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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who will be alone this year?

X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet."

You've got children though right?

That's lovely if you have - that's what it's about.

I have just found out that my only family left wont be hosting this year.

So I'll be alone.

Its OK I'm just shocked and upset that they have decided this in September!

Fuck it - I'll make my own fun

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Who will be alone this year?

X"

Don’t fret it. I’ve spent more christmases alone than in company and it really is what you make of it. If you sit there wallowing in self pity you’ll have a shit time but if you’re determined that it’ll be a laugh that’s what it will be, just depends what sort of person you are. You usually come across as a positive person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet.

You've got children though right?

That's lovely if you have - that's what it's about.

I have just found out that my only family left wont be hosting this year.

So I'll be alone.

Its OK I'm just shocked and upset that they have decided this in September!

Fuck it - I'll make my own fun"

Have they said why they won't be hosting? You could go away and have a fun holiday. Or host them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go abroad for Christmas. Amazing. Lying in the sun, not a piece of tinsel in sight. Bliss

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who will be alone this year?

X

Don’t fret it. I’ve spent more christmases alone than in company and it really is what you make of it. If you sit there wallowing in self pity you’ll have a shit time but if you’re determined that it’ll be a laugh that’s what it will be, just depends what sort of person you are. You usually come across as a positive person. "

Its OK I'm used to being alone - I'm not going to wallow - I'll spend the day at work with elderly people that are also alone.

At least I'll get paid.

Double time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go abroad for Christmas. Amazing. Lying in the sun, not a piece of tinsel in sight. Bliss "

I spent 20yrs abroad at Xmas - that's probably why I'm alone now x

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'll be alone this Xmas. My kids will be with their dad for a full week over the festivities and my parents have booked themselves on a cruise.

No idea what I'm doing - I can't afford to go on holiday.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I haven't really thought about it, but will probably just be me and my pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who will be alone this year?

X"

I will be, again. Hard the first time but only because everything is geared towards big family things, sometimes forgotten not everyone has that but hey, its not actually that bad ....eat when/what you want, please yourself...go out/stay in. I've helped out at homeless shelters etc much more rewarding than I ever dreamt could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go abroad for Christmas. Amazing. Lying in the sun, not a piece of tinsel in sight. Bliss

I spent 20yrs abroad at Xmas - that's probably why I'm alone now x"

You lived or worked abroad ?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Who will be alone this year?

X

Don’t fret it. I’ve spent more christmases alone than in company and it really is what you make of it. If you sit there wallowing in self pity you’ll have a shit time but if you’re determined that it’ll be a laugh that’s what it will be, just depends what sort of person you are. You usually come across as a positive person.

Its OK I'm used to being alone - I'm not going to wallow - I'll spend the day at work with elderly people that are also alone.

At least I'll get paid.

Double time "

Everyone’s a winner then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't really thought about it, but will probably just be me and my pooch"

I'm sure pooch will be much better company than most humans x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not *alone* but I think for the first time since I was born we won’t be having Christmas at my Granny and Grandads house. It’s always been the routine, my mum, dad, two sisters and brother go up, me and C go and so does my auntie, uncle and two cousins.

But my Granny hasn’t been well for a few years now and she enjoys hosting less and less. She’s also stubborn and won’t let us help out as much as we’d like to.

So I’m a bit lost.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Who will be alone this year?

X

I will be, again. Hard the first time but only because everything is geared towards big family things, sometimes forgotten not everyone has that but hey, its not actually that bad ....eat when/what you want, please yourself...go out/stay in. I've helped out at homeless shelters etc much more rewarding than I ever dreamt could be "

A few people I know volunteer on christmas day and really enjoy it. My eldest has done it as he hasn't enjoyed christmas since my dad passed away a few years ago so now he goes hill climbing or does voluntary work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go abroad for Christmas. Amazing. Lying in the sun, not a piece of tinsel in sight. Bliss

I spent 20yrs abroad at Xmas - that's probably why I'm alone now x

You lived or worked abroad ?"

I used to travel 6 months plus a year.

Always away for winter.

It's a long story but Im back now - most of my immediate family have passed.

It's just me and a distant sister and her family.

No friends left here either.

Its OK - I'm used to being alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not *alone* but I think for the first time since I was born we won’t be having Christmas at my Granny and Grandads house. It’s always been the routine, my mum, dad, two sisters and brother go up, me and C go and so does my auntie, uncle and two cousins.

But my Granny hasn’t been well for a few years now and she enjoys hosting less and less. She’s also stubborn and won’t let us help out as much as we’d like to.

So I’m a bit lost. "

Your own first Christmas. New traditions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not *alone* but I think for the first time since I was born we won’t be having Christmas at my Granny and Grandads house. It’s always been the routine, my mum, dad, two sisters and brother go up, me and C go and so does my auntie, uncle and two cousins.

But my Granny hasn’t been well for a few years now and she enjoys hosting less and less. She’s also stubborn and won’t let us help out as much as we’d like to.

So I’m a bit lost.

Your own first Christmas. New traditions. "

I’m trying to think of it like that - but I’m still sad. If I’m not up at my Granny’s then I think it’ll just be me, C and O. I wouldn’t want to do anything else. C’s parents always invite us but C doesn’t really enjoy Christmas so doesn’t want to spend the whole day with them, and neither would I.

Meh! First world problems

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"I haven't really thought about it, but will probably just be me and my pooch

I'm sure pooch will be much better company than most humans x"

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm volunteering at a shelter this year, figured it would give me some perspective of being alone. Spent the last 5 xmases on my own, actually looking forward to this year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet.

You've got children though right?

That's lovely if you have - that's what it's about.

I have just found out that my only family left wont be hosting this year.

So I'll be alone.

Its OK I'm just shocked and upset that they have decided this in September!

Fuck it - I'll make my own fun"

Go to a club tyey are usually packed especially NYE..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to say it, I hate to say it, but it's probably me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet.

You've got children though right?

That's lovely if you have - that's what it's about.

I have just found out that my only family left wont be hosting this year.

So I'll be alone.

Its OK I'm just shocked and upset that they have decided this in September!

Fuck it - I'll make my own fun"

I do but she has a part-time waitressing job and may be working xmas day like last year. She's a teenager so isn't around a great deal,I do have other family mind so don't need to be alone.

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Me. But that’s the norm now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't have a special someone so I may be,I don't know yet.

You've got children though right?

That's lovely if you have - that's what it's about.

I have just found out that my only family left wont be hosting this year.

So I'll be alone.

Its OK I'm just shocked and upset that they have decided this in September!

Fuck it - I'll make my own fun"

I understand. Iv spent a few Christmas's alone. The last few years iv been with friends but this is going to be very different and I'm very excited!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll more than likely be working xmas day, but yes, I'll be alone before and after work.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who will be alone this year?

X"

Me again I bet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks like a lonely one for me this year. Again

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Who will be alone this year?

X"

Just me and the cats.

They'd better have gotten me a decent present this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who will be alone this year?

X"
me but im going somewhere hot

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yep... 5th year and really getting to like it now.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I have the 'choice' of being alone or going to ex MIL's house (300 miles away) for a few days with ex and the kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children will be with their dad. I'll be volunteering with about 25 others.. it's a hoot!

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By *punky-oneMan
over a year ago

London

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might be this year and I am looking forward to it. I might help at my church with the lunch they lay on for local people who are on their own. I normally just help with the prep on Christmas Eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My children will be with their dad. I'll be volunteering with about 25 others.. it's a hoot!"

I'm thinking about doing that too. It's my first year without anywhere particular to go or people coming!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me. But that’s the norm now. "

Yep same for me.

I'm always alone - but for some reason this news has really upset me.

It's just another day - I miss my mum

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I was in Aldi today and saw chocolate Santas for sale

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"I was in Aldi today and saw chocolate Santas for sale

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I'm already eating Stollen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My children will be with their dad. I'll be volunteering with about 25 others.. it's a hoot!

I'm thinking about doing that too. It's my first year without anywhere particular to go or people coming! "

Oh you should! I've done it for the last 4 years, with my children for two of them. It's changed Christmas completely for all of us; we love it. We fed 200 people last year.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We aren’t sure what we are doing yet but the idea of a Xmas without the drama of family, and the noise and expense sounds lovely!

Maybe all those Fabsters who are alone should organise a Xmas fab get together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas can be a horrid time, being forced to travel around seeing relatives, eating and drinking just for the sake of it and small talk about careers and wealth with family "friends". I always try to make sure it's just my little girl and I on Christmas day though - it's our day and I'll be fucked if I'm gonna sit around playing scrabble with the outlaws.....

(I know its Jesus's day.... )

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'll probably be working Christmas day so will have lots of company.

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON


"It’s not *alone* but I think for the first time since I was born we won’t be having Christmas at my Granny and Grandads house. It’s always been the routine, my mum, dad, two sisters and brother go up, me and C go and so does my auntie, uncle and two cousins.

But my Granny hasn’t been well for a few years now and she enjoys hosting less and less. She’s also stubborn and won’t let us help out as much as we’d like to.

So I’m a bit lost. "

We are a bit like that as well. His Mum has a new partner and won't be hosting. As she has done for last 23 years we have been married. So feels a bit strange.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Only 83 days to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be working Christmas Eve and Christmas day x

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