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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

How do you write your verifications? Are there things you try to say or not say? Do you write bad ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wrote a bad one before I wanted to make the person see how he made me feel the way he treated me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always say ‘met, shagged, left’ on all of mine. Even the socials.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have wrote a bad one before I wanted to make the person see how he made me feel the way he treated me "

That's (in a not patronising way) awful he was so crap to you.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I try and make mine a little funny.. I’m a bit of a weird one sometimes so I’ve generally got a little story with each social meet.. I like things that are personal to that person that remind them how sarcastic I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have wrote a bad one before I wanted to make the person see how he made me feel the way he treated me

That's (in a not patronising way) awful he was so crap to you."

I knew he wouldn't show it but it made me feel a hell of a lot better writing it. I look back now and realise I was partly to blame I should have walked away as soon as I was made to feel that way but I stupidly stayed for the full weekend. You live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we met in a club, got on but didnt find them attractive to us we would avoid using the word sexy, and would replace it with the better points of their personality traits such as fun, charismatic, humble, respectful etc etc.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I write the positives about how I feel about that particular person in that moment in time. If it's someone I know understands my sarky sense of humour/teasing then I'll write a veri that reflects how I talk to them. They are my favourite to write and receive and read.

I do try and tailor my veri as well so it's a bit more in tone with their profile, with their veris etc.

If I don't have anything particular to say, I avoid writing a veri. I feel a bit meh about the "Oh, I met Meli briefly" ones so avoid writing those.

I guess some don't want to veri me because of the shame of knowing me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't leave a bad one. But lucky I suppose not to have had a meet that would merit a negative veri.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Always try to leave veris about the person. I hate reading veris where people go into detail about the sexual side if things. It's like they are reviewing a porn scene.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"How do you write your verifications? Are there things you try to say or not say? Do you write bad ones? "

I keep my veris honest, not graphic and normally funny

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine, I try to cover if I felt comfortable with them and consider them trustworthy, because that's what I look for myself. I'll hint at sexual stuff but not say it outright.

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I don't verify bad meets.

I don't describe what happens, it's really awful thing to read.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've gone through different stages. I try to keep them witty, relevant and genuine. Non explicit and honest, if it's a social I say that so there's no confusion.

I did go through a period of writing funny, bad veris; that made me laugh.

Now though I rarely write them, far too many people follow, track and micro dissect them, whilst others hoard them like trophies.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

My veris cover what I like about the person, no sexual details, but a fun element of what only we know, serves as a memory

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been fortunate to have never had a bad meet. In the event of having one, I just wouldn't bother writing anything.

As to the ones I write, I try to bring out the qualities I appreciate in the person and may give a hint of their sexual prowess but never go into specifics. That last bit is fir me to know and others to discover

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I try to make them personal, and fitting to the person and the situation. I like to include at least one mention of something specific about the meet (but not anything graphic, usually a private joke) as it serves as a little reminder that will hopefully bring a smile to their face.

I very rarely display any of mine, but I do like to read through them...some of them bring and instant smile to my face

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier


"Mine, I try to cover if I felt comfortable with them and consider them trustworthy, because that's what I look for myself. I'll hint at sexual stuff but not say it outright. "

Indeed the best way. Polite, praising the good points and anything that goes on about the fun part is not crude or graphic.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

He came,he saw , he fucked me like a whore !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always try to leave veris about the person. I hate reading veris where people go into detail about the sexual side if things. It's like they are reviewing a porn scene. "

It’s a bit cringe worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine a bit vague.

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