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What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Just wondering as it’s been about 9 months for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Three years

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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Fuck.. you must have been more than ready.. lol

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

A couple of years..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About 7 years then I joined fab

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

4 years! Right arm like popeye

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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

I feel like I’m ready to explode after 9 months.. lol

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter


"4 years! Right arm like popeye "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

In the past 2 years ,when I was single.

Miss

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

4 years. Twice.

Not sure I will ever go that long again though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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3 weeks - I set myself a daft challenge.

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

currently 2 years.. until my divorce come through, then hopefully things will pick up!!

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By *ustonefwbMan
over a year ago

Stanley

3 years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 6 months about 4 year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months and counting. 9 years at one point, personal choice for about half of it, then couldn't get laid to save my life lol. Hope history doesn't repeat itself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is."

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

7 years

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Full sex about 5 years. Just the occasional heavy petting since then.

Just about forgotten what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months after my eldest was born - botched episiotomy repair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 16 years recently 8.5 years absolute celibacy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First 16 years recently 8.5 years absolute celibacy too "

Awesome name haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering as it’s been about 9 months for me"

10 months due to hmp nosex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First 16 years recently 8.5 years absolute celibacy too

Awesome name haha"

Thanks

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

6 years and counting.

Although living with the ex doesn't help. Makes it difficult to meet anyone.

We're still good friends, and neither of ua wants to sell the house.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe "

I'm pretty shy as well, so that doesn't help me out much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months an counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over three years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, whats the time now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe

I'm pretty shy as well, so that doesn't help me out much!"

Same, but pushing myself to go for things more. I'm always respectful to the other person though, these things take time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have sex with a man for 9 months but I used my toys so not quite getting any cobwebs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The longest was more time than the shortest that's for sure.

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By *as_no_ideaCouple
over a year ago

......

14 years

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe

I'm pretty shy as well, so that doesn't help me out much!

Same, but pushing myself to go for things more. I'm always respectful to the other person though, these things take time "

I'm trying too. Hence why I'm here. Just gotta actually, you know, start leaving the house now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what the longest period was maybe 4 years or so. But for 19 years I averaged sexual contact once every 471 days. It’s now about once every few months, so that’s a dramatic improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Went 3 years without sex in the 90s. Hopefully never be that long again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3yrs 4months.

Not even a good old fashioned snog or any other form of physical contact. Didn't bother me for a while, but not liking it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe

I'm pretty shy as well, so that doesn't help me out much!

Same, but pushing myself to go for things more. I'm always respectful to the other person though, these things take time

I'm trying too. Hence why I'm here. Just gotta actually, you know, start leaving the house now "

Ah it's fine, you can stay in the house, I'll come over lol

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By *ornyH90Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

14 years and then I lost my virginity been fucking ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's now been 10 weeks to the day, actually as I type, 10 weeks to the moment! Not my longest, that would have been when n was married, but it’s starting to get very frustrating now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

12yrs.... I'm making up for lost time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four years, not fussed until about 12 months ago now got my drive back

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

Sigh, if I lived closer and was your type, you wouldn't have that problem hehe

I'm pretty shy as well, so that doesn't help me out much!

Same, but pushing myself to go for things more. I'm always respectful to the other person though, these things take time

I'm trying too. Hence why I'm here. Just gotta actually, you know, start leaving the house now

Ah it's fine, you can stay in the house, I'll come over lol"

Haha smooth

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

5 years ....currently 12 mths and counting

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

3 years way back in the early/mid 2000's...

Currently on a week and a half and gonna have to resolve that soon

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By *over not a fighter69Man
over a year ago

greenock


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is."

God knows why!! Stunner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 years "

Was your serving prison time because 16 years is a very long time haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years livino solitary life

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm currently on 2 months and it's killing me as it is.

God knows why!! Stunner x "

I'm too shy and recently single so I find it difficult. Thank you though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

35 yrs and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’ve almost gone a whole year

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

3-4 years. Currently 10 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 9 months, too long as I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs here.... think about 2 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years 4 months

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

What do you mean by 'sex' exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months. Emotional is an understatement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest I’ve gone without sex after the age of 17 has been around 4 months

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Two years. Sad thing was I was married. The old saying springs to mind. “Couples that play together stay together”.

Guess what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3yrs....way before the internet and the joy of Nokia brick phones...when people met the old fashioned way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had long flight back from holiday so been over 24 hours now!!!

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Maybe 8 weeks. Felt like a lifetime.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Dont be depending on fab to shorten it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently at 15 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest time is the one I am now, this is the 3rd year since 11th july 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About six and a half months..hubby used to be in Army..he went to Belize so didn't see him for all that time..

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