FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone just chat anymore?

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I like a good chat.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

That 1 in 20+ thousand that does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 1 in 20+ thousand that does"

Only about interesting stuff though. I'm not an inane chatter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?"

According to my inbox, the answer is no...

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'm happy to chat with most

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

Yep, got to be a decent conversation to keep me interested

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I like chatting. I can talk for England

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

We have chatted OP

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I like to chat as I'm a lone worker I spend my day talking to myself . Oh maybe I shouldn't say that you may think I'm mad

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes when I’m around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love nattering and being social, as a tv free household we talk pretty much about anything and everything ... am finding it a lost art tbh

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

Always up for a chat.. but not sport or politics

Mundane and boring a specialty..

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"We have chatted OP

I remember, how could I forget

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Very happy to chat.....try me !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat all the time haha but I don’t like chatting about what I’m wearing or constant sex chat, a balanced pile of chat

- Mrs

PS. I’m wearing joggers and a hoody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?"

I like to chat

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

"I love nattering and being social, as a tv free household we talk pretty much about anything and everything ... am finding it a lost art tbh "

I like the bib and brace pic Amy xx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

TV free household: can't be many of them around...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not via a messaging system ........ NO.

Try that chat rooms.

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

I’m not really boring and mundane ... lol

I’ll just go and check my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love nattering and being social, as a tv free household we talk pretty much about anything and everything ... am finding it a lost art tbh

I like the bib and brace pic Amy xx"

Thanks

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I love having a good chat with someone - I always get this daft smile on my face when a few message me. If I'm not really interested though the conversation draaaags and my replies are banal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TV free household: can't be many of them around..."

More than you think tbh

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Im a chatter too... On here and in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do try to chat to people but i mostly get ignored or deleted.

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick

Yes do like to chat but not many of us left out there

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"TV free household: can't be many of them around...

More than you think tbh "

Thought everyone had a TV....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah im up for a chat but alone its kinda hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good chat and a laugh. Always fascinating to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TV free household: can't be many of them around...

More than you think tbh

Thought everyone had a TV....??"

Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a natter, the usual day to day stuff like hows your day going, blah blah blah. I enjoy these conversations, can spend hours talking about nothing in particular with the right person

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"TV free household: can't be many of them around...

More than you think tbh

Thought everyone had a TV....??

Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day

I have one but do not watch it so much....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"TV free household: can't be many of them around...

More than you think tbh

Thought everyone had a TV....??

Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day

I have one but do not watch it so much...."

So not a TV free household?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I Do try but as for being a man on here. Responses are few and far between

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"TV free household: can't be many of them around...

More than you think tbh

Thought everyone had a TV....??

Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day

I have one but do not watch it so much....

So not a TV free household?"

Use radio much more.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a natter, the usual day to day stuff like hows your day going, blah blah blah. I enjoy these conversations, can spend hours talking about nothing in particular with the right person

I love doing that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nah, depends who it is and if they can keep me interested and on occasion show me photos of their naked body.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think the replies have debunked your theory OP...

Oh! I see what you did there, sneaky little reverse psychology there! Virtue signalling at its best!

I love a good chat too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We like to chat but 99.9999recurring % of the people who contact us to "just chat" really want more so we're very wary of just chatting.

There is one exception and we have really nice conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean just chat or sex chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work alone and in the wilds so see no one so enjoy a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have lots of random chats on here with people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of chats on the go. Mainly with people I think I'd meet. Some are just platonic, but we get on and can have a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many have declined the offer of a good decent chat with me so I would say. It's a dying practice 1-2-1 chatting and talking on the phone.

Someone will prove me wrong one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xoxox xoxox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chatting, banter and interesting conversations....of you can chat here then you know that a social isn't going to have long awkward silences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do! Male half.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I am quite lonely so would welcome a chat any time. No strings, just company....!!

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me"

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

Very random

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

Very random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am quite lonely so would welcome a chat any time. No strings, just company....!!"

Any local groups or hobbies you could look up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

Very random

Let me think of the last one.....

Oh yeah.... custard

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

Very random

Let me think of the last one.....

Oh yeah.... custard

Should hear the safety brief I have given this group haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me

Same.

Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?

And my conversations can be very random

Very random

Let me think of the last one.....

Oh yeah.... custard

Should hear the safety brief I have given this group haha

What group ?

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

In the escape room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind just chat

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick

Yeh lm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?"

Says exactly that on my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit, I'm not into too much chat from here. I suppose it would be different were I single with no family or friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i chat too much as is

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone. "

It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chat? I only chat....

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Depending on the topics, I enjoy a decent chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U cannot have my penis

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By *entleRMan
over a year ago

Telford

Always love a good chat, always reply to messages and try and engage with people even if a meet is not on the cards.

I understand some of the gems and couples get hundreds if replies though so that's not always possible

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I chat more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?"

Ill chat but there has to be tea and cake involved.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet. "

Oh indeed. But two messages of one word answers when I've sent a decent thought out reply and I'm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet. "

If I feel like I'm doing all the work I think any short answers are just to be polite, and I'm actually now just pestering, so I leave them alone for a while. Fab life, eh?

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick

Up for a chat go on don't be shy pm me l dare you

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Filthy chat is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall I put the get on ? Who takes what? Might even open a tin of Family Circle biscuits lol

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