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Fab virgin...how long did it take to lose you fab V’s?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Regrettably, I’m still a fab virgin (sad face) though have only been what I’d call an “active member” for about two weeks.

My question is.... can you remember your first fab meet and how long was it after you’d become an “active” fab member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it another 5 years or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years must have been at least 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I can't remember exactly, a week or two I think. Not long anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of socials but about 18 months before anything else.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

About 6 months.. I was after something pretty specific.

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By *urvelover39Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Was about 18 months for me, wasn't really expecting it so was rather pleased

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Over a year because I chickened out and hid our profile.

Katie.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I've yet to meet anyone just yet ... But I'm sure it will happen before Christmas ha ha

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

3 weeks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Almost two weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our first profile it was 14 hours after joining. We met a guy on the strict understanding it was just going to be for a bj. We figured if either of us didn't enjoy the experience it was only a BJ. Mrs Cherry loved sucking his cock while I fucked her and 5/6 years and many profiles later we're still here and enjoying it more than ever

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though "

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha "

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to summarise the responses thus far.....

Ladies and couples range from a matter of hours to a few weeks.....

Single men could be waiting years!!

This does not give me confidence of breaking my fav virginity anytime soon ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A month or so, not too long but long enough for me

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

About a year before first social meet and nearly a year and a half before first play meet. Good things always come to those who wait

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! . "

Half of that in August was enough to send me into hiding for 10 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to summarise the responses thus far.....

Ladies and couples range from a matter of hours to a few weeks.....

Single men could be waiting years!!

This does not give me confidence of breaking my fav virginity anytime soon ladies! "

Go to a club, get a few verications and build up a network of frirnds and you'll be away

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Took me about a month or two I think. Spoke to the guy a lot prior to meeting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Within about 18 hours for a social. About a month for a full meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's tough here for guys, them's the breaks.

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"So to summarise the responses thus far.....

Ladies and couples range from a matter of hours to a few weeks.....

Single men could be waiting years!!

This does not give me confidence of breaking my fav virginity anytime soon ladies!

Go to a club, get a few verications and build up a network of frirnds and you'll be away "

Agreed. Verifications help. Also

- put a face photo on all your messages

- say something different and interesting in your opening messages

- dont just send a cock picture and say hey or wanna fuck. Fuck off with that shit!

- dont sound desperate and dont harrash people (seems obvious but for some reason it isnt)

You really need verifications and put effort into your messages and Im sure you'll get what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! . "

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming "

Yep! Then I discovered filters! And it went down to 1000 a day

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my single profile about 2 weeks

On this one a couple of months for a meet,but we attended a social so met people through that too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three and a half years and still virgo intacto..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regrettably, I’m still a fab virgin (sad face) though have only been what I’d call an “active member” for about two weeks.

My question is.... can you remember your first fab meet and how long was it after you’d become an “active” fab member? "

In my first tenure in Fab it was maybe two weeks after I joined. Got chatting to a couple of ladies who run a social where I live and went along. Just gotta mingle really and get out there. Don’t expect anything from a social, because that’s what it is - drink down the pub and get to know people then take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming

Yep! Then I discovered filters! And it went down to 1000 a day "

Lol I know that feeling and I know by the start of the message if it's going to be a idiot before I have read it lol.Avalanche of sausage and wana fuck messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming

Yep! Then I discovered filters! And it went down to 1000 a day

Lol I know that feeling and I know by the start of the message if it's going to be a idiot before I have read it lol.Avalanche of sausage and wana fuck messages lol "

Oh yes you can tell by the first line!

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Think it was about 3 months from joining first time around until I met anyone off fab and that was just a social drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On our first profile it was 14 hours after joining. We met a guy on the strict understanding it was just going to be for a bj. We figured if either of us didn't enjoy the experience it was only a BJ. Mrs Cherry loved sucking his cock while I fucked her and 5/6 years and many profiles later we're still here and enjoying it more than ever "

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time i joined ...

Cam room veris about an hour

Club visit 1 week

Organised social and meeting a couple 2 weeks

I kinda threw myself in head first back then ... now when i return i like to tread water for a bit first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me 2 years and yes I still remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was within a week but since then always organised unless it’s late at night and get good vibes from either couples or females after 11pm. I meet for socials first normally with no expectations or pressure either way. Normally get on well unless someone doesn’t like beards or hairy men lol . I have learned to get that out of the way in conversation on here. I don’t mostly put up verifications unless the other person wants me to or has sent me one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can remember my first solo meet like it was yesterday haha. Lovely lady that my ex and i were friends with not even sure if she is still on here or not as we lost contact. I think it was a couple of years after joining up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve no idea...... I’ve done so much in 7 months.

I’d recommend a club to start you off

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Sorry to depress you but probably a couple of years. If I was going to start again I would be more active in the forums from the start, and listen to the advice on profiles/ messages.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a couple of years ago and I was on for around a month before we met.

I do feel bad for guys, I wouldn't stick around that long if it was that hard to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming

Yep! Then I discovered filters! And it went down to 1000 a day

Lol I know that feeling and I know by the start of the message if it's going to be a idiot before I have read it lol.Avalanche of sausage and wana fuck messages lol

Oh yes you can tell by the first line!"

So what you're saying is don't bother writing more than one line, the rest is wasted?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks or so.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

7 months for me when I first joined.

Ladies and couples get inundated as soon as they join, guys in general need to figure out what works for them.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month. I had tons of socials but no one took my eye.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We lost our fab and virginity before we even a profile was with a couple and they said we should be on here so the next day we were here with a verification..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of weeks, but it depends what you're looking for I guess and how lucky you are in finding it......

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We lost our fab and virginity before we even a profile was with a couple and they said we should be on here so the next day we were here with a verification.. "

Same for me. I went to a club, joined fab on my way home and had 4 verifications when I joined x

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By *icebuttnaughty4uMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A year, my avg luck for meets ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A month or so

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My first meet was about 9 months after I I joined, nearly 14 years ago now, the couple that I met lived about 2 miles from me, but went unlos about 6 months later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could if lost it within seconds of joining as it was instant wana fuck messages lol

It took a month to find the right person though

Haha I remember that, profile pic not even loaded and bam message overload....I disappeared for a couple of days haha

I remember I had 1743 messages in one day! .

It's like opening a door and 357743566 sausage are thrown at you lol.i was on for leaving within minutes of joining as it was a bit overwhelming

Yep! Then I discovered filters! And it went down to 1000 a day

Lol I know that feeling and I know by the start of the message if it's going to be a idiot before I have read it lol.Avalanche of sausage and wana fuck messages lol

Oh yes you can tell by the first line!

So what you're saying is don't bother writing more than one line, the rest is wasted?..."

No of the message starts with something interesting then write it but if I go to my inbox and see it starts with fancy a f or how are you then you know it's going to be boring or seedy before you even open it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks i think

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

For socials it was about 2 months , as for a meet it was some time after, as it took a while for them to find me.

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

About a month of chatting before social then another 10 days before fun meet with same person (and still the only fun ive had) . About 6 weeks before my first club visit which was all social and met some lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined 7 years ago. Had my first fab social about 2 weeks after. No spark, no chemistry, no sex.

Met another fabber few weeks after that for another social and he ended up staying over

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