlement to a black women, white men scene. If you want one, as a a few people good and brave souls have done, start your own parties, and get mixing. The fetish site I can't mention has its own groups for this mixing.

Secondly in terms of porn before this ridiculous "BBC" thing, In the porn if my youth it was primarily white men and black women, the balance has just been redressed as it has become acceptable to see black men and white women. Also currently there is a whole lot of porn with black women in it for those of us who love black women in all of their varied beauty.

Thirdly white women who only like black women get abuse by white men. The issue should be that no-one should be insulted or abused on Fab for their racial or (legal) sexual preferences.

In terms of numbers I doubt anyone has done a statistical review. Given that on Fab the number of women are far less then men (and I am happy to be shot down by a mathematician or statistician) the same should apply across the races. Therefore should not the important numbers be the ratios of white women on Fab compared to the number of white men. Then you compare the number of black men on Fab to black women. Then compare the two ratios. You could also compare the number of white men to the number of black men on Fab and compare the number of white women to the number of Black women. Without that kind of work the talk of numbers is guessing.

I remember when I used to go to Rios I got talking to a guy who travelled from Bristol to go to Rios or Chameleons Birmingham to meet black women. So get busy people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I would like to add to this... Two words: Curvy Club. Always plenty of women of all colours.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Seeing this thread has made my day all the better.

But for me, I have found it hard to come across decent white males who want to fuck me. Maybe its cause I'm bigger than they would like. Who knows. Or even darker. Again who knows.

Bottom line is. I have been to swinger clubs and never had ANY interest from white males. So I've left without having sex. It really left feeling unwanted.

I've even had abuse on here due to what's said on my profile. How childish really. We all have preferences.

Now you know from a black woman point of view. Who does have an interest in white males.

That does not give me hope of losing my club cherry!

I’ve also had abuse from what’s on my profile, most the black & Asian guys calling me a traitor or similar for my preference. Always wonderful to receive a barrage of abuse for my choice!

How can you be a traitor of Asian men?

Although I am not surprised. They are usually the ones calling me a racist.

Exactly my thoughts! Some of the things that get said to me via message don’t even shock me anymore!

Shock? I find them amusing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"probably an over-represntation of black men because of the BBC thing, they can have any size cock and be BBC, so it would make sense that a higher proportion of them might chance their luck.

Hahaha I'm an SBC!

You are too self-critical.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread